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Topic: for the men out there!!!!
sweetmayumi's photo
Mon 03/07/11 08:03 PM
How to know if a Guy is serious about you

Goofball73's photo
Mon 03/07/11 08:06 PM
He will leave the toilet seat down.

scttggry81's photo
Mon 03/07/11 08:10 PM
Depends on the guy really. Every single one has a different way about them.

But if he is always trying to spend his free time with you, whether it be via phone/text, or in person; it's a pretty good sign. I know if I am serious about a woman, I have no other thing on my mind but her.

If you're serious about him, just ask him if the feeling is mutual. Do it in person though, because you can read the truth in a person's eyes.

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Mon 03/07/11 08:19 PM

How to know if a Guy is serious about you

HE WAITS at your door,,W/O knocking or using the doorbell.

He answers HIS phone on the second ring. EVERYTIME!

He always wants YOUR opinion FIRST before he makes his choice ,,on all questions,,,lol

When he calls you,,he ALWAYS says,,I HOPE IM NOT CALLING YOU TO LATE?
and its only 7 pm......lol

When your both TOGETHER,,HE NEVER looks away while your talking to him.


HE WANTS YOU to meet his FAMILY,,,or some anyway,,,lol

THESE,,are a FEW,,lol,,that matter to almost ALL in some degree,,,lol
as to THEM,,,REALLY LIKING YOU!!!!:heart: drinker laugh :wink:


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Mon 03/07/11 10:23 PM

From my experience, he starts talking about marriage sooner than I expected.


josie68's photo
Tue 03/08/11 06:55 AM
Hmmmm My question would be how do you keep them seriouswhat

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Tue 03/08/11 06:57 AM
Dang...I want one..

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Tue 03/08/11 07:23 AM
he will give you a cute nickname, like sweetie or babe
(especially when he says it in bed)

he will go out with the guys and not call
(absence makes the heart grow fonder)

he will look at other women when he takes you out
(just to see how many other women you are prettier than)

he will go to see you at 2 a.m. and leave before 6 a.m.
(so you don't have to wait up or make breakfast)

:wink:

comptech1's photo
Tue 03/08/11 07:35 AM

How to know if a Guy is serious about you


He will let you drive his motorcycle and let you hold his winkie while

going pee-pee ...

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Tue 03/08/11 07:37 AM


..i wouldn't know i don't date men...:laughing:

Shayna1978's photo
Tue 03/08/11 08:39 AM
He doesn't want to stop kissing you goodbye, even though he has to be somewhere important.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 03/08/11 09:02 AM

he will give you a cute nickname, like sweetie or babe
(especially when he says it in bed)

he will go out with the guys and not call
(absence makes the heart grow fonder)

he will look at other women when he takes you out
(just to see how many other women you are prettier than)

he will go to see you at 2 a.m. and leave before 6 a.m.
(so you don't have to wait up or make breakfast)

:wink:



That boy just ain't rightnoway noway noway

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 03/08/11 09:04 AM
But to the question most likely he will tell you he is smitten with you..........if he don't have a mind of his own and can't speak up then NEXT~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~bigsmile

FindMe1113's photo
Tue 03/08/11 09:06 AM

But to the question most likely he will tell you he is smitten with you..........if he don't have a mind of his own and can't speak up then NEXT~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~bigsmile


rofl rofl rofl

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 03/08/11 09:11 AM


But to the question most likely he will tell you he is smitten with you..........if he don't have a mind of his own and can't speak up then NEXT~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~bigsmile


rofl rofl rofl


Ya know it's right girl if he sits there like a lump on the log who the hell wants him......noway noway :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Tue 03/08/11 09:23 AM


he will give you a cute nickname,
like sweetie or babe
(especially when he says it in bed)
he will go out with the guys and not
call (absence makes the heart
grow fonder)
he will look at other women when he
takes you out
(just to see how many other women you
are prettier than)
he will go to see you at 2 a.m. and
leave before 6 a.m.
(so you don't have to wait up or
make breakfast)
:wink:

That boy just ain't rightnoway noway noway

Certainly explains a lot, though :-)

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Tue 03/08/11 10:05 AM

..i wouldn't know i don't date men...:laughing:


I know, right? This is a question 'for the guys out there', and the question is 'how to know if a guy is serious about you' ?

Taking this literally....:tongue:

There have been a handful of times that I've know about a guy being into me - mostly they were awkward experiences.

I was in the gym once, in the locker room, and this guy came up to me and silently handed me a strip of paper with some numbers on it and walked away quickly. I had no idea what it was about, and was concerned that he was trying to deliver important information to a different person - so I stopped him and asked him what the paper was for. He was evasive, I was confused. When I'm confused I can become insistent - I like to know whats going on. I continue to interrogate him, and he continued to avoid answering and try to make his escape from the suddenly awkward situation I was obliviously creating.

Eventually I realized it was his phone number, and he had been trying to discretely hit on me. I just gave it back to him, said 'no thanks' and felt a bit guilty for accidentally embarrassing him so badly in front of the whole locker room.


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Tue 03/08/11 10:10 AM

How to know if a Guy is serious about you


So if you are asking how I, as a guy, communicate to women that I am into them....

I'm usually ver straightforward. Many people have told me this is unwise, as it kills the mystery, diminishes the romance, and takes a lot of the fun out of the early process of being attracted and being uncertain.

Its worked really well for me. It saves us both time, sets a foundation of openness and honesty. Women who don't reciprocate the same level of straightforwardness are usually women I'm not going to get along with, anyway.

armycat23's photo
Tue 03/08/11 11:01 AM
Probably the easiest way is that if/when he talks about long term plans for the future you're in the picture.

He doesn't shy away from subjects like marriage and kids

When given a choice between hanging out with the guys and doing something with you he will choose being with you the vast majority of the time even if it's just staying home and watching a movie.

hiddenmeaning's photo
Tue 03/08/11 01:31 PM
with me its "i love you ."
i want to spend as much time with them as possable.
i ask what they want in 5-10 years time
i stop being as perverse :P (no i dont sorry they know what im like by then)
and spontaniouse public firemans lift syndrome happens a lot.

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