(referencing seen from Zoolander)

But what if your name IS Baby? And someone calls you Susan?

Would you be all like ,"My name is not Susan! You should call me Baby!"

(yes, I also referenced a Whitney Houston song ...lol)

It is a reality in life that we don’t always get what we want. So if we desire to have a connection with a future partner what would be the top choice? Physical, spiritual, emotional or intellectual and why? I may have left some other kind of connection too , feel free to add please.

Show of hands; who is from the southern states?

Don't come here if these names twist yur tvvt'ss... I use hun for women I see often at the store, or I use ma'am regardless of age if I don't know them, sometimes dear..

I also can't understand the shallowness of a lot of you

It is very irritating and I usually correct them on the spot ( unless it is a old person). I don't like being called chief, cus, bro, boss or any other off the shelf name. And where I where I come from you never address someone by only their last name, it is a insult, as in talking down to them. If you are going to do that it better have a Mr. in front of it or you are not going to get a pleasant reply.

you call me by my first name or you call me Mr.------... that's it.

....does it turn you on or freak you out?

(I think) it's a given that we all want to be as attractive as we can and be validated for our character as well.

Some seem to go the extra mile\kilometer to be overly provacative.

Just coming to the 2nd question as I'm writing:
No matter the content of your character, your accomplishments, your ideals, etc.....
Do you like being looked at as just plain sexy?

Actually, you have things right, I think. For the most part.

You know what the most difficult thing is, about trying to pass learned wisdom on to others? It is that it is more often true, that wisdom can only be fully understood, AFTER you have been through the painful messes that those who are advising you, are trying to help you cope with, or avoid.

Wise sayings are designed to be short, and as simple as possible, in order to put a lot of information into something that can be basically understood and remembered.

The above saying is a case in point. "There is no right person," is trying to simply refer to the fact that we are all both very unique, and always learning and changing, and so finding an EXACT match for us in every respect, is extremely unlikely, if not impossible. Since no one is, or can be perfect, looking for a perfect mate, is usually a good way to guarantee you remain alone.

So we need to be ready to accept someone instead, who is a kind of wrong, that will work with our kind of wrong. That's what is mean by "how we make the wrong ones right for us." That doesn't refer to us forcing the "wrong" person to change for us, rather the exact opposite.

That's why HOW we adjust to the lack of perfection in ourselves and others is so important. The right way to make two less-than-perfect people work as a mated pair, is never for one member to try to perform emotional or character surgery on themselves, in order to fake themselves into matching with someone who they really don't get along with naturally. The right way to do it, is for each to appreciate everything about each other, including the flaws, so that we can build a positive life together in spite of neither of us being ideal beings.

Well, since you put it THAT WAY I am laughing.
We've gone from...One for all and all for one...To...

I have received an email with just the emoji.

Could be a new trend.

True! And I am tired already!