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Let’s say you became friends with someone that was extremely dependant.
This person wanted you to be there whenever they felt ill or they just wanted company... Then comes the day YOU feel ill and just want the company only to have the other codependent person tell you they don't want you around 
Would you remain friends? Could you even consider the other person a "friend" if all they were doing was using you? 
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keep on using me,until you use me up
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keep on using me,until you use me up
Not for sex, fool  
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Edited by
Voluptuous
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Fri 10/10/08 06:17 PM
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I ask because I know someone that is stuck on STUPID and believes their actions are justified.
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keep on using me,until you use me up
Not for sex, fool
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keep on using me,until you use me up
Not for sex, fool
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I couldn't. I had this happen before, and while I tried to still be friends with them, all they did was keep using me, taking advantage of my kindness. I finally just broke away from them and never looked back. It stressed me out, made me insane at times, and when they were gone my life got a little easier.
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Edited by
briancarr
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Fri 10/10/08 06:27 PM
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now that you see their true colors, its your fault if you allow yourself to get caught up in theur selfish world
But i guess the Drama is to much too pass up
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..as long as I want you baby, its alright...
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I couldn't. I had this happen before, and while I tried to still be friends with them, all they did was keep using me, taking advantage of my kindness. I finally just broke away from them and never looked back. It stressed me out, made me insane at times, and when they were gone my life got a little easier. THANK YOU! 
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Did they say the words, "I don't want you around?"
If so, I think you know the answer to this question. |
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Hell no
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I'm thinking, why would you want to be friends if they said they don't want you around. What the point?
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Know that you see their true colors, its your fault if you allow yourself to get caught up in theur selfish world But i guess the Drama is to much too pass up
No I dropped this person as soon as their selfish words came out of their mouth. I can't stand DRAMA and I know good and damn well NOT to be used. The only issue I have is this person thinks I'm the one in the wrong. They think I "flew off the handle" I wasn't even mad; I calmly said "I'm done". |
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I found a profile of a woman i liked who was confined to a wheel chair with cerebal palsy, she only answered me with one short response, then would never read my messages or reply i dont know what happened.
Or what would have happened. Everyone uses others for things, I think it depends on the extent of the givin and the takin. |
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I'm thinking, why would you want to be friends if they said they don't want you around. What the point? THANK YOU!
Now all I have to do is email the link to this thread so he can fu@k off... |
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Know that you see their true colors, its your fault if you allow yourself to get caught up in theur selfish world But i guess the Drama is to much too pass up
No I dropped this person as soon as their selfish words came out of their mouth. I can't stand DRAMA and I know good and damn well NOT to be used. The only issue I have is this person thinks I'm the one in the wrong. They think I "flew off the handle" I wasn't even mad; I calmly said "I'm done". Then they are just trying to make you feel low, bad in the hopes that you will rethink what you did so that they don't lose you. I mean, once a user loses someone that they know they can "abuse" then they have to look for someone else to fill that role. |
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Did they say the words, "I don't want you around?" If so, I think you know the answer to this question. Our conversations consisted of him calling , whining and saying, "I don't feel good...come over...watch a movie with me..." I did all of these things because I enjoyed the company. It was nice having someone to hang out with. One morning I woke up with a HEAD ACHE and told him I don't feel good to which his reply was "Oh, you can't come over here" ...
Are you fu@kin kidding me?
I AM DONE! |
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I dont think I could be, I have had friends that do me that way, but such is life. I just have to realize that they are never going to change and move on with my life.
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Then they are just trying to make you feel low, bad in the hopes that you will rethink what you did so that they don't lose you. I mean, once a user loses someone that they know they can "abuse" then they have to look for someone else to fill that role. ...EXCELLENT POINT TO BRING UP! I said the SAME thing. I am so happy he will read it from others perspectives |
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