I disagree on that point.

A player will not tell you he/she wants to date other people. They do it behind your back and try to sweet talk you into a comfort zone.

He just doesn't want to settle down and there is nothing wrong with that!

It sounds as though he has strong feelings for you but he is not ready.

He's not trying to let you down, but more sounds like he's using you for a backup while he trys to find something else. I know it sounds horrible, and i hate to be the guy to say this. The older guys are worse than younger ones ive come to find. Somethin about men getting stupider as we age. Now the question is can you live with it or not! I wouldnt take that kind of crap.

I met a man only a week ago and sparks flew. We have tons in common and he even told me, he could see falling in love with me. I feel the same. We have seen each other almost every day and find more in common with each conversation. Chemistry is awesome.

Now the kicker. He tells me he has jumped from one relationship to the other (as have I) and he just wants to date other people too. But he thinks we have something special and he just needs his space for now.

Please, help me sort through the emotional B.S. I'm going through and tell me (especially you men) what I should do. I'm not one to just "date" people. I like one on one to get to know that person and I told him that. I also told him I don't understand how he can have feelings for me and want to see others. (BTW, he is 10 years older than me.)

Am I an idiot for believing him? Do 54 year olds still play games???? LOL stupid question, huh?

yes 54 year old men still play games!!!!!!!

Yes, my job gets me hot and wet a few times a day too!

Fitness trainer = sweaty and hot workouts X 4 or 5 hours a day = lots of showers!

You said 'porn'! and, yes, I had to look!

Howdy neighbor!

party on--

Nice 47 year old guns!

so not going out on the razz then?

its 6.45 here in the uk..its dry and sunny, makes a change here!!..lol..waiting to go to a party.whats everyone up to this evening?

top 5 reasons people are loony 1)technology 2)bad parenting 3)'pop culture' has little or no substance 4)people have lost their sense of 'morality' 5)very few good role models be seeing you

mabe u and this girl need to sit down and smoke some cyber weed, thats wats mssin the cyber blunt! ha

if shes perfect and u know shes perfect and she thinks ur perfect and every body and ther dog thinks so.
r u sher ur not skurd? dude we all get skurd sometimes.

now wers that cyber blunt i need to go to sleep.