I would remove the last sentence in your profile - you don't want people to think you're not confident. And, dress up like you're going out on a date, or out to a club, and take some pics, maybe even include a few of you with your friends when you're out on a friday night or something. women want to see what you look like when you're out on the town. other than that, I didn't notice anything wrong with it. Personally, I've met a lot of friends, but no love matches. Good luck :)

Valerie

The short answer to your question is no. There aren't any men who don't play games. I have yet to meet a completely honest man that will tell you what he really thinks. For whatever reason, if a man doesn't like you, he'd rather be an *** and lie and tell you something stupid like "I can't see you tonight because my grandma's in the hospital" (Friday night, a couple of hours before you see each other)(second guy to stand me up with an excuse about his grandma being in the hospital - what, do they have a book about excuses or ways to get out of a date, last minute? And if so, did all of you guys buy the same book? Oh yeah, you just passed it around to save money.) (translation: I got a babysitter and I met someone cuter than you that I want to **** tonight.) No. All men lie. God hasn't created a man yet who doesn't.

as fun as the person who started it yup yup yup uh huh uh huh

Money is sexy. Let me rephrase - a lot of money is sexy. not enough money is not. Making me pay - you're a loser. Us splitting the tab - cool, if we talk about it first. You spending it on me because you want to? Cool. Vice Versa? Cool. Not sure about the whole sugar momma thing. I haven't really had enough money to do that. Not sure I would want a sugar daddy either, but it he's hot too and is great in bed, bring it on!!! haha

be honest, but nice about it. you could say something like: "I enjoy talking to you, or you seem to be a nice person, but I just don't think we have enough things in common, I'm sorry."

It's rude to be mean to the person or to just stop talking to them all together.

so far, being in a situation where the guy doesn't want to have a damn thing to do with me but I like him, I've tried wine, cookies, and now a lobotomy is starting to look promising.

I'm having a tough time with this one myself. Let me know if you get any helpful advice :)

Valerie

a lobotomy might be a good answer.

looking into how to get over someone that's not interested in me. different situation, same remedy.

I'm still trying to find one for myself lol

good luck :)

sometimes we figure, why bother try to explain it since you:

1. won't care
2. won't understand
3. won't do anything about it
4. don't care
5. did I say don't care yet?

I want somebody hot that ****s good that thinks I'm hot too yup yup yup uh huh uh huh

I'm sure all the other ones are nice, but the one I wear makes guys say "oooh, you smell good!" I had a guy tell his friend to smell me because I smelled so good.

I wear Very Irresistible by Givenchy.

You'll get a lot of compliments :)

I burned a cd once which had songs on it that were popular at the time and were symbolic or expressed how I felt when I saw this one guy I was dating at the time. every time I went to see him I put that cd on in my car. now every time I listen to it, I think of driving to his place at night.

I agree with the other ladies and guys on here. She's screwing with your head. It's her easy way out - she doesn't have to feel like such an ass if you say ok, I love you so let's be friends - that lets her off the hook without feeling too bad, but the problem is, it's not what you want, and it makes you feel like crap.

Two things: alcohol, and a new woman. That will help :)

Good friends don't hurt either.

Good luck :)

Valerie

he wouln't wait long enough for me to make the move. he pissed me off too bad before we had to chance to meet in person and now he's blown that

you're right saturnswirls; I guess I just liked it, I'm a girl. but yeah, he morphed in tardo man when his beer drinking buddies told him to back off. he's moved on to much younger and dumber bait

thanks LHB. I think you're crazy too, but I like you too :) you know the song Crazy *****? they wrote that about me haha

thanks guys, everybody :) I think the prob resolved itself. I was gonna go see the guy this weekend but after talking to you guys and after texting back and forth and the insults, I think I have my answer.

Ok, so where are the nice guys? To the left you say?

:)

Seriously, thanks :)

why do the cool ones live so far away? Welcome :) I've met some really great people here, there's always room for another cool person :)

Random is Good. :) thanks for the advice. Actually I picked him so to speak, but I was WRONG again. haha big shock. I have a lot of good friends, and I WAS being honest - I'm tired of games and definitely don't need anymore drama, so since he can't seem to stop accusing me of acting like his ex wife, guess the magic wore off before it started.

second verse, same as the first . . .

no seriously, I'm gonna go spend some $$$ this week, hang out with my friend, and go on a little trip. I'm learning to relax a little, I just get irritated sometimes. thanks :)

thanks shutterbug :) we're all confused. nobody wants to get hurt but everybody wants to be happy. I'm trying to find someone to take the leap with me . . .