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I WANT IT NOW!!!!!
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I did years single by choice. I had settled for less so often that when I made that leap of (relative) abstainence...I just really turned my back on the concept of really loving. Thankfully, I do believe in hope. No, I ain't single....and it is because I had the guts to just let go of my past and put some faith in a woman who was willing to take the chance with me. Ain't no such thing as perfect.... Ideals are just that....Ideals. Alot of people here will remain single of thier own volition....by clinging to non reality based standards based on "Ideals". When people just get the guts to just throw themselves out there...and work for what they want....and chose to be happy with what life offers....and finding the true beauty in those that offer what they have.... Then, there will be far fewer single people. But, that ain't gonna happen cause most people ain't got the guts to take a chance. I hear ya krupa...letting go of my past so that someday I will have the guts to take a chance...work in progress!!! |
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you bringing that combo on our ship?!  Well of course I am One of us has to stay cute enough to keep that elephant entertained! 
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Howdy ya'll
 Just me here today...with nothing planned 
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Crap. I don't have a single grey anywhere! well salt-n-pepper isn't a stipulation to be sexy...there are many other factors to consider Are a pink tutu, rubber chicken and a 10-gallon hat some of them? the hat yes, the other 2  a little too fairy redneckish  Awwwww. C'mon now. It's not like it's a rubber sheep. what other costumes ya got? What do you mean........costumes??????????? oh my...guess I feel the same when someone asks that when I am wearing my boots and daisy dukes You have boots and daisy dukes?? *I wanna see*  What self-respecting Texas girl lives without that combo?
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Thanks people, that's given me quite a bit to think about! Full disclosure: I have had two "friends with benefits" in the past who still remain friends, nothing more and nothing less, but without the benefits as they've found their respective Mr Rights. (And fellas; no, they weren't my FWBs or each others at the same time or place, so *that* didn't happen!) I disagree with Navygirl who wrote: I think if you want a FWB; just find yourself a prostitute as you clearly don't respect a person anyways. I respected my FWBs as much if not more than my other friends; we chatted, we went out, we listened to and helped and were there for each other. That may not be the case for everybody; but wanting an FWB does not mean you automatically do not respect those people. TattooedDude & fireflysgirl - let me know when the ship's finished! :) Yup, the happiest times of my life were spent with friends, free of that dark stressful cloud of a relationship...Will let ya know before we set sail hey firefly -g'morning - let me know when u leave for Australia I guess I do disagree with the OP, and I think it is disrespectful - but honestly I would say what he had were relationships with or without the commitment - he had 2 girlfriends who left him for someone else so it may be a matter of meaning as what I have seen of FWB - there's usually not a relationship like the one he described -I guess I have a hard time wrapping my mind around intimacy without some growth toward a relationship between partners for it to have any meaning- any thing else to me is casual sex and definitely I agree that people have to be honest about that I also don't see a relationship as a dark cloud - if 2 people really love each other then their relationship is a place for growth, support, and freedom - as well as daily sex and showers I think the problems start when people try to control each other rather than discuss solutions in an adult manner I know we don't agree on this topic and have had different experiences sweetest! Neither of my LTRs allowed for growth or freedom & I was the only supportive figure with either of them. Currently, my feelings about love & relationships is quite cynical to say the least! Seems like your price for loving someone is dealing with a crap-ton of senseless drunk/drug induced, crazy & likely criminal BS which is NOT at all appealing at this point in my life! Would love to experience a relationship where that wasn't the case, but for now I am not ready to be risky with my heart. I see nothing wrong with loving and respecting a friend enough to love on them if both are single and needing affection! It can be healing & allow for more trust & comfort than casual sex with a partner you don't know well. |
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 Where are the LOSOM members??? Urban dictionary definition for LOSOM Anyone who is a member of the League of Sexy Old Men; an abbreviation of the title. Someone who is cool,calm and collected in a Sean Connery kind of way. Old dude over there is a total LOSOM...   
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What lies were you told???
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haha...dad use to tell me that kissing boys on the mouth would get you pregnant...not a complete lie
he told me once that I'd never accomplish anything in life if I smoked pot because it kills your ambitions This was after paddling my little sister's butt for pilfering through my chit and tattling on me  |
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yup...my momma!
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Thanks people, that's given me quite a bit to think about! Full disclosure: I have had two "friends with benefits" in the past who still remain friends, nothing more and nothing less, but without the benefits as they've found their respective Mr Rights. (And fellas; no, they weren't my FWBs or each others at the same time or place, so *that* didn't happen!) I disagree with Navygirl who wrote: I think if you want a FWB; just find yourself a prostitute as you clearly don't respect a person anyways. I respected my FWBs as much if not more than my other friends; we chatted, we went out, we listened to and helped and were there for each other. That may not be the case for everybody; but wanting an FWB does not mean you automatically do not respect those people. TattooedDude & fireflysgirl - let me know when the ship's finished! :) Yup, the happiest times of my life were spent with friends, free of that dark stressful cloud of a relationship...Will let ya know before we set sail
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 Luff this bastet!!! Morining beautiful goddesses & sexy beasts 
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Better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it ^^one of my favorites! "I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." ~Maya Angelou |
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You too Krupa.  yup & to all 
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From what I gather...activity partner are those looking for someone to workout, go to movies with, etc. & not expecting sex to be involved! FWB being activities + sex. I understand your not wanting to seek a relationship so spend time in the forums to make some friends. Some are totally against an FWB & others willing to share their lives with good friends until they are ready for romance again. intimate encounter is for those seeking NSA sex so IMO says...I don't care to know you, just gimme sex! Basically, whatever you are looking for can be found around here. Good luck Ok I see, so you don't wanna build a ship with me?  dangit, where's my "will work for sex" sign? I have them here, will send you one in a sec... oooh...luffs Aussie men...going to visit Josie to pick up my sign 
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Tattoos?
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 I saw these and wanted to share. I thought they were awesome    Nice! thanks trouble
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the holy grail, of love hehe
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A carpenter, mechanic, or musician are all nice options! Mainly I would want someone happy with whatever he does (besides the town drunk anyhow). Woohoo. I'm an auto-tech by profession (as you know), but I've worked a carpenter and I've played a few instruments over the years..... Aw, h3ll. I'm still a musician at heart. I have a full stack, 3 guitars and a 5-string bass in my living room right this second till I'm done building my 'band-room' and can regather all the stuff all over the house. haha  the perfect man does exist
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Crap. I don't have a single grey anywhere! well salt-n-pepper isn't a stipulation to be sexy...there are many other factors to consider Are a pink tutu, rubber chicken and a 10-gallon hat some of them? the hat yes, the other 2 a little too fairy redneckish Awwwww. C'mon now. It's not like it's a rubber sheep. what other costumes ya got? What do you mean........costumes??????????? oh my...guess I feel the same when someone asks that when I am wearing my boots and daisy dukes
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Tattoos?
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Thanks! I really like my artist & he enjoyed doing that one. It was a challenge for him, but he did a fantastic job given that I was particular about how I wanted the dragon and phoenix to look!
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Crap. I don't have a single grey anywhere! well salt-n-pepper isn't a stipulation to be sexy...there are many other factors to consider Are a pink tutu, rubber chicken and a 10-gallon hat some of them? the hat yes, the other 2 a little too fairy redneckish Awwwww. C'mon now. It's not like it's a rubber sheep. what other costumes ya got?
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Love it! Did u see granny hitting the gravity bong?? i liked that part too! |
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Perhaps I'll just go drown my sorrows with a nice dip in the pool and a return to my now cooled off condo. Life in TX is pretty damn fine! (Although really, possums have very few sorrows!) Sounds like a plan to me.....  Think I'm gonna spend all day tomorrow by the pool  No pool this week, but look what I got  Celebrating 20 yrs with my bff! |
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