one that didn't work, I went to breakfast with some friends and they told me to talk to the waitress, I'm shy so i don't like talking to girls in front of people. They kept telling me to talk to her, all i had to say was "are you on the menu?" oh yeah, i got the look.

the best pick up line was "hi, well see you later" then turned around and said "hi" again.

well in the situation i was just in i now know to ask this question:

Are you asexual?

next time can you shave so i don't choke?

did i do good mom?

i already came. (pants still on)

She said she wanted to see if she could change. I was basically used as an experiment, and pretty much got my heart broken.

it's not true, she thought she wanted a relationship, we dated for a month and a half, she never actually told me she was asexual until she dumped me. We never kissed in the whole time we were together. We cuddled, held hands.

the real question is, would you date an asexual? I did, that's worse than a celibate

Thanks guys. Actually I only called her once a day, which I thought was normal for a boyfriend to do.

I was just wondering, I was in a relationship for a month and a half, and I have no idea what happened, why she dumped me. She was asexual, never even kissed me, but I really did have feelings for her and cared for her a lot. I didn't actually know the reason she wouldn't kiss me was because she was asexual until she broke up with me. She told me when she dumped me that I did everything right,I was romantic, the best person she has ever met, but then she also said I called her too much and wanted to see her too much. I am having an easy time with this, it's been over a week and we weren't together long in the first place. My question is, how do I get over this? I am extremely depressed, I don't have any motivation to stop thinking about it. Why is therapy so expensive? I need someone to talk to, I messed up somewhere.

I asked her and we are going to Borders for coffee on Sunday at 5

i don't see how it is possible to fall in love with someone if you haven't met them in person to be honest with you. What if when you met and you found he/she smells repulsive or something like that. I don't think you will be in love after that stench hits you like a bag of bricks. That's just me though.

maybe you were just desperate in the beginning and that's what you wanted to feel, then you realized that your feelings were false. Just don't lead him on if you don't like him the way you thought you did.

I don't look for anyone more than 20 miles away

The only reason i ask this is because i know some people are uncomfortable with online dating stuff

I've been talking to a girl on instant messenger for a couple days now, and I'd like to get to know her in person. It's actually not very easy for me to talk on the phone. How long would people recommend I wait until I ask her out on a date? We live about 10 minutes away from each other.

thanks katy

I agree with you digger on the looks thing, I may have fallen for her looks.

I didn't think i would change her, in fact she never told me she was asexual until the break up. If she would have told me in the first place, I honestly may have thought about staying with her, not to sound like a queer, but I did enjoy the cuddling.

I know that, I honestly know I need some professional help, I'm screwing myself over here. Professionals cost too much...hahaha