number one is....
this site rocks

number two is ....
you are cool

I have to wonder if your as inexperienced as you are making it look...
you are a 39 yr old man who has never been married (no suprises there)
with no children and looking for a woman to make your life complete....
So I have to ask, how have you been spending your time in the past 39
years? Have you been in hiding or something?

Don't get upset I am just wondering, I read your profile and was very
surprised that you are 39, I was expecting to read that you were like 18
or maybe even younger, and very insecure.

If you could please enlighten me because I was impressed with the
writing in your profile compared to the writing you do in these
discussions.

dp....

There is no such thing as convincing her ( in my opinion) either she is
curious, interested or she isn't. There are alot of women open to such
suggestions but not all women are. Also how do you know if she is
interested or not if you do not ask?

But beware dp.... the tides turn with such a question, would you be
willing to take another man into your bedroom if she wants it that way?

Turn about is fair play so you should be aware that it is the most
obvious return to your suggestion... So I would advise that you think
long and hard about it and come to terms with it whether you would be
willing to participate in her fantasy if she participates in yours.

I would love to be with 2 men but I am not so sure about another woman,
I am cuious but not really hot about the idea.

Hope that helps

I agree with the lieing, cheating stuff. And the broken promises is a
very good point, but the point of say what you mean and mean what you
say is sooooooo true. There are three words that are being misused on a
constant basis... I LOVE YOU... If you only love my ass then say so or
if you would love to lay me then say so.. but don't use those 3 words
and make me believe it when after you get what you want your walking
away.

That is my biggest turn off... If I have only known you for a few days,
weeks etc, I cannot see how you can love me, you may love my style, or
the way I am in bed but it takes longer than that to really love someone
as a person.

I am happy to hear you are no longer there KB. It is a very violating
feeling to be the pawn in someone else's chess game.

I would hate to be taken advantage of that way, and the disease issue is
very real and should be taken seriously.

Hey Jane, I had to respond because it is not so odd. Women can be just
as twisted as men when it comes to sex and fetishes... Just look at the
justice system for example, lol...

And KB if I were your lady and you told me that I would be out hunting
down the biatch that had the nerve to assault my man in his sleep.. it
is a well known fact that a man gets an erection in sleep but that does
not mean that anyone can take advantage of him. Even tho it is one of my
favorite things to do when I am with a man, to wake him sexually or have
him wake me sexually. But as you said, it is a different situation when
it is your significant other doing the waking and riding.

Its Saturday and I don't want to rush you but....
Don't waste your time sleeping you'll have plenty of time for that on
Monday....
Don't we agree that the damn job owes you that much?


lol Have a great weekend everyone!

Did the lady in question pay you the time of day on the return trip by
herself? It is harder to approach a member of the opposite sex when they
are with friends but if a lady is interested in you she usually finds a
way to make it easier by seperating herself from the group... but um no
i dont think you should just go up to her and jump all over her... what
the F@c& are you in heat or something? geez chill and take time to
impress her with your wit and charm lol

Cookie I hope you told him he best return with body guards...cause that
would be the only way he would not take a fryin pan up side the head...
lol

Seriously tho the one I hated was "Just cause the Doctor said no sex for
you doesnt mean I have to wait"... very nice guy eh?

Just walk up to her and tell her... why cant a man just walk up to a
lady and say something like this..."Excuse me, but I have to tell you
that I think you are hot... not that I am looking for anything but I
thought you should know that I appreciate your beauty and hope you have
a great day"... that should be a great conversation starter dont you
think?