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Topic:
dinner of your dreams
Edited by
armycat23
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Mon 03/21/11 08:00 AM
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Not including the dessert and drink this makes 5 -King crab legs and lobster (ALREADY shelled so no work WHILE eating) - a cheesy fondu sauce - mixed steamed home-grown veggies (tomatos, carrots, and green beans) - baked potato with sour cream,butter, and chives - tomato basil bread - Peach tea - Pecan Pie and coffee I love a "fancy" home cooked meal as opposed to something that you would rarely eat at a fancy restaurant. Mainly, bc I've been to those places and been very unsatisfied. 3 things to forget: Any kind of soup, anything "instant", anything that can't be good by itself. Already shelled? That would be a lazy way of eating lobster. 
Probably so, but I don't like to have to work AFTER I start eating. It takes me out of the "zone". lol |
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It's been rehashed before by others and for me personally......I'm over it. To not accept it would be like denying that the ocean isn't wet. It's less dry....
Now, that being said, I'm not trying to paint the entire gender with a long brush. I really am not, because I've met plenty of dudes who seem like geniune nice guys date the girl they wanted. However, if I were to compare an opiniated rate between "nice guys" getting the girl OR "nice girls" getting the guy ....and all the people were at least decent looking..... it seems to be a landslide for the latter. Feel free to disagree though. |
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I think people......carry over how it's percieved. It's probably due to the vast "oh you're gay/that's gay" attitude that's still around.
I've seen guys search out for other guys to be new friends and whatnot but by far it's guys seeking females and I think that "friendship" isn't the real thing they are seeking most of the time. |
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Topic:
worst dates
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lol My worst date was my first date. I was 15 and asked a girl out from my church. So, at the time I didn't have a license but I hoped that we would be dropped off somewhere and picked up later. Well, we got a ride from her family.......and I mean ENTIRE family (Mother,father,brother,and sister). As awkward as that was, it was nothing compared to them sticking around for the entire so-called date. We first went to a restuarant that she liked. We sat at one table and her family sat at another a stone's throw away. Try having a geniune, interesting, and stress-free conversation with 4 pairs of eyes and ears locked onto you and your date. Next, we planned on seeing a movie. Since there was time untill it started we walked around the mall some......let me go ahead and repeat that her family was with us the entire time...... OH, and the movie that was selected was picked mainly bc of the intense urging of her father and brother. She wanted to see Fantasia. They wanted to see Battlefield Earth. I was kinda of a push over in wanting her family to accept me so I didn't take a firm stance one way or another. Which is something I regret. Soooo, we watched the "epic" that is Battle field:Earth. I forget the reason why I wasn't seated next to her but I ended up NOT being near her. I ended up sleeping through half the movie next to her brother. Btw, that's the only time I've ever fallen asleep on a movie and it happened in a theater of all places. Says a lot about the movie, huh? After that they dropped me back off at home. Top that! lol what a wonderful story. It sounds like a loving group of people who were genuinely interested in you. You made 5 friends that day instead of one. Eeeeeeh, that's not the way I remember it. I just thought it was creepy and very uncomfortable. |
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Well, there are these places called glory...nevermind.....
Sorry, I had way too much coffee and now am in a goofy mood. |
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Topic:
poke me
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Lol...I'm going to leave this one alone. I was just about to say something about innuendo.
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Edited by
armycat23
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Thu 03/17/11 10:26 PM
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Someone who
- confides their inner feelings even if it's embarrassing -realizes that fighting isn't worth jepordizing the relationship. I'm not talking about the minor stuff, but the long-lasting serious/shouting stuff. - who doesn't call you 30 times a day (lol man, that brings back bad memories) - who isn't a chronic party/go drinking-person. Sorry, I've been through that myself but I prefer someone who's moved past that stage as well. - Someone who makes it known to other guys that any excessive flirting is not appreciated without me ever mentioning my annoyance at it - doesn't mind that I have 15 wives and be willing to be the 16th. 8P J/k |
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Topic:
dinner of your dreams
Edited by
armycat23
on
Thu 03/17/11 10:13 PM
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double post
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Topic:
dinner of your dreams
Edited by
armycat23
on
Thu 03/17/11 10:14 PM
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Not including the dessert and drink this makes 5
-King crab legs and lobster (ALREADY shelled so no work WHILE eating) - a cheesy fondu sauce - mixed steamed home-grown veggies (tomatos, carrots, and green beans) - baked potato with sour cream,butter, and chives - tomato basil bread - Peach tea - Pecan Pie and coffee I love a "fancy" home cooked meal as opposed to something that you would rarely eat at a fancy restaurant. Mainly, bc I've been to those places and been very unsatisfied. 3 things to forget: Any kind of soup, anything "instant", anything that can't be good by itself. |
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Topic:
That is so annoying...
Edited by
armycat23
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Wed 03/16/11 12:18 AM
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TEXTING! It might have started out as something useful but people have over used and abused texting so much that it is annoying now... I can't believe I forgot that one. Also, getting receipts that include tip amount spaces for to-go orders........even if it's something simple like the drive-thru at Capt D's(fast food seafood place). I always leave a few bucks on there simply bc I would feel like a jerk if I didn't, but really? All they did was hand it to me....... |
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Topic:
The venting thread.
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The person who is steals my boxers from the laundry room needs to knock it off. It's happened twice now. Honestly, what kind of person steals guys' underwear? You probably have gay stalker. The thought initially crossed my mind but now I pretend that it's a hot super model that longs to be near me. It's a lot more comforting to think that way compared to the former. |
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That is so annoying...
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People always trying to get me to buy magazine subscriptions. Enough is enough.
Tourists People who get in the quick check out lane at grocery stores with a lot more than the maximum allowed. People who who use blue tooth head sets, say "hello", I respond back, and don't notice the ear piece till they turn COMPLETELY around and give me a look as if they're saying "What? Are you crazy or something?" My ever increasing cable/internet bill |
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Topic:
Get over it already!!
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I guess this wasn't a time-less love.
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Topic:
worst dates
Edited by
armycat23
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Tue 03/15/11 11:19 PM
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lol My worst date was my first date.
I was 15 and asked a girl out from my church. So, at the time I didn't have a license but I hoped that we would be dropped off somewhere and picked up later. Well, we got a ride from her family.......and I mean ENTIRE family (Mother,father,brother,and sister). As awkward as that was, it was nothing compared to them sticking around for the entire so-called date. We first went to a restuarant that she liked. We sat at one table and her family sat at another a stone's throw away. Try having a geniune, interesting, and stress-free conversation with 4 pairs of eyes and ears locked onto you and your date. Next, we planned on seeing a movie. Since there was time untill it started we walked around the mall some......let me go ahead and repeat that her family was with us the entire time...... OH, and the movie that was selected was picked mainly bc of the intense urging of her father and brother. She wanted to see Fantasia. They wanted to see Battlefield Earth. I was kinda of a push over in wanting her family to accept me so I didn't take a firm stance one way or another. Which is something I regret. Soooo, we watched the "epic" that is Battle field:Earth. I forget the reason why I wasn't seated next to her but I ended up NOT being near her. I ended up sleeping through half the movie next to her brother. Btw, that's the only time I've ever fallen asleep on a movie and it happened in a theater of all places. Says a lot about the movie, huh? After that they dropped me back off at home. Top that! lol |
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Topic:
for the men out there!!!!
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He can not stop calling you, wants to be with you all the time. what if he doesn't like using his phone?or is this just an excuse? Could be true. I deeeeesssspppise my phone. It's a htc hero. I could name a list what's wrong with it. |
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Topic:
Where do you live
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In your closet
*jumps out and does the evil monkey point* Seriously, Pensacola,fl |
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Topic:
The venting thread.
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The person who is steals my boxers from the laundry room needs to knock it off. It's happened twice now. Honestly, what kind of person steals guys' underwear?
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Topic:
What you became...?
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Deserved.
If I became what I desired than I can assure you that I wouldn't be "here" and would be in a much better situation laying about near my half acre pool and having playboy bunnies surrounding me. Hugh Heffner(sp?), you lucky bastard! |
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Edited by
armycat23
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Tue 03/15/11 02:16 PM
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In my experience there are three kinds of men. 1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married. 2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment. 3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.) Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories? Why are women always trying to fit men into certain categories, while at the same time always wanting to be "loved for who they are"? Agreed, but I'll humor this thread and do my own take for girls. 1. fits girls as well There's one girl I know that was always anti-marriage for a long time and last month she's all giddy about getting married to her boyfriend now whom she's dated for 3 months. 2. Ones who talk about "there's no good men left" while completely ignoring the good guys right next to her bc they didn't fit all their preferences. 3. This one is the same as well. All you need to do is go anywhere where alcohol is served.......lol or even Craig's List for that matter. 4. Those that are truely looking for a ltr. (You can add this to the guy's list as well) In regards to your number 2, why should a woman (or man) date someone just because they're a "good guy" or a "good girl," when they don't fit the preferences of what they're looking for? Who they date is their business but if I have to hear that "Oh there's no good guys out there" simply bc the person they picked fit the list of dozen physical attributes but cheated on them and had a nasty personality it's going to drive me crazy. Well, not literally. lol And trust me, on any given week I hear it at least 5 times. Guys are different....sure a girl being cute factors in it bc there needs to be some physical attraction but they don't eliminate girls bc of their height, hair style, or any minor stuff like that. Never. Guys just don't nitpick stuff like that. They will say "Oh, she's cute and she takes care of herself....." that's pretty much it. They may have preferences for bigger boobs or something but they won't say "Oh, that chick isn't "bis" enough....pass". That's my point. Girls could have a fantastic relationship but I can recall dozens of times where guys under 6'2 were immediantly cut from the competition. Let me also add that there are many girls who aren't like this as well. Btw, I do think it's funny how you didn't have an issue with my category but none of the three listed earlier that generally paint a negative picture on males. Observation shows that bias is the cause. Perhaps you need to go for different types of women if you're finding most are like what you described above. If you're getting the same results each time, stop doing the same thing over and over. I did say that I didn't think the three categories listed in the OP were all that men fit into. But, I have certainly run into them. I'm not talking about girls I am/was interested in. I'm speaking as a general observer. I'm talking about things that I witness and me being a third party. I hear it sometimes when I'm involved in a discussion and sometimes when I over hear it. My point was that anyone who claims that "There's no good guys/girls left" is ridicolous and by large and far that is something women say. I can't even recall the last time I heard a guy say something like that.........if ever. lol |
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Edited by
armycat23
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Tue 03/15/11 01:46 PM
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In my experience there are three kinds of men. 1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married. 2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment. 3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.) Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories? Why are women always trying to fit men into certain categories, while at the same time always wanting to be "loved for who they are"? Agreed, but I'll humor this thread and do my own take for girls. 1. fits girls as well There's one girl I know that was always anti-marriage for a long time and last month she's all giddy about getting married to her boyfriend now whom she's dated for 3 months. 2. Ones who talk about "there's no good men left" while completely ignoring the good guys right next to her bc they didn't fit all their preferences. 3. This one is the same as well. All you need to do is go anywhere where alcohol is served.......lol or even Craig's List for that matter. 4. Those that are truely looking for a ltr. (You can add this to the guy's list as well) In regards to your number 2, why should a woman (or man) date someone just because they're a "good guy" or a "good girl," when they don't fit the preferences of what they're looking for? Who they date is their business but if I have to hear that "Oh there's no good guys out there" simply bc the person they picked fit the list of dozen physical attributes but cheated on them and had a nasty personality it's going to drive me crazy. Well, not literally. lol And trust me, on any given week I hear it at least 5 times. Guys are different....sure a girl being cute factors in it bc there needs to be some physical attraction but they don't eliminate girls bc of their height, hair style, or any minor stuff like that. Never. Guys just don't nitpick stuff like that. They will say "Oh, she's cute and she takes care of herself....." that's pretty much it. They may have preferences for bigger boobs or something but they won't say "Oh, that chick is only a C cup....pass". That's my point. Girls could have a fantastic relationship but I can recall dozens of times where guys under 6'2 were immediantly cut from the competition. Let me also add that there are many girls who aren't like this as well. Btw, I do think it's funny how you have an issue with my category but none of the three listed earlier that generally paint a negative picture on males. hmmmmmmmmmm...... In summary, if girls or anyone else has a ton of qualifications that must be met. That's fine. ABSOLUTELY FINE. BUT don't act like there aren't plenty of good ones out there simply bc of who you chose didn't work out. |
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