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Did I do the wrong thing?
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You did the right thing, Hobbes is looking down on you and wishing that you would not beat yourself up over this. I had to do the same thing with my beloved dog and even though it has been over a year I still miss her, but I know that she is not suffering. She will always be with me just as Hobbes will always be with you. Remember the good things and smile often about him. |
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Did I do the wrong thing?
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don't they have a pet thread here ?. I think they have . . There is no "pet" thread here. Sorry for any inconvenience. |
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if you could
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Empathy.
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Did I do the wrong thing?
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As some of you may know, I had my cat Hobbes put to sleep over a month ago because he had an inoperable tumor in his face. I thought I knew it was time for him to go when I woke up one day and he wasn't interested in eating or drinking. But I'm looking at all of this **** about when it's time to let go, and they're basically telling me I did it too soon. That there were other things I could have done. I didn't want to do that. I wanted him to be happy. I took him for a long walk and then a drive (his favorite things to do) before we went to the vet. I know this is a part of grieving, the "what if's" so thank you all for listening to me. i feel your pain, i always think IF i had done more, would they have lived longer and the answer by the vets were NO. he was suffering, but i still think to do this day what IF, even though we did the right thing. you DID do the right think, dont beat yourself up, its cruel to watch a animal suffer and you stopped the suffering, so my heart goes out to you. it proves you have a to not let your animal suffer. im still so very sorry for your loss. |
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Walk into a bar
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I love it!!
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deadly vices
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Dogs....I LOVE'em
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1st grade
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I have some clothes that will never fit me again. I have just now given up the idea that my waist will ever be that size again and that rainbow striped leg warmers might come back into fashion. And before anyone starts in on me about dissin' the Land of 10,000 Lakes, I'm from there! |
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walmart greeter!!!!
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Random Thought Bubble
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What is the biggest mistake?
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either not talking or not listening |
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I am so sick of people taking things out of context and making it a race issue? When is it going to stop? Why can't people just take a conversation at face value and stop making something out of nothing. |
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What is the biggest mistake?
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I think talking way too much about one's self is a HUGE turnoff. And I'm not a big fan of the inappropriate chest glancing either.
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Bites
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That's one thing I don't miss about MN!
If the bites are really itchy, I used to use something called "Sting stop" - you can get it at a co-op/whole foods store. And try baking soda baths. Those help the itching too. |
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What is .....?.
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Pizza, beer, and hot men with a cute smile.
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Taking a time out!
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I have given myself a time out for snapping at a coworker this morning. I was such a jerk! They said the flowers should arrive around 2pm. What do you do when you've done a coworker wrong? Please don't tell me I'm the only one! You seem like such a sweet person, that I can't imagine you snapping at anyone. Or if you did, that it would be as bad as you're making it out to be. |
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Taking a time out!
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I have given myself a time out for snapping at a coworker this morning. I was such a jerk! They said the flowers should arrive around 2pm. What do you do when you've done a coworker wrong? Please don't tell me I'm the only one! You seem like such a sweet person, that I can't imagine you snapping at anyone. Or if you did, that it would be as bad as you're making it out to be. |
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Bad News
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I'm sorry to hear that.
How's your dog doing? |
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