Why is it that majority of foriegn people especially American ladies are always divorcing their spouse or having kid(s) outside wedlock?

Wait....why aren't you asking the guys the same.

Men get divorced and have kids too out of wedlock ya know

And it's not solely an American thing

Well...its very common with the ladies. For example here at mingle ladies that I have read their profile what I am seeing is divorced,not married but with kids and I keep asking myself do spouse in Europe,UK do they love marrying and divorcing and even having babies outside wedlock ?

Oh I do. I totally planned to get pregnant while on birth control at 18, and my thought the whole time I planned my wedding was how excited I was that I would be getting divorced some day! Oh wait, no that's not how it happened...be careful making snap judgements, every persons story is different. You don't know until you know, you know? Lol

Ever consider it may be the man who is to blame?

I agree, you can plan your butt off in life and still have things happen that you didn't anticipate.

For a woman to be divorced, there is her man that is divorced too

For a woman to have a child out of wedlock, there has to be a man not married to her that got her pregnant.

It's equal. If you hold women,accountable, hold the men accountable too

As well as in other,countries. You might see mostly Americans here because this is an American based site

I'm still trying to figure out the math here OP.

It still takes 1 man and 1 woman correct?


oops, sorry Kim, just saw your reply

yeah, what yellow says

well..if its common with the lady's then its
common with the men I don't think they
are all marring each other and going to sperm
banks Sweden has the same divorce
rate as the USA and as well as Eastern Europe being
very high as well.

I have also read hundreds of profiles of men who have never been married yet have children and most of the time they state they "live away from home", some have become adults, but some reside with the other parent, being the woman in this case. So it's simply the flip side of the coin.

american culture has less peer pressure and societal pressure forcing couples to stay together

Wait...so people should be forced to stay together?

Hate to tell ya but experts will say it's not healthy

OP is quite misleading!!
Many countries in Africa do go through the same! A very high percentage of couples get babies out of wedlock and marry later on-or not! And extremely a high rate of single parents too...NOT just Americans!
Its all everywhere...

that's what I thought, less birth control.
maybe more single woman abstaining from sex but
the ones that aren't, get pregnant..that would have been my education guess. Right Newbie?

And I did do studies on divorce rates and infidelity around the planet and African has the
best keep records from numerous polls that were taken due to the HIV/AIDS outbreak as far back as '91? on infidelity.The men in Countries polled
had an alarmingly high rate.but the woman was like 2% I believe; going on memory (6 months ago)
In many country's, governments would just not
let the truth out if you had an accurate count.eg) Russian:

Hmmmm don't know where you are getting your statistics about American ladies but you are way off mark from what I know. My children were not out of wed lock.

Am I divorced, not by anyone's choosing but my own, and I will as politely as I can say it if you don't know the circumstances then you have no idea if it was in everyone's best interest or not. At least in this country what is in the best interest of families is what dictates the prevailing decisions and not some archaic standard until death do part so someone can spout elitist standards that are no different where you are from.

Butt if you are a perfected model of chastity and marriage I will gladly hand you the first stone to hurl my way. I doubt you could hit the make with such slanted thinking so I have no fear.

I do suggest you can your sexist anti American rhetoric because I am deeply offended and I have a very long memory when someone directly or indirectly attacks me from prejudice.

So,you ought to coerce people to stay together when it doesn't work out?
What about the Children caught in the middle?

Do you want to tell me none of that is happening in your neck of the woods?

IT TAKE 2 PEOPLE TO MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK AND IT TAKES 2 PEOPLE TO BREAK UP THAT MARRIAGE. HONESTLY IN MY CASE, I WAS THE INNOCENT PARTY. SO LET ME SHOOT A QUESTION BACK AT YOU....WHY DO MARRIED MEN CHEAT? SEE NOW THAT QUESTION RIGHT THERE IS ASSUMING THAT ALL MARRIED MEN CHEAT, IS THAT REALLY A FAIR QUESTION?
BESIDES, IT IS REALLY NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS IF WOMEN HAVE CHILDREN AND ARE DIVORCED OR NOT. DO WE ASK YOU TO PAY OUR BILLS? DO WE ASK YOU TO TAKE CARE OF OUR KIDS?
I HAVE RAISED MY BOY'S ON MY OWN AND I THINK THEY TURNED OUT PRETTY DARN GOOD BUT PLEASE DO NOT THINK IT IS ALWAYS THE WOMAN'S FAULT. I COULD SIT HERE AND COMPLAIN ABOUT MEN ALL THE TIME BUT WHY? IT WILL NOT CHANGE THE PAST AND BESIDES...HE IS NO LONGER MY PROBLEM!!!

OH I FORGOT ONE THING...I AM DIVORCED BECAUSE I COULDN'T SHOOT HIM AND STILL HAVE MY FREEDOM!!!

Well-i'll speak for my country; Many-hell,LOTS/TONS of young women having babies everywhere,out of wedlock!! Several from rape! And we have many safe houses for child mothers!

The highest percentage of couples/families living together are NOT married legally,just cohabiting!
And the birth control we get here is of the lowest range that has extreme side effects and fails too!

And yes,less abstainance...
That's why our HIV rate is going high again,being driven by the youth(especially university students + married men/sugar daddies)!!