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HELP!
Edited by
Xmegxmisfortunex
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Sat 01/19/08 12:02 AM
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But being alone is also a choice... 
You know, no-one ever states that but me!! I choose to be alone and I honestly don't think its as bad as everyone thinks. I think when you reach a certain point in your life, the good thing is you can say..I don't NEED a man but I would LIKE to have a man in my life!! Then its truly satisfying to know that you are a independent woman. I actually love being single and my life is very content the way it is. I think when you are younger you feel like you have to have someone because all of your friends have someone. When you are older, you don't care what your friends think..you do what you want!! Its your choice and you can be that 3rd wheel and feel ok about it 
you see, i dont mind being alone. ive been the third wheel seince i dont even remember when. but if someone is telling you that they have feelings, someone who you care for and someone you know would do anything for you... i dont know. i may just run with it... and my cousin is married to his best friend, so ehhh, i dont know. things may not work out, but then again, things might... we both usually just date strangers, so maybe being with someone we both know is the right thing. 
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HELP!
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Thats a good question! Could you just be a booty call? Have you had sex with him? I know thats a personal question...but if you have then it kind of ruins my whole plan! IF you have not had sex...heres one way of finding out IF he really wants to have a relationship with you OR if he just wants a booty call. Tell him that you do not want to have sex for awhile UNTIL you feel like you both are secure in the relationship. See how he reacts to this suggestion. If you have had sex...well you just blew my whole plan!! no i havent we both wanna wait it out anyway i think, to be sure things are stable. |
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HELP!
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true words. if emotions could pay my rent, then emotion can be in control. indeeed indeed. |
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HELP!
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sadly this is true,
not the making up of the mind part, but the whole emotions part... and i think that being treated the way he treats me, him making me smile whenever we talk, i dont know... something about this just feels right... thats why i was asking everyones opinion, like... is it possible that he wants to move on? and just waited to ask me out till she left in fear of hurting me? thinking of me before himself? or is that just not possible... i mean i understand that some of you have been here before, but is there maybe some way something good could come out of this? the way we used to joke about how if we were dating? talking about a life, a house, or CHILDREN when we werent even a couple? i dont know... some things seem %100, like we were meant to be together... and he agrees...  i dont know... i just know ive had feelings for him for quite some time, and i kept them quiet till he said "i think im falling for you..." about two months ago, and on new years eve, he said i love you... and i mean, our new years resolution, was to help eachother get over our ex's... and sure enough, 12:am 0n the dot he called me... "i love you, happy new years babe... call me back" i just really dont know...
but okay in this Q im asking, is it possible that he really does wanna move on? |
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true or false
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false the person below me is listening to music always, its what keeps me alive the person above me used to be a metalhead. |
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true or false
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true but my ex gave it to me so im gonna burn it when its not snowy
the person above me has more than a JSH acount for dating/chatting |
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true or false
Edited by
Xmegxmisfortunex
on
Fri 01/18/08 10:15 PM
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trueee
the person below me is looking for someone to have fun with? |
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Topic:
HELP!
Edited by
Xmegxmisfortunex
on
Fri 01/18/08 10:06 PM
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Truth is most guys ard **** heads, He said he loves you now but thats really easy now that his girfriend is leaving. If he didnt want to be with you before because of this girl you deserve better then him now. Dont cut your self short and be his back up plan, you should find a guy that would pick you over anyone. theres another thing... she hadent talked to him seince august untill like two weeks ago, and he told me he loved me long before he talked to her again. and yes, guys are ****heads most of the time... but i know for a fact that he's sick of being ****ed over, and that he knows that i wont do what the others have done to him. as a matter of fact... he's had a worse time with relationships than most chicks i know have, lmao. |
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Topic:
HELP!
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lol.
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Topic:
HELP!
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move on.... or else ur just basically going to be the rebound relationship... and when she comes back to him chances are he will go back with her.... ohh she wont be coming back... not till he's got his mind off of her, lol. |
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HELP!
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see though
theres another complication here, he knows she only "loves him and misses him" because she needs money... and he knows shes a dirtbag of sorts... and he knows that im not... so i really dont know, i forgot to mention that last time, lol. |
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Sex and Christianity
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OKAY.
so, im pretty sure "touching yourself" is NOT against the rules... but if you feel bad about it, go to confession. the priest/pastor whatever he is wont tell anyone, and BAM, no more sin |
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HELP!
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so im in love with my best friend, and he's in love with me, he told me he loved me first... but the thing is... it would be a long distance relationship, and he's still in love with his ex! they've been apart for some time now (a year?) and she has this problem with cheating on her boyfriends with him, and he said he still loves her. well shes moving away, and he's finally asked me to be his girlfriend... is it just because shes leaving and he needs someone to pass the time? HELP?!
 
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Fire Truck
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wow,
im gonna have to tell my brother that one haha. 
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oh crud, i thought checkout time was 1... i have to find my lucky dice!
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lets go drinking again, and maybe we can do whatever it was we did last night again... lmao
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who's awake
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lots of places
lots of faces lol. 
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who's awake
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for 4 in the am, it seems like its only like midnight to me, lol
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who's awake
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in upstate NY?
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coffee?
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