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its all about me and them boobies..you mean women have more than that? hmm personalities, hobbies, you know, things that don't actually involve nudity? |
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Ok, simply put, if you're more forward with him, that's going to signal to him you're good with "more", which is a gentle encouragement for him to open up to you. Open up those lines of communication and things will progress naturally. :) oh so basically, show him what I want and maybe that would get the picture and stop holding back? |
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hell, just show me and brimstone your boobies and we'll call often No, I don't understand why it's always the show me your boobies and I'll do this, there is more to a woman than her breasts this was the whole thing with my topic, gah WHAT? 
Why the hell aren't I notified about these things!!!!!!! 
 It was like if they're fake then ugh nevermind, I was just curious if they would be considerd fake, because would that be all men were interested in. but whatever, I just get asked to show my breasts a lot and it gets irritating.
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why would it be for my benefit, and I've been thinking the same thing, because he is always showing signs of wnating to move faster but always stops, and I never understood why. So he doesn't scare you off. He's likely trying to be a "nice guy" because he likes you and doesn't want to pressure or offend you. If you want things to move faster, you might be best served by being more forward. If you're good with the pace, lean back and enjoy the ride. I'm not a forward girl at all! I'm so shy he usually kisses me first or touches me first you know? I just wish he'd tell me what he wanted without being so afraid You know the phrase, "If you want a friend, you have to be a friend"? How about "To get respect, you have to give respect"? Same thing here. ok brain must be off, cuz that made no sense lol |
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 <----- big smiley face, used to do major shift work, hated it!
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hell, just show me and brimstone your boobies and we'll call often No, I don't understand why it's always the show me your boobies and I'll do this, there is more to a woman than her breasts this was the whole thing with my topic, gah |
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why would it be for my benefit, and I've been thinking the same thing, because he is always showing signs of wnating to move faster but always stops, and I never understood why. So he doesn't scare you off. He's likely trying to be a "nice guy" because he likes you and doesn't want to pressure or offend you. If you want things to move faster, you might be best served by being more forward. If you're good with the pace, lean back and enjoy the ride. I'm not a forward girl at all! I'm so shy he usually kisses me first or touches me first you know? I just wish he'd tell me what he wanted without being so afraid |
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Why some guys just don't call? 
I hate that! I'm still waiting for my guy to call, he told me he would call me in the morning and what time is it now? hmmmm? 1:23 morning is over! geeez makes me so irritated. I barely ever get phone calls. |
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if you gave me your keys
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 sorry removing my head outta da gutter babe...i will be doing the driving...trust me...you can ride the big top lol I was thinking the same damn thing, I was like wait what?!?!?! ew |
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well at one time my uncle would say that implanted breasts felt fake like you could tell and they were disgusting. I just don't know what to say so I'm lost and I've had one bf in my whole life. One in december, but now I ahve someone, but he wants to go slow and stuff so that's confused me and this whole surgery thing has made me practically go nuts so much stress. (It's scary the stuff you learn when you listen to CNN 8 hours a day.) I remember hearing on the news some months back that the FDA approved silicone gel implants. These have a more natural shape and feel because the gel is closer to breast material than saline. I tell you, though, everyone I dated that had implants had saline and while there was some difference, it wasn't enough to bug me, much less gross me out. I think you'll be fine. Y'know, your guy might be wanting to (or claiming to want to) take things slowly for your benefit more than his. why would it be for my benefit, and I've been thinking the same thing, because he is always showing signs of wnating to move faster but always stops, and I never understood why. |
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It's reconstructive surgery NOT plastic surgery!! Women who have masectomies from cancer do it too. It's not a vanity issue. Be proud of who you are!!! There's only one of you. 
Thanks! And I still have one last surery to go through in 2 1/2 months. The surgery and healing are not easy things to go thru. Be proud of those scars. You earned them! (But I think they make those scars so microscopic now  )
Yeah they use the dissolving stiches for those and the first surgery's scar was practically white by the time they got around to this surgery, but I'm worried about the left side, all the stiches! I'm afraid that one won't be so nonexistant 
I've had gallbladder surgery. Some women have had C-sections. It's part of whom we are but it is NOT who we are. This surgery doesn't determine who you are. Good luck with everything, sexykarebear. It will all work out in the end.
I hope so too, and I hope your surgery went ok and no complications were found! and thanks, I always thought it made me sorta superficial because I wanted them to look normal. |
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never give anyone the power to lower your self esteem nor your self worth. those that label are usually lacking
I've had the lowest self esteem since I was 13, people have called me ugly and fat my whole life, and this surgery just made me plummet I'm just afraid that it would make everything worse you know? I think it is a self esteem issue not just implants. find a way to bring the self esteem up. i'm sure you can think of a lot of positive affirmations for yourself. that is a good step to start rebuilding self esteem. no one can make you feel good about yourself...it comes from with in you. i have NO doubt you can find a lot of positive things to counteract the negative In my life? Not so much. I have a few good friends, a good guy, and a college education (still coming though lol). But really that's about it. how about other things...good heart, good friend, kind, beautiful eyes, the fact that you are going to college. there are sooooooooooo many other things i know you can think of. and why do you think you have a good guy??? there is something about you there....or good friends...there are reasons they are good and are with you. find out yourself...not what they see in you though
well besides the fact that he NEVER calls me back when he says he would, he truly cares about me in a way that no one else does, and he kisses me when I'm feeling sad. and yeah I've heard good heart before, kind beautiful eyes? haven't heard that one lol. and thanks, you are really nice! |
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them darn lucky socks!!!
lol and I'm not even wearing any!lol |
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It's reconstructive surgery NOT plastic surgery!! Women who have masectomies from cancer do it too. It's not a vanity issue. Be proud of who you are!!! There's only one of you.
Thanks! And I still have one last surery to go through in 2 1/2 months. The surgery and healing are not easy things to go thru. Be proud of those scars. You earned them! (But I think they make those scars so microscopic now )
Yeah they use the dissolving stiches for those and the first surgery's scar was practically white by the time they got around to this surgery, but I'm worried about the left side, all the stiches! I'm afraid that one won't be so nonexistant
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It's reconstructive surgery NOT plastic surgery!! Women who have masectomies from cancer do it too. It's not a vanity issue. Be proud of who you are!!! There's only one of you.
Thanks! And I still have one last surery to go through in 2 1/2 months. The surgery and healing are not easy things to go thru. Be proud of those scars. You earned them! (But I think they make those scars so microscopic now )
Yeah they use the dissolving stiches for those and the first surgery's scar was practically white by the time they got around to this surgery, but I'm worried about the left side, all the stiches! I'm afraid that one won't be so nonexistant
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prove them all "wrong" I say 
here's to you skb!!!!! good luck to you Thanks everyone for your kind words and advice, you guys rock my socks!! 
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never give anyone the power to lower your self esteem nor your self worth. those that label are usually lacking
I've had the lowest self esteem since I was 13, people have called me ugly and fat my whole life, and this surgery just made me plummet I'm just afraid that it would make everything worse you know? I think it is a self esteem issue not just implants. find a way to bring the self esteem up. i'm sure you can think of a lot of positive affirmations for yourself. that is a good step to start rebuilding self esteem. no one can make you feel good about yourself...it comes from with in you. i have NO doubt you can find a lot of positive things to counteract the negative In my life? Not so much. I have a few good friends, a good guy, and a college education (still coming though lol). But really that's about it. |
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never give anyone the power to lower your self esteem nor your self worth. those that label are usually lacking
I've had the lowest self esteem since I was 13, people have called me ugly and fat my whole life, and this surgery just made me plummet I'm just afraid that it would make everything worse you know? Just my opinion but take a step back and view the entire situation from an outsiders point of view. *We are all responsible for how we feel and how "we" allow others to make us feel.* If you take that power back you and only you will be in control/charge of your happiness.
I guess that would be true, but my whole life, everyone has stepped all over and for fear of making anyone angry by saying something back I just accept that their opinion is right and not say anything. I guess it comes from having a grandfather whom you lived with who was a colonel in the air force who believe all women were paracites and was polish lol you learn to accept what they say and never stand up for yourself. trust me if they get mad, it sounds like a personal problem (on them) not you! 
opinions are like noses we all have one doesnt make one right and the other wrong as for your grandfather (no disrespect) but WTF!!! lol keep posting in the forums - trust me all these people will boost your self esteem and show ya the ropes. Life is great, but it is also what we make of it. That's true, I guess I am just thinking too hard on the surgery not thinking really what it would mean to me and to my life, It would make me more confident, I just have to lose my fat and I could actually have a high (not too high of course) self eteem. and my grandfather is kinda strange I know, he thinks just because my dad was a bit of a lazy guy and I'm related to him I will never amount to anything. same for my blood sister. |
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It's reconstructive surgery NOT plastic surgery!! Women who have masectomies from cancer do it too. It's not a vanity issue. Be proud of who you are!!! There's only one of you.
Thanks! And I still have one last surery to go through in 2 1/2 months. |
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who's got a Happy word
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whenever I'm feeling down I always think of the phrase crazy sexy cool and it usually makes me happy.
but then again I'm weird.
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