Ladie's, Ladies,

Let play nice, nice. Beautyinchaos, Just because you were born in South
Africa does not make you African American. What would give you the idea
that you were? Do you understand the term Af. Am.

It is used when referring to American Blacks who have descendents from
Africa. So are you saying that you are Black American, then if so you
must have been Passing in order to pass yourself off as European.

And when you say your maother handed you off to a homeless person , then
did this person raise you? This is not about adoption but if you put
your story out there and don't give connecting details then you leave
yourself open to any and all comments, so please don't get uptight.

Next time think about the topic and the sensitive nature of it before
you put it in a forum.

Benzy

I lost my dad
But he's still here
Oh what an innocent dear
Alzheimers is closing in,
He is so near but yet so far
It isn't fair , it isn't fair
He was my strength, my light
He was my knight and my way
It gets harder every day,...
By day, by day, by day
I wonder when he's gone will I
remember our song,
Oh how I was his little girl
and he was my world....
Oh just one more chance to....
Dance with my father again

Take my life for it is but yours
Hold the light so that I might find my way
Decisions we make
Promises we break
I trust in you
You allow me too
Take my hand and lead the way
I'll say a prayer every day
Now I lay me down to sleep.....

If only..
Once more for the road...
If only a last taste...
If only a smile ..
If only a thought...
If only a passing glimpse in the night...
If only you...
If only me....
...........
...........
If only then....
butterflies were free....

Hey Guys,

This isn't what the forum is about we are supposed to welcome new
members, not scare them off. You guys have really great comments most
of the time. We are all different and display different sense of humor
that's what make this thing work. Let's respect each other as well as
the site. Keep the laughs coming :)

Hello and welcome aboard, great bunch of insanely funny people, enjoy
your time here, and always check out the SEX and DATING forum you are
sure to be entertained.....and..... I will bid you all a GOODNIGHT.
ZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzz...zz

wow= orgasm

Sorrow=SPAM :)

Penis......no wait a minute,Spam :)

Angeleyes85,

Sure we can love again, we will just do it with more caution the next
time because of this painful hurt this time. Sometimes we have to go
through certain pains to help us grow believe it or not. Don't let this
stop you from living. Focus on you and healing. Do somthings that make
you smile, keep yourself busy. When you find yourself thinking about
how he did you replace those thoughts with other mor pleasant thoughts.
It's his loss and you can make him understand the loss by moving on with
your life and doing the best that you can

To some people the grass looks greener on the other side, however when
you reach the other side you sometimes find out it was just a
hallucination!

LOL!!!

Millsdd,

Take a minute to breathe and live don't rush the process. take this
break as an opportunity to learn your relationship likes and dislikes.
Get a piece of paper and write down the pro's and con's of the good
things you lke about the women in all your relationships and write down
the bad. This process should help you get a little insight into the
type of woman you should steer clear of and the ones that may be
candidates.

And please don't feel bad we will continue to learn new thing about
ourselves and others until the day we leave this earth.
So use this as a opportunity to learn more about what you need not want
out of a relationship.

Millsdd,

I agree with the responders to your dilemma. Don't give up ever, but
what may be helpful is to take a break and breathe. Hopefully through
this process you will be able to gain insight into the type of women you
become involved with. There seems to be a pattern and a certain type of
woman you are attracted to and the only way to hopefully find a person
of your caliber is to take a minute and re-evaluate the qualities you
seek in a woman, then when you have began to date again don't be afraid
to follow the signs that always present themselves in some shape form or
fashion good or bad. If you get any clues that this is going in the
direction of your past relationships run in the opposite direction.
Maybe by practing weeding people out will eventually help you find the
love that you sound like you truly deserve!!

GOOD LUCK!!!!

THANKS!!!!
And so was yours!

I had a hammer
I had a Nail
I thought about doing it,
But what if I failed?
I held it tightly,
I held it strong,
I said to myself it won't be long,
The time had come for me to use,
My hammer,
My nail and oh yeah some glue
I really needed to fix that got damn shoe.........

Hope you enjoy!!!

Indeed we can go...go...go if we must.
Let our bare souls wander through the land,
And our bodies touch the white hot glistening sands
When we are together as one, let our luv fly high.....
As we embrace...as we embrace... as we embrace our luv high
We've climax and reached our together peak,
Our bodies are still, our bodies are weak
We are free, free to reach all heights and spend eternity, touching,
feeling, loving
Time has no place....
Our bodies entwined, our bodies embrace...
I cry...release...I cry...release...
I cry....I've loved....

This is getting Scary!!

I also noticed that on some of the comments the was a DELETE OR REPLY
option. If the site is set up for the communities comments then how do
you give someone else the option to delete a members opinion.

OOPS!! I better be careful before they Add that to my comment!!