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Doesn't matter what you call it, once sex enters a relationship the problems and drama are sure to follow
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the heartbreak you feel is actually withdrawal from oxytocin, the hormone that is released when your around the person your in love with that makes you feel all mushy. When you are separated from them the level drops and you feel heartbreak/withdrawal. Try exercising daily, it releases endorphins which will make feel generally happy over time
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guys cant ne faithfull!!!!
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I'm a guy and I am very faithful, plus it takes longer for me to trust a hot girl
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But if women marry men with the hope that they will change, then they must not fall in love. Why would they want to change something they already love?
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What women want in a guy
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Tall, dark, handsome, hung, wealthy, easily manipulated
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Edited by
indignus
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Sat 12/21/13 09:24 PM
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��Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.
~ Albert Einstein |
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Chivalry
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Chivalry is men treating women like they are weak and inferior, I thought we all wanted to be equals?
The Knight's Code of Chivalry was a moral system that stated all knights should protect others who can not protect themselves, such as widows, children, and elders. |
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because all their lives,they're lied to by their parents.that lie is "you're a princess",sorry but i don't think they make princess that d@mn big. to all parents out there,stop lieing to your kids! Lol can't argue with that, I had the same theory |
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So if I meet a girl and I want to get to know her the first thing I have to do is make sure I can afford her, why is that? I have to buy a women dinner or take her some place nice and preferably expensive because if I don't she won't even take the time to get to know me. To me, it seems incredibly vein. ty for clarifying Yellow... With all the replies and many opinions not one of you has answered the question, why do so many women think they are worth so much that they can have a list of what a man needs to do for her in order to be with her. And if he does those things do you fall in love with him, or are you just comfortable with the lifestyle. I can totally understand being attracted to specific personality traits, but what he drives, if he has a job or is a "good job", how much money he has, how tall he is, what he's willing to do for you... what do these things have to do with falling in love with someone? If you really fell in love with someone wouldn't you not have a choice about it, all that other stuff wouldn't matter. To answer you question, not all women have a monetary/material/physical check list...The reasons for those who do could vary from them being shallow, materialistic losers who need a meal ticket to being well heeled, overachievers who are only interested in a pursuing a serious relationship because they are ready to settle down...In other words, there is no specific answer to your question..My advice to you would be to look to yourself...What type of impression are you making, what message are you sending that would make these women feel a need to "confirm" your financial status or reliability before agreeing to date you..If this is happening consistently, it would be more reasonable to assume the problem lies with you, not the women you are "choosing" .... Again, I'm not asking for advice. I'm asking a question, as you quoted, I said "most women" when I clarified. This isn't about my dating experiences, this is about what I see all around me. Stop trying to attack me personally, I didn't ask you to tell me what you think my problem is. Attacking me and taking attention off of the issue doesn't change the fact that the issue is still there. Do you really think I'd raise the question if I were one of the people playing the game? |
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Because you want to impress them that's why you take them to expensive dinners, buy her expensive things and all. Who would've refuse such a tremendous offer, right. But you what, you must change the way you approach or treat a woman, impress them not with material things but with your personality something not tangible, I'm sure they would very much appreciate it. My point was that in order for a man to get a women to get to know him in that sense he is expected to do these things and meet certain criteria which have nothing to do with who he is. Do expensive dinners really impress you? So if one guy thought you were nice and wanted to go for coffee but he was short and average standing next too a guy who was tall, handsome, well dressed, and wanted to take you out to a fancy dinner but you could only choose one you'd choose the tall dark and handsome over the coffee guy because he was more impressive? What if the fancy guy was a boring stock broker and the coffee guy was a honorably discharged war hero who saved your life several times without you ever knowing about it, is the coffee guy still less impressive? And finally, what does being impressed by a resume have to do with who the person is. Based on that mentality your writing people off before you even know who they are... |
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Again, not asking for advice about how to take women out or meet them, just curious about why these things are so important to most women when they have nothing to do with who the person is. Unless your hoping to fall in love with his money, height, appearance or job...
Crystal, I realize that there are probably women out there who are not like that, but I've never seen it for myself. It could be cultural, although I've known women from a few different cultures and this is the one thing they all seem to have in common. Is it possible you don't see it because you date men? |
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ty for clarifying Yellow... With all the replies and many opinions not one of you has answered the question, why do so many women think they are worth so much that they can have a list of what a man needs to do for her in order to be with her. And if he does those things do you fall in love with him, or are you just comfortable with the lifestyle. I can totally understand being attracted to specific personality traits, but what he drives, if he has a job or is a "good job", how much money he has, how tall he is, what he's willing to do for you... what do these things have to do with falling in love with someone? If you really fell in love with someone wouldn't you not have a choice about it, all that other stuff wouldn't matter.
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Edited by
indignus
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Sat 12/21/13 05:02 AM
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CrystalFairy I'm not talking about dating random girls and then getting to know them, I'm talking about taking out girls that the guy already knows. You do realized you judged me when you called me judgmental... welcome to the club.
Not even a cappuccino, why should he have to pay at all? Would you go on a date with a guy who expected you to buy him something? |
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Foul mouth Ladies! LOL
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makes no difference too me unless your swearing at me, in which case I will smile and walk away
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Rate Me, Please
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I don't think you need to change anything
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So if I meet a girl and I want to get to know her the first thing I have to do is make sure I can afford her, why is that? I have to buy a women dinner or take her some place nice and preferably expensive because if I don't she won't even take the time to get to know me. To me, it seems incredibly vein.
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wtf?
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sry to read about how tough it is to meet a man who meets your criteria. If it makes you feel any better its just as difficult to meet a women who doesn't expect a man to pay her for her time. Or manipulate him using sex, guilt, or pride... Or better yet, just to meet a women who can love a man for who he is and not for who she thinks she can turn him into. So don't feel bad, its tough all around.
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