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Tue 03/04/08 08:15 PM
laugh laugh well where are you then?

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Tue 03/04/08 08:02 PM



*hugg* them stalkers will get you everytimelaugh laugh smokin and it is biasedflowerforyou

thanks peachie and yeah my stalker won't leave me alone but anyway I'm sorry if I was rude to anyone on here, just all this stuff gets to me after a while. and thanks I think I had a brain fart or whatever it's called.

I thought you liked me stalking you


Oh noes! noway laugh hey mike whatcha up to?

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Tue 03/04/08 08:00 PM

*hugg* them stalkers will get you everytimelaugh laugh smokin and it is biasedflowerforyou

thanks peachie and yeah my stalker won't leave me alone but anyway I'm sorry if I was rude to anyone on here, just all this stuff gets to me after a while. and thanks I think I had a brain fart or whatever it's called.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:57 PM
Edited by sexykarebear on Tue 03/04/08 07:58 PM



you know what i find funny...everyone is sticking up for this man when he has done wrong...i know people make mistakes but im so sick of people messing up and then coming to ask for advice...everyone is pissed at me because im being honest...what ever happened to doing the right thing


no everyone is pissed because you aren't being honest you are being biast and petty and I hate people like that. It's rude and judgemental, obviously he knows what he did was wrong and he's sorry for that, but whne people are angry about something they will do whatever it takes to figure out the truth.


do you need a hug..sounds like you have issues as well...im not rude...im honest


actually I think I could use a hug, I have had the worst day of my life, my stalker won't leave me alone and people are irritating me by calling this guy names, and I think I spelled it wrong is it biased? or biast?

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Tue 03/04/08 07:56 PM


And to those who say I'm whining, when you get down as low as me, you can expect me to help you: because I am a good person, whether you are or not.


Thanks for the offer. I think if I get down as low as you, I 1) won't come to a dating message board to solve my problems and 2) won't be asking advice from a kid whose adult way of dealing with issues is to hack someone's email and spy on them.

laugh laugh laugh


hello? Relationship advice topic, he's asking for advice not attention he'd be somewhere else for that.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:55 PM

you know what i find funny...everyone is sticking up for this man when he has done wrong...i know people make mistakes but im so sick of people messing up and then coming to ask for advice...everyone is pissed at me because im being honest...what ever happened to doing the right thing


no everyone is pissed because you aren't being honest you are being biast and petty and I hate people like that. It's rude and judgemental, obviously he knows what he did was wrong and he's sorry for that, but whne people are angry about something they will do whatever it takes to figure out the truth.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:51 PM





I'm asking for help as to what to do because I have no experience so i don't know what to do. I don't need help with my mistake, I know what I did and how bad it was.


You don't want help, dude....you obviously want attention and you got it. Don't you have someone's email to hack? laugh laugh laugh laugh

what the hell you are such an a ss seriously I know how this is, he has fu cked up and he needs help on how to deal with the situation, I do this too! Gosh. Seriously honey ignore them, I'm pretty sure you know what to do, you're just reluctant cuz you don't know if it's the right thing to do.



im not an ass....im honest...the truth hurts...but hell i see we have alot of potential hackers who agree with what he did...yay for privacy invaders...NOT!!!!


You can go fly a kite, tell me how the wind is hunny.


it's not a privacy invasion she obviously gave him her password, seriously. He came to everyone for advice on how to beg for fogiveness or not but what are you guys doing? being rude and calling him a hacker. geez let's hear for the a ss holes of the world yeehaw. somehow I am not amused noway

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Tue 03/04/08 07:42 PM

My 2 cents...
Since you obviously knew her email account info, which is something she must have allowed you to have, and being that you behaved altruisticly in wanting to solve a problem, you have nothing to feel badly about for your actions except that you could have thought to ask her before checking out the problem you thought she had. Had she been honest with you that she felt smothered before this came about, perhaps you two could have come to adjust the boundaries of the relationship. This reflects on her character more than yours. You are new at relationships, but she had relationship experience and did you this way. Unfortunate situation, but at least you got to see her character, or lack thereof, early inyo it. What's she going to do any time you hit a snag??? Run back to the old BF or find another... Better off to accidentally find out the truth than keep being manipulated and misled.


I agree whole heartedly thanks for saying the same thing I did.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:40 PM


I'm asking for help as to what to do because I have no experience so i don't know what to do. I don't need help with my mistake, I know what I did and how bad it was.


You don't want help, dude....you obviously want attention and you got it. Don't you have someone's email to hack? laugh laugh laugh laugh

what the hell you are such an a ss seriously I know how this is, he has fu cked up and he needs help on how to deal with the situation, I do this too! Gosh. Seriously honey ignore them, I'm pretty sure you know what to do, you're just reluctant cuz you don't know if it's the right thing to do.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:37 PM
ok one, ignore these people trying to tell you what a horrible person you are and listen up, if she gave you her email passwod then she can't say **** about invading her privacy, she practically handed it over on a silver platter, and I understand the whole first relationship **** up, but if you guys still have feelings for each other have a night where you guys order pizza or something and talk it out, you will get throught this, I have faith in you, everyone ****s up every once in a while, it's how you dig yourself out of the hole that fixes the situation.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:19 PM




I call him a kid but he's 20, and anyway, he's kind of mentally challenged and stuff, but I don't particularly like him, but he calls me ALL THE TIME! I seriously regret giving him my number, but he was new and looked kinda lonely so I thought hey give him someone to talk to, but apparently even though we have only seen each other once, he calls me all the freaking time and talks only about himself never lets me get a word in. And now I find out he likes me "more than a friend" and is sending me his love and care, and apparently all of his heart so he wrote in a message. Help?

Honey your 18...hes older than you....

I know but he acts like a kid so he's a kid in my eyes.

Ding Ding Ding...its time for you to be an adult

*glare* I am being an adult. I told him that I wasn't interested I'm not his type and that I have a bf, which I kinda do.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:13 PM


I call him a kid but he's 20, and anyway, he's kind of mentally challenged and stuff, but I don't particularly like him, but he calls me ALL THE TIME! I seriously regret giving him my number, but he was new and looked kinda lonely so I thought hey give him someone to talk to, but apparently even though we have only seen each other once, he calls me all the freaking time and talks only about himself never lets me get a word in. And now I find out he likes me "more than a friend" and is sending me his love and care, and apparently all of his heart so he wrote in a message. Help?

Honey your 18...hes older than you....

I know but he acts like a kid so he's a kid in my eyes.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:12 PM

you did the honorable thing by being a friend to this new and apparantly lonely kid. your heart was and still is in the right place. the only thing is this kid is "energy focused" on you in a somewhat misguided way.

help him to find more people to be his friend or people he can hangout with. some people suggested you tell him that your friendship is only friendship and not to be misread to mean anything else.if that fails then change your number.. or monitor your calls.


lol I do screen them, people tell him I'm not home or in the shower when he calls, but he just called me like ten mins ago and I felt bad so I answered and told him, honey I have a bf, lol and I feel kinda bad, but seriously we've only met once, I haven't seen him since that first day.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:04 PM


I call him a kid but he's 20, and anyway, he's kind of mentally challenged and stuff, but I don't particularly like him, but he calls me ALL THE TIME! I seriously regret giving him my number, but he was new and looked kinda lonely so I thought hey give him someone to talk to, but apparently even though we have only seen each other once, he calls me all the freaking time and talks only about himself never lets me get a word in. And now I find out he likes me "more than a friend" and is sending me his love and care, and apparently all of his heart so he wrote in a message. Help?

Be straight forward with him. You put yourself in the situation because you felt bad for him. Now you are feeling bad for yourself. Don't pretend you are something you are not. If you don't particularly like him then you should have never played "nice girl" and gave him your number. I know guys that are like that without the handicap. Take better judgement in giving your number out.


I know, that's a good policy, but I am a nice girl I can't help that. I just can't help but feel sorry for some people.

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Tue 03/04/08 07:02 PM
ok update, he just called me and I told him I had a bf and he said ok, I thought I'd give it a shot, can we still be friends? then are you sure you don't want to? and I'm like yeah james I have a boyfriend and he's like so? ugh!

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Tue 03/04/08 06:57 PM

A car with a big trunk, a shovel, and about 4 hours of your time, that's all you need.

laugh laugh you going to help me with that?

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Tue 03/04/08 06:56 PM
I have! I even told him I had a bf thinking that would scare him away but he just called me later! gah! >.< It's just so irritating.

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Tue 03/04/08 06:54 PM
I call him a kid but he's 20, and anyway, he's kind of mentally challenged and stuff, but I don't particularly like him, but he calls me ALL THE TIME! I seriously regret giving him my number, but he was new and looked kinda lonely so I thought hey give him someone to talk to, but apparently even though we have only seen each other once, he calls me all the freaking time and talks only about himself never lets me get a word in. And now I find out he likes me "more than a friend" and is sending me his love and care, and apparently all of his heart so he wrote in a message. Help?

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Tue 03/04/08 06:49 PM
Edited by sexykarebear on Tue 03/04/08 06:50 PM

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Tue 03/04/08 06:49 PM
noway I thought of a red hammer.....noway

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