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rate my photo
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Very nice pics and profile. Sry to read your getting so discouraged. Maybe you'll meet someone interesting before you give up on the site.
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rate me? lol
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You could fill out your interests section, it will help bring up things to talk about. Besides that it looks good to me, gl
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Love
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If your a shallow gold digger then yea money makes everything better...
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Expectations
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I expect they will be clean and smell good. That is it. Thank you for giving an example of conditional love |
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No, I think it's better to hold back my feelings until I get to know the other person better and see if they're really who I think they are, and not just what I've built them up to be in my head. I've rushed into things in the past, based on pure emotion, and it never failed to explode in my face because I didn't use caution. If the relationship is right and if both parties are committed to making it work, there shouldn't be any rush to "seal the deal." What's the hurry? Unless you think the other person is going to leave if you don't declare your feelings fast enough, and in that case, it's not a healthy relationship anyway. This is an example of waiting until your sure you know that your in love, not an example of knowing your in love and wondering if you should tell your partner or hide it. I agree that its good to make sure you know what your feeling before you act on them |
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am I wasting my time
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Hi everyone. Just wondering is there anything I can do to my profile to make it better Looks like a complete profile to me man, gl |
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Edited by
indignus
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Fri 12/27/13 09:36 PM
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Think of this way dude. Unless you're nuts you're probably not going to be talking marriage after a month of dating and saying I love you after just a few days especially if someone has had plenty of bad experiences is going to send up red flags all over the place. That was pretty much what this one twit I knew did. He hadn't been dating this girl for very long and he was the driving force for them to get married. If the girl had a chance to breath and think about what she was doing then she probably wouldn't have married him and they wouldn't have gone through that divorce. Saying I love you after you've been dating for a while and actually know each other is probably a smarter move instead of trying to evoke emotions that may not be there yet. Pushing someone to say those words is only going to push them away unless they have this ideology based on harlequin romance novels of what love is and fall in love and turn into stalkers. hahahahahaha We'll have to agree to disagree, I'd rather the person I was with just do what felt right and be true to themselves. I'd rather it work or fail based on truth, not put up a front based on societies idea of whats acceptable. If I view someone who thinks they are in love after a few days as a red flag I'd wanna know about it. |
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I think it's possible to scare off someone that cares about you, if you move too quickly. Most things that begin quickly usually blow up just as fast if you rush them towards your idea of a happy ending. So you think its better to hold back how you feel because your afraid you'll be rejected? I don't consider it rushing towards anything, just being honest about how you feel. Would you not want your partner to be honest with you about how they feel? If its not gonna work and the 2 of you aren't on the same page is it not better to find out sooner rather then later? |
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i have been dating a man for 6 months now. we get along great and enjoy our time together. i realized a few months ago that i had fallen in love with him. i have been waiting for him to tell me those 3 little words. i'm afraid to say it first. afraid he doesn't feel the same way about me or it will scare him away. i don't want to lose him. have been patiently waiting. please guys help me understand why he hasn't said it yet. we neither one want to date anybody else. I can't imagine being scared away from someone I care about. So in my opinion if you can scare him away he doesn't care about you and your better off. |
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It's usually best to wait at least a few months into a relationship that you're confident will last. After you've determined that you're in it for the long haul, you should talk to your significant other about your feelings to see if you're on the same page. Ask your partner if he or she could picture a future with you and if he or she feels like you're a good match. By testing the waters, you'll not only find out how your significant other is feeling, you'll also put your feelings on the table and prepare him or her if you do decide to say "I love you. Also, say it in person, rather than over the phone or through e-mail. That way, you can read body language to get a sense of how your significant other is feeling. Taking the time to decide when you're ready to say "I love you" will prove worth the wait. After all, nothing is more meaningful than knowing that someone loves you and you love them in return. This seems more like manipulating the other person in having to decide right there if they love you, it may even force them to lie about it so they don't hurt your feelings. There are is no set of universal rules when it comes to relationships. If someone wants to tell you that they love you they will, if you have to ask them then your forcing the issue. Patients grasshopper! |
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Rate me? :)
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Your profile doesn't say a lot about you besides what your looking for. |
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am I wasting my time
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I've only joined here and I know I'm not the most handsome devil in my pic,but not one view??haha...I need to get out more!!: I think this site shows your profile to more people if you are active. I never got views either but I started playing with the match section and people started viewing me a lot more |
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Expectations
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It seems like one of the biggest problems that people have with relationships is expecting too much from their partner instead of just accepting them for who and what they are and aren't. Unless someone is looking for a conditional love.
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Soulmate
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I don't think we have a soul mate. People seem choose the best of whats available to them which are usually the ones around them, its instinctual.
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Sure I would, if she were interesting. I don't really care what people look like as long as we hit it off
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What's wrong with women?
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Only women understand other women, and they hate each other
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Why do people need religion?
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I see all religions as a means of control and power. Your given a set of guide lines to live by and if you violate that something bad will happen too you when you die. So even if we don't catch you, god will catch you and god knows what you did. More people have died and been horribly tortured in the name of religion than any other group.
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Atheist?
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Sometimes... but not always
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Chivalry
Edited by
indignus
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Tue 12/24/13 06:04 AM
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Chivalry is men treating women like they are weak and inferior, I thought we all wanted to be equals? The Knight's Code of Chivalry was a moral system that stated all knights should protect others who can not protect themselves, such as widows, children, and elders. This is a complete miss-understanding of chivalry. Chivalry recognizes that women have certain strengths and men have certain strengths and making one compliment the other by one leveling the playing field when it is unequal due the strengths of one gender. How is protecting widows, children and elders a bad thing? So women lack the strength to open their door or pay for their share, put on a coat, scoot in their chair, or plan a date so men need to compliment it? What weaknesses do men have that women compliment, I'm having a hard time thinking of one as I have never needed a women I've only ever preferred there company. Protecting widows, children and elders isn't a bad thing, it just has nothing to do with a man spoiling a women who is perfectly capable of taking care of herself because he wants her to like him. |
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Atheist?
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I guess I'm an atheist, but believing in none of that supernatural stuff I also accept that I have control over nothing. So I rely on rational thought to get me through the tough times. Like identifying the cause of the problem and thinking of ways I can improve my situation. Everything ends eventually, whats the difference if its now or later?
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