I got a call from my ex today o.O I think that counts as random.

Ok simile enough, ask the a question about what the person below you might do, they can respond they already have, they are willing, they won't or they wish they could.

Would you drive a race car?

god i hate man bashing, reminds me of a lot high school

Because all men do. Life is a game and all men do is either tell you straight out that all they want is sex and then if you want the same then it is "on" or they come at you with this "I want to settle down and be with one person and I love you **** I mean stuff and all that then when you give them some you don't hear from them ever or if you do they are rude and disrespectful and tell you ****i mean stuff like don't call my baby mama house no more so that is why women think the way that they do. If you don't think or do things that way then yes you are gay. But whatever I don't have time to try and figure out what is what and what goes where i do what I do for the reason that I want to do that so if I want a one night stand I know where to go and get one and then if I want a realtionship I **** myself. Men are not what they use to be. At ALLLLLL they play games and say that they are going to do something and then when you call and see if they are still going to do it they happen to not answer their phone or are out of the calling area so I say live and learn and not everybody is the same but men are.

I'm not a bed hopper-I'm a woman with options!

Mostly, there are no guarantees. Still, choices must be made. I think most people DO ignore the red flags when choosing marriage partners. There is nothing wrong with doing the best you can.

Ok I'm back. Hmmmmmm. Gotta give savagirl credit. She stated her opine. And she stuck to her guns. She never waivered from her selling points. She debated you all well and never let her emotions get in her way. Maybe we didn't hear some issues we didn't like concerning moral issues but hey really what's in your closet and wallet. She put it all out on the table. No BS here. Can you knock someone for different views. We all get knocked and have to roll with the punches. She's did 13 rounds and 13 pages with all of you and she's still standing. Ding! Ding! She's the winner as far as I'm concerned. Debate her. Don't scorn her. Advise her. Don't attack her. What's my problem? None. None whatsoever. And I don't want any. I do have a question for you savagirl and that is what went wrong with your last relationship? Be honest. Did you grow apart? Was he too family as in controlled by his parents orientated? Was there infidelity issues involved? Did you cheat on him? What would he say regarding your breakup? That's all I have. I'd love to have a mutual life with someone. But I'm too old to raise children and I'm not too keen on having a relationship based on contractual obligations and what is expected of each other in one persons mind. There should be more sharing of ideas and mutual interests to keep spice in a lifelong relationship. I'm not interested in a boring unchallenging, non adventurous life. I live my life to its fullest and value every moment full of real love and sharing. I know the difference between right and wrong in my heart and choose the right thing all the time no matter what even if it hurts me. I live life with no regrets and I sleep every night with a clear concious. Wish I could find someone a bit like me.

Knowing what I want makes me naive? I disagree. This is not a challenge about education, why not stick to the topic.

I am not in this situation

Because that is the ultimate prize..may not be ALL he wants-but every man entertains the thought of "hitting it"