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Topic: Men how do you feel when?
ybcat1's photo
Sat 09/24/11 02:23 PM
Men how do you feel when you meet a woman that you really like? You've meet her, the vibes were great and you want to spend more time getting to know more about her.

Describe what the feeling is like inside when you're meeting her for a date, or waiting for a phone call from her. I know how we women describe how we feel, but I want to know how you describe what you feel.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Sat 09/24/11 04:55 PM
... men have feelings?? surprised surprised



:laughing:

Aries151's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:05 PM

... men have feelings?? surprised surprised



:laughing:


Yes, usually the feeling comes from somewhere in their pants :banana:

ybcat1's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:23 PM

... men have feelings?? surprised surprised



:laughing:


That's what I'm trying to find out. Come on men, get in touch with your feminine side for us.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:26 PM
So........................wanna hump?

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:43 PM


... men have feelings?? surprised surprised



:laughing:


That's what I'm trying to find out. Come on men, get in touch with your feminine side for us.


I've been trying to touch something on the feminine side for a while now.

delilady's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:46 PM
Men feel with their hands!bigsmile

illumastorm's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:48 PM
anxious and nervous, for the first time.

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:48 PM

Men feel with their hands!bigsmile


And aren't most women looking for a guy that's "handy" around the house?

soufiehere's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:49 PM

I've been trying to touch something on
the feminine side for a while now.

And you handle all that face-slapping
really well.

no photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:53 PM
it's like soft cell sang:

Sometimes I feel I've got to, Run way
I've got to, Get away
From the pain you drive into the heart of me
The love we share Seems to go nowhere
And I've lost my light
For I toss and turn I can't sleep at night

Once I ran to you (I ran)
Now I'll run from you
This tainted love you've given
I give you all a boy could give you
Take my tears and that's not nearly...
Oh...tainted love
Tainted love

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:56 PM

... men have feelings?? surprised surprised



:laughing:


rofl rofl

no photo
Sat 09/24/11 06:04 PM

Men how do you feel when you meet a woman that you really like? You've meet her, the vibes were great and you want to spend more time getting to know more about her.

Describe what the feeling is like inside when you're meeting her for a date, or waiting for a phone call from her. I know how we women describe how we feel, but I want to know how you describe what you feel.


When I was younger, there was sometimes a tremendous sense of anticipation, the amazing wonder of a potential yet to be explored. It was irrational, illogical, sometimes even insane, but when I would meet someone I really liked, I wanted nothing more than to do whatever it took to get to know as much as I could about her, to spend as much time as I could with her, and to let her know that I wanted to be a part of her life, and have her be a part of mine. There was an underlying sense of "what this could become"....with a little luck, and patience, and persistence.

Those were the days....

Dozens of relationships later, I am more likely to feel more doubt and skepticism than anything else. No matter how much I like her, and no matter she seems to like me, it's only a matter of time until she starts trying to change me. It's inevitable.

And, as much as I would love to feel that sense of anticipation and wonder and hope again, I just don't think it's feasible. They don't want me, they want the me they think they can turn me into.

JustSomeNerd's photo
Sat 09/24/11 06:15 PM
To me, it depends on how to answer that because different age gave me a different mindset.

Long ago, I used to get anxious and nervous because I wanted things to work so badly that I was thinking about how cautious I was going to be to not screw things up with what I said or did.

Anymore, I am very relaxed because while I hope for the best... in my mind I'm prepared for the worst. I just be myself and if she don't like it, then we weren't meant to be.

If she's the right one... she's gonna be my best friend... and my mind is pretty much clear of any expectations or hopes.

So long answer made short? I keep my thoughts on the moment and when / if she shows or I hear her voice... I'm happy. Very happy.

no photo
Sat 09/24/11 06:17 PM
I just feel happy :)

rara777's photo
Sat 09/24/11 06:20 PM

... men have feelings?? surprised surprised



:laughing:


Men feel with their hands!

shocked scared surprised Wow. Ya learn something new everyday.surprisedscared shocked

I feel like a Hershey candy bar has melted inside of me.

The anticipation of her calling alone makes me nerveous.

The anticipation of going out with her gives me something to look forward to. I also get kind of nerveous and talk a lot.


no photo
Sat 09/24/11 06:24 PM
I will ALWAYS be more like a chick,,,lol,in my ways of feeling at first,,,I am always critical of my everything,,,and very nervous for the first five minutes...THEN,,I am me and no problems at all in my everything...lol,,BUT that first unknowing,,seeing her,,her seeing me,,,THAT initial first five minutes,,,I am just going to be that SAME,,as if in a job interview,,,,,lol,
Once I get over a few sentences to them,,I'm great,,,Heck if I know why I'm that way,,,but been THAT for all of my life.....blushing



slaphead What a nerd,,,,,laugh :banana:

krupa's photo
Sat 09/24/11 07:14 PM
It makes me feel like a goofy kid back in eight grade. So nervous and happy....I get absolutely retarded when I am happy in love.

ybcat1's photo
Sat 09/24/11 07:24 PM


Men how do you feel when you meet a woman that you really like? You've meet her, the vibes were great and you want to spend more time getting to know more about her.

Describe what the feeling is like inside when you're meeting her for a date, or waiting for a phone call from her. I know how we women describe how we feel, but I want to know how you describe what you feel.


When I was younger, there was sometimes a tremendous sense of anticipation, the amazing wonder of a potential yet to be explored. It was irrational, illogical, sometimes even insane, but when I would meet someone I really liked, I wanted nothing more than to do whatever it took to get to know as much as I could about her, to spend as much time as I could with her, and to let her know that I wanted to be a part of her life, and have her be a part of mine. There was an underlying sense of "what this could become"....with a little luck, and patience, and persistence.

Those were the days....

Dozens of relationships later, I am more likely to feel more doubt and skepticism than anything else. No matter how much I like her, and no matter she seems to like me, it's only a matter of time until she starts trying to change me. It's inevitable.

And, as much as I would love to feel that sense of anticipation and wonder and hope again, I just don't think it's feasible. They don't want me, they want the me they think they can turn me into.



Lex, as I read the first part my heart felt so warm. I was thinking ahh, how sweet and tender, then the last part, well.... :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: I believe there is a woman who will love and never want to change you because you are unique just the way you are.

ybcat1's photo
Sat 09/24/11 07:31 PM
I never knew guys could get nervous like we do. I always thought guys were thinking, ok I like her now I wonder how fast can I get the goods?laugh

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