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Topic: what do you think?
Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Sun 12/30/07 09:47 PM
I don't know how but, I,m dating someone and at the beginning he would turn me on, but now huh! don't feel a thing how can that happen? was I just feeling something for that time or what? is it that I will never find that special person? it has been 9 years since my husband died is there any hope for me why??? why?

WM777 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 573	Sun 12/30/07 09:50 PM
chemistry faded,cease all communications............

LadygChelle Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 8	Sun 12/30/07 09:50 PM
Depends on if you lose interest before or after you sleep with them.... Maybe you just like the hunt of it all.

azrae1l Joined Sat 03/24/07 Posts: 3624	Sun 12/30/07 09:51 PM
chemistry faded,cease all communications............ thats pretty harsh. maybe you should talk to them and see what they say first? maybe their having a rough time or something lately. if not maybe your just better off as friends or maybe nothing at all.

e69 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 467	Sun 12/30/07 09:52 PM
I'd give up on hope and just go after what it is you are really looking for.

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Sun 12/30/07 09:53 PM
I figure if you don't hold out for that special person you'll always end up with a person not so special. The cost of not putting love first?

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 12/30/07 09:55 PM
I don't know how but, I,m dating someone and at the beginning he would turn me on, but now huh! don't feel a thing how can that happen? was I just feeling something for that time or what? is it that I will never find that special person? it has been 9 years since my husband died is there any hope for me why??? why? Hi MO...good to read ya. and wow, sorry. I would say that your other feeling scared of commiting or he's NOT the one for you... Like YOU DON'T really LOVE HIM, but at first YOU WANTED to SO BAD, that it felt like LOVE. But now you don't feel him IN YOUR HEART!!! So just know the good times and let HIM know YOUR heart. Then see if it has a CHANCE to grow, or just a sad goodbye. And girlly, im ALWAYS here for ya,wink, Good luck and I hope YOU and YOUR SONS have a GREAT NEW YEAR....

kearbey75 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 867	Sun 12/30/07 10:01 PM
I say to all those out there looking for love, take your time, don't be so desperate, let it come to you, you'll know when the time is right, and most of all, being single is not so bad, so don't get depressed over it. good luck to all, and "HAPPY NEW YEARS".

shutterbug63 Joined Thu 04/26/07 Posts: 1219	Sun 12/30/07 10:05 PM
Depends on if you lose interest before or after you sleep with them.... Maybe you just like the hunt of it all. YEP, what she said!

shutterbug63 Joined Thu 04/26/07 Posts: 1219	Sun 12/30/07 10:07 PM
well I think Morena is very pretty, but she never talks to me.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 12/30/07 10:10 PM
well I think Morena is very pretty, but she never talks to me. She very nice but she is a little strange here anymore,lol SHE posts then I NEVER catch her back at her post,,,lol But if SHE was here, she would be talking to all her replies... How have you been lady???

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Sun 12/30/07 10:44 PM
First Answer: Who knows how, but you are describing a loss of interest....when in doubt go with your feelings, they won't let you down Second Answer: I guess so!.... Third Answer: Maybe, we have little control over finding the right one....but I believe that there is that special one out there, you just haven't met him yet.... I don't know how but, I,m dating someone and at the beginning he would turn me on, but now huh! don't feel a thing how can that happen? was I just feeling something for that time or what? is it that I will never find that special person? it has been 9 years since my husband died is there any hope for me why??? why?

shutterbug63 Joined Thu 04/26/07 Posts: 1219	Sun 12/30/07 11:56 PM
I think that Morena posts, then signs out and comes back 3 days later to see what we wrote in it

Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Tue 01/01/08 04:04 PM
I don't know how but, I,m dating someone and at the beginning he would turn me on, but now huh! don't feel a thing how can that happen? was I just feeling something for that time or what? is it that I will never find that special person? it has been 9 years since my husband died is there any hope for me why??? why? Hi MO...good to read ya. and wow, sorry. I would say that your other feeling scared of commiting or he's NOT the one for you... Like YOU DON'T really LOVE HIM, but at first YOU WANTED to SO BAD, that it felt like LOVE. But now you don't feel him IN YOUR HEART!!! So just know the good times and let HIM know YOUR heart. Then see if it has a CHANCE to grow, or just a sad goodbye. And girlly, im ALWAYS here for ya,wink, Good luck and I hope YOU and YOUR SONS have a GREAT NEW YEAR.... thanks big brother!!!

Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Tue 01/01/08 04:05 PM
you all make a point, but, how would I know the difference from lust and love, dammmmmm is so similar and yet so different!!

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Tue 01/01/08 04:07 PM
maybe you were just desperate in the beginning and that's what you wanted to feel, then you realized that your feelings were false. Just don't lead him on if you don't like him the way you thought you did.

thatplayer89 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 549	Tue 01/01/08 05:03 PM
dont get it

Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Tue 01/01/08 05:35 PM
dont get it don't get what player!!

Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Tue 01/01/08 05:36 PM
maybe you were just desperate in the beginning and that's what you wanted to feel, then you realized that your feelings were false. Just don't lead him on if you don't like him the way you thought you did. I wont!!