I'm 26 and I can't tell you how many guys I've met that say they don't want a woman with drama or that is crazy...but then they turn RIGHT around and lie and play games...I'm starting to think there are NO guys who are serious about being in a relationship and dont bull****...but I still look...maybe someone is out there??? can someone ENLIGHTEN ME?

Well I don't have any answers for you but ......
Welcome to JSH

if he's playing games, he's obviously not the right one for you.

hello and welcome
I agree with Fresh; however there are some nice guys around; just don't know where they all are.
have fun you're bound to run into some of them

i dont think it is fair that people talk about men that play games there is also woman out there that does the same and it isnt fair to all of us nice ladies and men

dude guys are gay. im on here cuz my ex did the same thing... he couldnt talk to me unless he was drinking what the hell is that about i dont know. they always say women are hard. i wish they could see themselves from our view.

i dont play games but have been played so much that is why i like both sex

in response to a post I just received...I am one of the "nice gals" out there, yet I KEEP meeting these guys that say it's ok to trust them and then ALL OF THEM have lied an bull****ted me-it's nothing against the good ones, just all the assholes...and where do you find these awesomes guys to compliment a good woman?

I so get what you mean! Okay, I know that in my writings I SEEM dramatic, but in my daily life I'm very laid back. Guys are always saying how they want a woman with no issues... WEEEEEEELLLLL LOL, here I am! I mean yeah, I have my normal 'everyone has something like that' issues... but I don't cause all kinds of commotion and drama in relationships... anyway... those same guys that say that wind up going with the little damsels in distress.. then the rest of us self sufficient women are left out in the dust...

I play video games sometimes...

I'm so sorry...

Quit dating the jerks and give us nice guys a chance ...... you can find us finishing last as nice guys always do

But I guess it can be hard cuz most of us can be shy in public at first (at least that's me speaking for myself and a couple of people I know as decent guys)

I think I need another cup of coffee

Best of luck

Jayme -- you hit it right on the head. Women that have it together can't catch a break -- it's like something is wrong with us.

I would love to meet a 'nice guy' lol... but there's so few out there...

hey mig u claim u are a nice guy then show me what a nice guydoes for a woman

a few

I feel the same way, I have worked for so long to make sure I am not a scummy piece of lying slime and it seems as if I can never wind up with anyone either.

I get so mad at men who act in the "typical man" fashion, because it makes ME look bad and girls end up not trusting me and thinking I have something to hide because I seem "too nice"... what the?!

Well for instance I was (and am still) friends with this guy that I met like 2 years ago.. he is so cute and sweet and all that, kept complaining about all these terrible nasty skanks he was dating and I was like "UM, HEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOO! I'm right here!"...never actually said it, just thought it. Well, then he gets with this girl who's a total drama queen and b/c she insists that he cut off all contact from ANY girls... I don't even get to hang out with him anymore... I am even nice to her, and very supportive of them... My point is this: nice guys wind up with skank b!tches and nice women wind up with A$$HOLES its a dirty cycle and someone needs to put an end to it!!

hi a nice guy and pretty straight 4ward
so u can trust me

Maybe some kind of government regulated number from one to ten. They could judge your looks, financial situation, health and personality , then give you a governmentally designated number.

Like a Registered "8" could date anyone 9 and below, but it is recommended that an "8" date no lower then 7.

I don't know... that seems a bit crazy.

to: iluv2sux84

First and foremost, always be a gentleman. I was raised old school where we opened doors for women, help them if they are carrying anything or at least offer to help, listen to what they have to say and always be considerate. Most of my bestfriends are girls, in fact I also work in an office where I am the only guy and I get along with everyone very well. I want a girl who can be my girlfriend and my bestfriend at the same time.