Topic: What to do?
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Mon 10/15/07 07:28 PM
Your dating someone that says they love you and everything then the next thing you know their saying they never loved you an d they think you should break up and be friends and then they might love you. What kind of crap is that? What should I do, Should I stay friends and see what happens?

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Mon 10/15/07 07:31 PM
i am not no dr.phill but i think trust is key in any relationship and well it seems to me if she isnt trustworthy well then my freind.. the odds are too good, if he is contemplating where she "loves you" or not ... i think that tells u somthing but that is my prespective iunno man.. if anything step by step bro

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Mon 10/15/07 07:31 PM
Kent id tell her to f*** off and shell realize that she lost you and know she made a mistake. F*** being friends!!!

Neko187's photo
Mon 10/15/07 07:31 PM
**** type.. i meant arnt to good .. hah

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Mon 10/15/07 07:33 PM
Sounds like shes confused and is stupiod

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Mon 10/15/07 07:34 PM
wow sounds like shes confused have you tried talking with her about staying together and working through it?

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Mon 10/15/07 07:36 PM
It sucks because I love her and want to be with her...And id like to be with her but I just dont want to play the friends game.

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Mon 10/15/07 07:37 PM
I would say that actions speak louder than words and perhaps she jumped the gun and got a little scared, that would be understandable, maybe she just needs time to think, I wouldn't ditch her too quick, but if it's over, you should know.

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Mon 10/15/07 07:51 PM
Just distance yourself from her. I went through almost the same thing with my ex. I wanted to stay friends only because I hoped for more. I hurt myself in the end. You need to step away from her so you can be ready for the next person to walk into your life. If you don't then you might lose the person you are supposed to be with.

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Mon 10/15/07 07:53 PM
Run, Forrest, Run.

She is messing with your emotions. You deserve better!


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Mon 10/15/07 07:56 PM
a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush... maybe she never heard....Sorry to hear that one, Kent

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Mon 10/15/07 07:56 PM
Kent ~

Been there before and it's hard

Hearing "Let's" be friends after you have been with someone for quit some time is BS ~ especially if you share a special and common mutual bond

I don't know you situation but

Maybe she said it because you told her you loved her first and she felt pressed..
Maybe things were mocing way too fast or she wasn't really ready for the commitment..
She meet someone else?
She loves things about you but not in love with you..

Give her some space and then talk with her about things...Maybe she just needs some time to realize what she gave up and sort some things out..

Just my thoughts

Good luck to ya!

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Mon 10/15/07 08:00 PM
I agree with the other ladies and guys on here. She's screwing with your head. It's her easy way out - she doesn't have to feel like such an ass if you say ok, I love you so let's be friends - that lets her off the hook without feeling too bad, but the problem is, it's not what you want, and it makes you feel like crap.

Two things: alcohol, and a new woman. That will help :)

Good friends don't hurt either.

Good luck :)

Valerie

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Mon 10/15/07 08:07 PM
Thanks everyone you help me out alot its clear what I need to do.

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Mon 10/15/07 08:07 PM
Thanks everyone you help me out alot its clear what I need to do.

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Mon 10/15/07 08:10 PM
ditch the witch bro