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Topic: Profile pictures with two people
Shaharzad's photo
Tue 12/24/13 11:32 AM
Whould you respond to a profile with two people in it?

no photo
Tue 12/24/13 11:38 AM
That's a great question ..if the profile is attractive then maybe worth finding out who it belongs to ...but be honest if you are not attracted then you can't force yourself ! It's a dopey thing to do in my opinion coz there's a chance you will maybe like the other one in the pic ! Lol

no photo
Tue 12/24/13 11:52 AM
If it's two women together I would. More the merrier.

Shaharzad's photo
Tue 12/24/13 12:02 PM
Edited by Shaharzad on Tue 12/24/13 12:06 PM
I kind of anticipated this respond from men, but women would have a different reaction to seeing two men in a profile picture. I think it's an attempt to get a respond anyways.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 12/24/13 12:02 PM
Well if the second person is a statue I think I would look because it is a creative twist.

But if in the text I am getting a laundry list of what is not wanted would kind of turn me off because if I am not any of those it kind of sounds like I am getting my chops busted for something I didn't do.

Photos of two people are confusing because you are never really sure if that is a lover, friend, or family. Or worse Ex that just can't get out of the way.

But then I do put up photos with others beyond my lead shot because there are people in my life if not currently in my home.

sybariticguy's photo
Tue 12/24/13 12:23 PM
Edited by sybariticguy on Tue 12/24/13 12:24 PM
If the person is identfied appropriately the presence of other people is only an issue for those with feeling threatened and would rather delude themselves into believing that there are no other people in the other persons life and that only you the observer exist. This is immature and reflects insecurity and feelings of inadequacy given the world is inhabited by billions and peope are in and out of each of our lives and these do not have to be a threat just as some are not comfortable with roomates of the opposite sex- again just not able to trust and sort out perceived threats to ones own ego and emotions...

teebee79's photo
Tue 12/24/13 12:52 PM

Whould you respond to a profile with two people in it?

NO! I look past those,profiles completely.
When someone sends a message with 2 people I delete them.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 12/24/13 12:57 PM


Whould you respond to a profile with two people in it?

NO! I look past those,profiles completely.
When someone sends a message with 2 people I delete them.


I'm with you, TeeBee
drinker

Shaharzad's photo
Tue 12/24/13 12:59 PM
If the person does not identifies him/ herself, then you don't know which one is the person in that profile. Has nothing to do with insecurities.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 12/24/13 01:41 PM

If the person is identfied appropriately the presence of other people is only an issue for those with feeling threatened and would rather delude themselves into believing that there are no other people in the other persons life and that only you the observer exist. This is immature and reflects insecurity and feelings of inadequacy given the world is inhabited by billions and peope are in and out of each of our lives and these do not have to be a threat just as some are not comfortable with roomates of the opposite sex- again just not able to trust and sort out perceived threats to ones own ego and emotions...


Sorry I disagree.

I think people have choices and if they don't/didn't want to get involved with me when I had room mates (which I quit doing in my very early twenties) or a dependent children (thank God are Grown and flown) or parent (now passed) living in I don't see that either immature or insecure. Not everyone is into group dynamics in their home life (I sure don't want to live in a commune situation lol).

And the whole thing about opposite sex room mates not a concern? Give me a break. I might have been born on a Thursday just not last Thursday. Maybe it is my misfortune but I have never had a story that a person that was living with and opposite sex room mate
E-V-E-R turned out well. Don't want drama in your life? DOn't invite it.

no photo
Tue 12/24/13 01:57 PM
I think anyone who posts a pic of two people is just being lazy. You can either take another photo, or do a good job of cropping the other person out, if you think you look so amazing in that particular shot. I have a pic where I think I look really good, but it's of me and my sis, so I just cropped her out. Voila! No one has to guess which is me....

no photo
Tue 12/24/13 02:08 PM


If the person is identfied appropriately the presence of other people is only an issue for those with feeling threatened and would rather delude themselves into believing that there are no other people in the other persons life and that only you the observer exist. This is immature and reflects insecurity and feelings of inadequacy given the world is inhabited by billions and peope are in and out of each of our lives and these do not have to be a threat just as some are not comfortable with roomates of the opposite sex- again just not able to trust and sort out perceived threats to ones own ego and emotions...


Sorry I disagree.

I think people have choices and if they don't/didn't want to get involved with me when I had room mates (which I quit doing in my very early twenties) or a dependent children (thank God are Grown and flown) or parent (now passed) living in I don't see that either immature or insecure. Not everyone is into group dynamics in their home life (I sure don't want to live in a commune situation lol).

And the whole thing about opposite sex room mates not a concern? Give me a break. I might have been born on a Thursday just not last Thursday. Maybe it is my misfortune but I have never had a story that a person that was living with and opposite sex room mate
E-V-E-R turned out well. Don't want drama in your life? DOn't invite it.


Yes, to all of this.

indignus's photo
Wed 12/25/13 03:54 AM
Sure I would, if she were interesting. I don't really care what people look like as long as we hit it off

Pinkdiamonds1964's photo
Wed 12/25/13 05:29 AM
It would all depend on how many pictures with more than one person. And if they are of children or parents. I have only one picture with someone else. My buddy Iron Man Rob Conway. NWA World Champion wrestler.

no photo
Wed 12/25/13 07:49 AM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Wed 12/25/13 07:53 AM

Whould you respond to a profile with two people in it?


I might. It would depend more on the message than the photo. But I have always thought it a better idea to have a picture of just yourself as the main photo. Potential partners are wanting to date you, not your ex cut out of the photo, or your family. (except redmist who is apparently a "groupie"). lol

I don;t think it's OK to include photos of the ex anywhere (jmho), and I think it's OK to post a pic with kids or your best buds in the profile but not as the main photo. With the caution that young children's pictures should prolly not be posted anywhere in the internet

no photo
Wed 12/25/13 07:51 AM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Wed 12/25/13 07:51 AM

If it's two women together I would. More the merrier.


figures


no photo
Wed 12/25/13 11:38 AM
My whole thought on this is why?????? Why in the heck would u post a picture of you and someone else as your main profile picture? The whole point is for people to greet and meet you, not your friend or whoever is in the picture. You can post those photos for whoever looks at your profile then. The main photo should just be you, because as much as I hate to admit it. Most people base if they may be physically attracted to someone 1st before putting words into thoughts and sending a message. Hence why I`m in a costume in my picture, because no women would respond to me otherwise if they actually saw what I look like. I`m like that old cheer from school.....U G L Y and I ain't got no alibi......I`m fugly yaaaaa I`m fugly!:laughing:

no photo
Wed 12/25/13 11:45 AM

My whole thought on this is why?????? Why in the heck would u post a picture of you and someone else as your main profile picture? The whole point is for people to greet and meet you, not your friend or whoever is in the picture. You can post those photos for whoever looks at your profile then. The main photo should just be you, because as much as I hate to admit it. Most people base if they may be physically attracted to someone 1st before putting words into thoughts and sending a message. Hence why I`m in a costume in my picture, because no women would respond to me otherwise if they actually saw what I look like. I`m like that old cheer from school.....U G L Y and I ain't got no alibi......I`m fugly yaaaaa I`m fugly!:laughing:


Pfft, now I want to see a better pic of your face. Just because.tongue2

no photo
Wed 12/25/13 12:01 PM

Pfft, now I want to see a better pic of your face. Just because.tongue2

No ya don't! Think of the green creeper on Scooby Doo, then add a beard, take out the green color and that`s what I look like now.bigsmile

izzyphoto1977's photo
Wed 12/25/13 12:04 PM
For the most part if I know who I am talking to then I am more likely to respond or say anything at all.

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