That is a good idea; I’m going to make that a resolution.

Hmm, you lost my little male mind there?
You brought me flowers and brilliant smile but then...argh.
I'm so confused!

Hi there ho there Lee!

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There are so many positive reasons not to cheat.

So many negative reasons to cheat.

just a new dating site to join ...

while you may be on all the rest that are free...


any particular reason why ...





for me... what came first... I saw they had forums ...

not to insult anyone

This very old and very common worry, is almost always much more subtle and involved than it is made out to be.

It's almost never as simple as "either she'll take me exactly as I am, or she's a gold digger."

Wealth is directly connected to lifestyle, and thereby to what a persons daily life consists of, in the smallest of ways. It determines what kind of other people are going to live around you. It determines what you can and can't indulge in, even for small entertainments. It even decides what diet you can and can't consume.

That kind of stuff means that basic compatibility is what decides things.

One other point, is that lots of people seem to cling to the idea that love is a magic force, because it does feel so wonderful, and because people who love, do so often do great things for each other.

But love is not something that is a part, and separate from the people who experience it, it IS the people themselves. It doesn't guide, it doesn't decide, and it certainly doesn't change a person's basic needs, concerns, or life goals. So to expect the fact that someone really does love you, to cause them to become someone else entirely, is unrealistic, if not self-defeating.

I find the common, modern approach to "communication" via no response is horrible.

I cannot stand business folks with this approach. The business I am in major efforts are undergone via email. I abhors sending emails to someone and no response. All emails sent aren't always received...Duh.

I was set up by business associate years back with his Niece. He told me he thought maybe great future for us.

Debbie and I spoke few times on phone. We decided Uncle might be onto something and we should meet. Met gorgeous Lady... Debbie. Wow. We went to casual dinner. Then walk around lake I lived on. We saw a rat running around while we carefully looking for alligators. Bit of fun regarding.

Then a few days later I called Debbie and told her I had great time and hoped to see her again soon. She said yes...she felt same. She said her friend had broken her arm and Debbie would be tending to her next week or so. After that... good to go and give her a call.

About week later I called Debbie and left her voicemail. No call back. I called again few days later... answering machine. Again, she didn't return call.

Sometime later I saw Uncle and he asked me how things were going with Debbie. I told him what occurred. I told him she is really nice and thanks. He said she had told him she liked me also.
I told him she knows my # and my intentions. He wasn't real happy with results either.

I obviously have wondered if I should have been more persistent. I guess so.