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sexykarebear
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Fri 04/04/08 12:36 PM
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I had to get breast reconstruction surgery and I am still in the process of completing it. In the process, I had to get implants, but it's for a birth defect and that's the only way to fix it, would that mean that they're fake and no one would want them? I'm really confused on this and sorta sad that I did it because I am so not fake, but my breasts might be...please help.
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I had to get breast reconstruction surgery and I am still in the process of completing it. In the process, I had to get implants, but it's for a birth defect and that's the only way to fix it, would that mean that they're fake and no one would want them? I'm really confused on this and sorta sad that I did it because I am so not fake, but my breasts might be...please help. No sunshine, you are and should certainly not be judged by your boobs... those that do judge you are the real 'boobs' good luck |
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IMO....I don't think someone with breats implants is "fake". fake to me is an attitude. many have them fo a lot of reasons. some guys like them, some don't. be happy with you are is my suggestion.
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I am so not fake, but my breasts might be...please help. Bah. They're not fake. They're you. They're just parts of you you weren't born with. No, it doesn't mean nobody's going to want them. I've dated a few women with implants and it was never an issue. |
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Be proud of who you are and what you have hunny!!
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When you meet that one true love... they will accept you just as you are. They will not say.. nope I cant be with her cause her boobs arent real. If they do, they are not the one. We all have faults. The person that falls in love with us, does so faults and all. There is no one that is perfect.
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Na don't even worry about it. It's for a legitimate reason. I don't think you were fake. And, anyone who does can p*ss off lol.
-Don |
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The right guy will understand and accept.
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I'm just afraid they would because I see celebrities getting implants because they have small breasts, but I didn't I had Ds but they had not bottom breast tissue and the right was an A. So I'm just super confused, I like that they look normal now, but I don't want to be labled a bimbo or anything liek that just because I got them done.
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never give anyone the power to lower your self esteem nor your self worth.
those that label are usually lacking
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Thanks guys, I've just been so confused, I'm kinda weird I guess and I don't want people to look at me funny because of this.
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I had to get breast reconstruction surgery and I am still in the process of completing it. In the process, I had to get implants, but it's for a birth defect and that's the only way to fix it, would that mean that they're fake and no one would want them? I'm really confused on this and sorta sad that I did it because I am so not fake, but my breasts might be...please help. For situations like that plastic surgery is acceptable. IMO, that's the reason they have plastic surgery. That's not being fake at all.
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I'm just afraid they would because I see celebrities getting implants because they have small breasts, but I didn't I had Ds but they had not bottom breast tissue and the right was an A. So I'm just super confused, I like that they look normal now, but I don't want to be labled a bimbo or anything liek that just because I got them done. anyone that labels someone based on something like that...isn't worth it. it's all about if you are fake inside...not implants, coloring hair...even using make up could be considered fake I guess. it's all who you are inside. you have nothing to worry about. if someone judges your...just be proud of who you are |
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never give anyone the power to lower your self esteem nor your self worth. those that label are usually lacking
I've had the lowest self esteem since I was 13, people have called me ugly and fat my whole life, and this surgery just made me plummet I'm just afraid that it would make everything worse you know? |
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would that mean that they're fake and no one would want them? 
not........wanting..........boo........boo.............I can't even bring myself to say the words....... 
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I had to get breast reconstruction surgery and I am still in the process of completing it. In the process, I had to get implants, but it's for a birth defect and that's the only way to fix it, would that mean that they're fake and no one would want them? I'm really confused on this and sorta sad that I did it because I am so not fake, but my breasts might be...please help. No sunshine, you are and should certainly not be judged by your boobs... those that do judge you are the real 'boobs' good luck Well said! 
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I don't want to be labled a bimbo or anything liek that just because I got them done.
I don't think that's necessarily a universal attitude anymore. A girl at work, very smart, very responsible, a wife and mother of two got implants and it wasn't even for corrective or reconstructive reasons. She just decided she wanted them for herself. I don't think any less or more of her for it. |
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well at one time my uncle would say that implanted breasts felt fake like you could tell and they were disgusting. I just don't know what to say so I'm lost and I've had one bf in my whole life. One in december, but now I ahve someone, but he wants to go slow and stuff so that's confused me and this whole surgery thing has made me practically go nuts so much stress.
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never give anyone the power to lower your self esteem nor your self worth. those that label are usually lacking
I've had the lowest self esteem since I was 13, people have called me ugly and fat my whole life, and this surgery just made me plummet I'm just afraid that it would make everything worse you know? You shouldn't worry about low self esteem. You shouldnt have it at all. Your very attractive! So  lol.
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lol I have heard that once or twice in the very year alone. Thanks though.
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