so im in love with my best friend, and he's in love with me, he told me he loved me first... but the thing is... it would be a long distance relationship, and he's still in love with his ex! they've been apart for some time now (a year?) and she has this problem with cheating on her boyfriends with him, and he said he still loves her. well shes moving away, and he's finally asked me to be his girlfriend... is it just because shes leaving and he needs someone to pass the time? HELP?!

Im coming to the rescue !!!!

Ahh, if he still has feelings for her, move on, you will only wind up getting hurt!

my ex did the same thing to me, honestly, don't do it, it'll ruin what you already have, when she comes back into the picture.
They always do.

"he's still in love with his ex!" ... bastard ... definitely in need of punishment ... !!!

so ... what service do you seek?

shall we go with the Basic Plan with pouring dirty little rats all over in his car? or would you like to go for the Extreme Plan with sending him a package of free beers but filled with dog pee?

joking joking ... seriously, I don't think it's a good idea to be with him now ...

move on.... or else ur just basically going to be the rebound relationship... and when she comes back to him chances are he will go back with her....

see though
theres another complication here, he knows she only "loves him and misses him" because she needs money... and he knows shes a dirtbag of sorts... and he knows that im not... so i really dont know, i forgot to mention that last time, lol.

ohh she wont be coming back...
not till he's got his mind off of her, lol.

But yet , he still has feelings for her, run now!!

lol.

trust everyone that has said move on. I just went through that and by trying to work out a situation that the other person has not let go yet. All it's going to do is end up hurtting you. It's a battle you will never win!

Truth is most guys ard **** heads, He said he loves you now but thats really easy now that his girfriend is leaving. If he didnt want to be with you before because of this girl you deserve better then him now. Dont cut your self short and be his back up plan, you should find a guy that would pick you over anyone.

theres another thing...
she hadent talked to him seince august untill like two weeks ago, and he told me he loved me long before he talked to her again.
and yes, guys are ****heads most of the time... but i know for a fact that he's sick of being ****ed over, and that he knows that i wont do what the others have done to him. as a matter of fact... he's had a worse time with relationships than most chicks i know have, lmao.

Everything you've said up to this point is exactly how it happened in my relationship, and when my ex's ex came back, she dropped me like a bad habit. Just don't do it, you deserve better. A friend is okay, but don't ruin the what you already have.

Let me start off by saying, you never want to get involved with your best friend in the first place! You always want to shy away from anything with your friends, you will lose their friendship and its really not worth it.
If he still has feelings for his ex gf and he actually is stupid enough to admit this to you, thats a big red flag! How can you even tell someone else you love them when your still in love with someone else? Could it be to make your ex gf jealous? Maybe he is just playing a game with her so she will come back to him? I think you need to tell him that you only want it kept on the best friends level!! IF you try to have a "relationship" with this guy, you are going to end up getting hurt real fast! I don't think you should walk away..I think you should run and run away fast!
I actually think you already have your mind made up and no matter what anyone says you will try to have a relationship with him. The reason why I say this is because every time someone says something...you respond with why you should do it. So I think you already made up your mind..I just hope you know that you are going to get hurt in the end. BUT I wish you luck and I hope you wise up and walk away and keep the friendship

Jerry Jerry Jerry !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

haha thats what I was thinking

What are you doing?!!! why would you settle for being second pick. You're on a dating site right now. There are tons of guys on here that will treat you better than 2nd rate. If I were you I would cut him off just for playing head games. If he really wanted you like that she wouldn't even be an issue. Girlfriend, do what's good for you.

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