I would like a guy who sticks around when things get tough instead of just walking away.

Awesome :)

Dang ladies, I know I haven't been around for awhile but when did it get so cold in here? I don't remember this site for being the place to come to if you want to get slapped in the face for sharing your feelings.

OP- I'm sorry you went through that, I think we all have at some point and no it's not fun. All you can do is learn from it and ask the important questions before you get naked lol. It's a hard lesson we all learn, never assume. I know it's not always comfortable to ask those questions but it's better than feeling this way, ya know?

We want the same thing that men want. We want someone who puts forth effort to show us they care. We know you guys aren't going to understand everything but acknowledging our feelings and not dismissing them like they are invalid would be nice. We aren't perfect... we KNOW have our moments but just learn to ride the crazy wave with us and try to come out mostly unscathed at the end. We just want someone who will TRY. Effort is all we want guys, seriously. (Well aside from actually being compatible)

It's so hard to find someone you are compatible with, it could take many misses before you get a hit. Don't give up, it's not about you personally but about finding the right person in a sea of wrong.

I still have faith that there are those of us who want to be productive and successful. As much as it seems we are backsliding we have also made great progress (ie women being highly successful in the work place)

LMAO How can it be more common for women if they were married to a man? Based on that alone it's equally as common and your question has zero merit.

What most guys consider to be a "bad boy" could just be a teddy bear inside who looks tough and a "good guy" could end up being a nightmare if he doesn't get what he thinks he deserves by being good.

This question is far too subjective and implies that the asker thinks all women want the same thing.

I take no issue with those who want to look and act young but as your friend learned there are repercussions if not done right. Being young at heart does not mean dismissing your duties as an adult. I find that the more responsible I become the more silly I can allow myself to be at the same time (balance)

ie:

I buy a house and dedicate an entire room in it to nerderies :D


Without the balance you're just a kid who refused to grow up instead of a productive member of society.

Why? Because there's no way to prove you weren't romantically involved before you graduated. You're only 18 so it's a reasonable assumption.

Probably because you already have it set in your head that they are hard to find. There are plenty out there if you can accept they exist.

Sure they do, but they don't like sloppy women who don't take care of themselves. I notice a lot of women complaining about men not wanting bigger gals but when I look at their pictures they look like they just rolled out of bed. Ladies don't let your size be an excuse to let yourself go in other ways.

This

I actually just did a year and a half with the 'rents not too long ago. I had a job, paid (them) rent and my bills. They were kind enough to let me stay while I was saving for and buying a house. Not everyone who lives with their parents is a slouch. I'm a homeowner now (at age 30 all by myself), and they couldn't be prouder.

If you have to google it, it's probably a scammer. Just sayin!

Being a player is a waste of time. The type of women who fall for that crap are a waste of time. Quality > Quantity

There's women folk here... just don't expect them to be in your area LOL

It's a Freudian thing... goes back to breast feeding.

Really dude? No statements to back yourself up with? I have both extensive photography and print experience so "wrong" doesn't cut it with me. Go take your fake picture and snotty attitude somewhere else.

Nope because there are plenty of other people out there who like to do what you do.