First of all I applaud you for making school a priority. She needed more attention than you could give her and if it didn't happen now it would have down the road at some point. You can't expect someone to be your whole world, it's just not practical. Sorry you're hurting but it's probably better this way.

Cheating is cheating regardless of the circumstances. Personally I think finding out he was really into dudes would be less of a blow to my ego.

Well if you can wait until the end of this month you might find a killer deal when the Christmas sales start. Then you can have all your wants in one laptop :)

Chicken and veggies ... Livin that weight watchers life

Intel... You are correct AMD is crap.

I work in IT and we never sell our customers AMD.

You know it :)

Lol! I dunno about tasty... It's been awhile since anyone has checked

Hey Soufie

Is there going to be an open bar at the wedding?

Alright, I'll bite

I have this guy friend who I used to date (briefly) about 5 years ago. We lost contact for awhile and he found me on facebook last year and we have been friends ever since. In February I got dumped by a guy I had been with for 2 years and he really came through as a friend during that hard time. Now that's I'm single and we actually hang out (just as friends) I find that I am still very attracted to him. His friendship has become invaluable to me and I feel like if we become closer things could end the way they did last time.

Do I just let things be the way they are for the sake of keeping my friend?

To be honest I do have rejection issues. I try not to let stop me from going out and getting what I want but sometimes I feel like things are better left the way they are.

Not silly at all... if you're not comfortable with it then they can kick rocks

I'm going to need you to elaborate on "alone with someone"

I don't do well with mentally unstable people. It might be a deal breaker depending on the situation (ie, how long ago and what for)

To be honest I'm not a very emotional person, so a guy being more emotional than me is a bit unnerving.

To be honest I went through this exact thing when I was about 21. He was my best guy friend and ended up getting this chick he barely knew pregnant and married her shortly after. I agreed to be the photographer for his wedding and it was pretty hard on me. After the wedding he had a wife and a baby and no more time for me in his life. I didn't have a choice but to move on but a married man is and should be too focused on his wife to keep you around in any substantial way. I think in a way his wife knew we were close enough that she didn't want me around messing things up for them. It's probably time to move on if you really do have feelings for him.

Well maybe you think it shouldn't matter but to some of us it does. Love is not what makes up the entirety of a relationship. Having a partner in life is about having someone you get along with, relate to and can build a life with. Sometimes a big age difference can be a hindrance as far as having someone mature and capable of being a partner rather than a dependent.

I don't even understand how this is a legit question. Of course you can have a platonic friendship, I have many of them. What kind of a horn dog can't just be friends with someone without wanting to get naked with them? Are you completely ruled by your crotch?

I don't know who that is

LDR's - never again.... I'm not a jealous person so I don't worry about cheating and all that but I do need the person I'm with to be around. I can't be in a relationship if the person isn't physically there.