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House Of Pain...
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Most women have high tolerance for physical pain, yet not so much for emotional unless they have events that build that wall to protect themselves. I think that more we all have become de-sensitized to emotional forgiveness and we simply shut out the emotional.
Whether or not you want to admit it, we all deal with the emotional in our own terms and adapt to suit our lives. |
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I am in Missouri and we had that nasty front go through this evening right after work.
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We have just received reports that there is one death and a missing toddler so please say prayers that everyone is safe this evening.
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers this evening. |
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We had a tornado go through our town this evening and caused some heavy damage, but no casualties. Kind of crazy pulling my car into the garage to hear the warning sirens go off and rushing to the house to get down to the basement.
No damage on the South part of town, but the North end was destroyed. The local car dealership, homes and varied business. The most amazing thing about all of this was those who came out to help. I am so impressed that our community pulled together and made sure everyone was safe. There is the greater good in mankind, in spite of economic turndown and pisspoor leadership. Gotta love America when we have to get back to basics! |
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I went from being the manager of a shelter to now being the: 1. Manager 2. counselor 3. Youth Care Specialist (Hands on, working the floor) 4. Cook 5. Maintenance Man 6. Gardner 7. Supervisor and something else I can't even remember. I work 8 - 5 Mon - Fri normally. Right now I am on my 13th day straight and have worked both weekends, 2nd and 3rd shifts.  I am feeling Obama....not in a very good way.
I hear you! Obama promised change ...and he was voted him in. Pfffffffffft! |
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Wow! With this stimulus plan, I have really been put to task with all of the changes, notifications and all. I have forgotten what 'me time' is and am down right tired of sitting in on legislative sessions already!
Anyone else dealing with the stress of the sudden changes? |
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Why do they call it fast food when they ask you to "park it" and we will bring it out to you on a basic order?
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weight...
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every vegetarian i know is overweight. they eat an abundance of bread, pasta, cheese, etc. meat contains proteins which are essential to your diet and good health...that's why we have pointed teeth, so we can tear sinewy flesh from the bone 
Ugh! I avoid the bread and pasta because I get so bloated. I love my veggies and throw anything on a salad. I don't eat starchy food because it boggs me down and increases the cholesterol counts. I live for my poultry and seafood on a salad any day! |
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That's just cold...
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maybe he's just a broke a$$ and didn't pay his phone bill. either way, bad news
Yep...for him 
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That's just cold...
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Talking to someone for three months from here and we decided to meet today. When I called this morning, his phone was "no longer in service"....so much for ever taking a chance ever again... 
No hun, don't give up just because of a most likely cheater or cheapskate... They should make a Name and Shame Board for here... I already have two names... Just 2, you must be a newbie. LOL I now have 5 pages of blocked members. And Lilbit, at least you didnt waste gas driving somewhere for 2 hours and have the other person not show and never write or call with even a half assed excuse. Yeah, I have chalked it all up and glad that I didn't have to make the effort...am enjoying life this evening with a few cocktails 
Shame on you who have devious profiles....you've apparently got issues. 
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weight...
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Your diet is not the whole picture. You need to remain active.
I watch my diet as I am tied to a desk during the day, but i get out there and walk a couple of miles each day and do not eat red meat. My diet consists of veggies and poultry and al of the other goodies, The only thing that I have cut out are the sweets and red meat and I have maintained my welter weight of 84 lbs for over three years. |
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That's just cold...
Edited by
lil_bit
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Sat 05/09/09 08:09 PM
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Thanks for the replies....it's all good! I enjoy having my own space anyway
Shame on him 
Screw me once; Shame on you Screw me twice: shame on me |
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That's just cold...
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Talking to someone for three months from here and we decided to meet today. When I called this morning, his phone was "no longer in service"....so much for ever taking a chance ever again...
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I'm perfect! Low maintenance and easy to please!
No expectations or demands...will take whatever is put out there.
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Children-less Mothers...
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I think Mom's Day (& Dad's Day, for that matter) is a great holiday. I think our parents should be honored every day...  
But I often think of the "children-less Mothers"...the unsung heros who help to raise other people's children...or women who have lost children due to miscarriage. (I lost my son in-utero) 
I'm not saying that there should be a seperate holiday...but I do think these women should be recognized. Some of my warmest moments have been when an adult child that I helped to raise says "I remember that you were there when my Mom wasn't available"...etc... I've also experienced the pain when a callous woman would say that I wasn't a "Real Woman" since I had never experienced actual childbirth...or I wouldn't know the pain or joy since I had no (living) children of my own...it happens more often than you think. I only bring this up to remind us all that EVERY woman has a story...please appreciate that fact.
Thank you for your words and bringing this to light. Yes, there are some of us who have chosen not to have children for one reason or another...but there are those of us who have been there to raise step-children, neices and nephews and are still haning in there as a surrogate parent without recognition. Shame on the person that told you that you are not a 'real woman' due to the lack of the childbirth experience. Chalk that comment up to total ignorance as she has never experienced any other situation. |
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When you are on Mingle....
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When I am on Mingle...........I am on Mingle
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WHY IN THE HELL ..........
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Do men post pix of themselves that looks like its there mug shot photo from a bar fight or their in a phu*n speedo like that sh*t is sexy 
..........and no my photo is not here, I was once a regular but now I see why I left !!!!
I have to agree with you there. The picture of an angry looking man is not interesting. The shirtless picture is not sexy. The picture of the torsoe with no head is not intriguing. The picture of a tat is a total turn off and send mixed messages. Shall me move on to the handle?
If it has any negative connotations...I quickly move on.
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My Mom just cussed me out
Edited by
lil_bit
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Sat 05/09/09 04:52 AM
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Wow...after all this, i am not feeling so disfunctional any more
I show my love for my Mother daily and I send the "stuff" on special days, such as Mother's Day to make her smile. That's what it's all about! 
Happy Mother's Day to all of you Moms out there
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My Mom just cussed me out
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It's all good anr I know that she loves me. Just lookomg for an excuse to cuss her back...lol
My Mom is the best!
She loves that her kids take are of her
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My Mom just cussed me out
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 I had a Gardening Gourmet Gift Basket delivered to my Mom today for Mom's Day and she just called me to cuss me out for spending money on her.
I kept it practical with a gardening tote complete with tools, gloves, and a few goodies to enjoy. Dried fruit, dipping sauce and pretzels and hand lotion for a bit of pampering after spending time in the garden....and she cussed me out!
I finally told her to enjoy and zippit. Does anyone have to go through this rigor with thier Mom? She makes me fel quilty for spoiling her... But she loves it!
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