Well 1st I'll say #3
Then I'll go with #5
But mostly and lastly I truly enjoy #7

((((((LAMOM)))))I know we haven't shared to many forums topics together,
but I've always admired you warmth, graciousness, humor and supportive
way you have ingraciated this site.

I wasn't aware of your illness, but I'm sure it is something that will
need your complete attention and positiveness for, so stay strong and
remain focused on your journey.

Most of all believe that God is carrying you when things become
difficult and that you are his child and he and his angels will help you
get through.

Best Wishes,

Benzy

Chris,

Death is never easy to deal with, but when one dies unexpectantly
sometimes there is a greater sense of emptiness because you did'nt have
a chance to say goodbye and or I love you.

I don't know your religious beliefs but if you do believe in God then
take comfort in prayer and pray that her spirit is flying high and free
of this world and feel that she is with you every day of your life,
walking besides you ,laughing with you, crying with you and loving you
just the way she did when she was physically here with you.

Enjoy the memories you guys have shared and if you have anything of hers
that you have shared together hold on to it and when your emotions
overwhelm you, take comfort in this item and feel her presence in your
life. Allow yourself to cry because crying is therapuetic....It's OK.

Honor her memory by holding your head up and being the best you can and
when success or hard times come into your world,share these experiences
with her because she will always be with you in your mind,and heart.

My best to you and her family.

God Bless

Overwhelmed

As an African American woman who grew up in a time when if your hair was
not straight or your skin not light enough( almost pale in
complexion)you were compared to monkey's and ape's.

I have family members who were constantly referred to as Nappy Headed
and made to feel ashamed of the texture of hair God graced them with.
Not only are they (as adults) ashamed of this texture of hair, but of
their complexion as well. And in hopes of being accepted by this society
have use chemicals for both hair and skin lightining.

Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson do not speak for the entire Af. Amer.
nation at all, However this is something that is in the underlying core
of America (racism)They just happen to have the portal of opportunity to
reach more in a faster method than someone who is a regular Joe.

And for Imus to so callously and non-chalantly make such degrading
statement in regards to young women who had to fight all kinds of
barriers to attain the priviledge of attending such a school of
prestige, to have a chance to play a game that has been male dominated
for centuries is one hell of an outstanding accomplishment and should be
commended instead of degraded. His comments are unequivically and
inherently wrong.

What we still don't want to accept, is that America still has a way to
go when dealing with people of color. Even though Imus has done things
for charity and yes some have gone to Afr. Amer. causes he has no right
to jokenly or whatever he choses to say he meant, make those statements.

Most of the major corporation have had their hands in slavery and if
suspending him or releasing him from his contract is a small way of
making amends then I'm sure we accept this gesture.

Imus is a man of great wealth so I'm sure he will remain on top of his
game and if he chooses to do his own thing on the airways then he will,
one would hope that he takes into consideration the effects of such
comments about any race or nationality.

I sincerely wish him the best of luck and for the population who cannot
understand the response to his situation, may they have the opportunity
to place themselves in the others shoes and experience how it can make a
person feel.

These young women are intelligent and capable of responding to any
questions without anyone prompting them to do so, I'm sure putting their
thoughts on paper and/or verbalizing their desire to attend Rutgers as
well as academic excellence,opened the doors for them, lets not take
that away from them, they didn't deserve the comments simply because
they lost a game.

And who the F**K is DaBad's impersonator....
Damn we only had Bad for a brief moment... Do ya think the Bum made it
to his house to choke and piss em?

Bad please come back home

cry:

ROTFLMMFAO @ Lily,

Cheers to you Gurl......

Bad,
You never have to explain yourself, the vets are glad you are back keep
reaping havoc and humor and F the bomb, oh I mean the boom, wait maybe I
mean the bum .......F it whatever....keep doing you!

I've missed the hell outta ya!

I think I found it.......Oh wait WTF is your HANKER!


Where The F**k have ya been Pardner

Hey Karma,

I enjoyed the hell outta that....really good stuff.

Benzy

NYC = $2.70 regular

The birth of my daughter,
The death of my Mom,
And two live or die surgeries back to back.

All contributed to my 360.

BigGlenn, excellent topic and much love and support to all.

This was a good one!

OOOOOOPPPPPPSSSSSS!!!!!
I so sary, it tookked a while But I got u me-sage

Sorry JSH!

Smooches???????