Oh my god, I must be naive...here's another letter like the last
one...from a different guy this time...are these scammers real people?
Or just drummed up by the dating sites?

Have a go at this one!!

"hi sweet angel"
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From: jigga722

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hi babe , my name is anderson michael from atlanta ,
georgia am geologist which is all about searching and
drilling soil for a place to get natural resources
like gold, petorleum product and other product inside
the soil.....am divorced and i have a kid staying
with me his name is larry...i love swimming ,
beaching ,camping,clubbing and alot of fun.my
favourite kind of foods are fried rice and chicken.
.i love playing soccer, basket ball... so since i was
divorced have been looking for some body who will
like to be my soulmate for the rest of my life . so
babe you might be the one god as sent to me so that we
can start the life , stay together , in the peace and
in the harmony babe ....so babe if you really want
me cos i really want you to be my wife ....but presently am outside the
state
for a contract due to the nature of my job......so you can contact me on
....
..............and_m_x@yahoo.com
........dan_will0832@hotmail.com

Sexym,

I just wanna give you a big hug - that's so sad...when I look at your
photo with your lil puppy it makes me smile and I think to myself what a
wonderful, kind, caring person. She must be as beautiful on the inside
as out to have a pic of her and her puppy here.

It's a big world, and not everyone thinks like your ex-nut bag
boyfriend. The world is full of kind, caring loving and compassionate
people...problem is seems what bad is done to us stands out more and we
remember it longer than we do the good.


Good bless,

What's the puppies name

Jaime

Cookie, I can go for work boots...as long as their souls are all
attached!!(smiles)

I'm sure I made myself out to look very shallow, but it was a little
more complicated than all of that. There's a time and a place for
certain attire ya know? Even barefoot is good, but don't take me to a
Red Lobster or out for a night of drinks an dancing looking like a
hobo..That was all I was saying.

Remember the old saying - it's not the clothing that makes the man -
it's the man that makes the clothing? Think about it.

J

Still nothing...poor fella, must be heart broken I wouldn't talk to him
on yahoo!! (wink)

J

How is it KB, that they can take part in our government funded programs
and not be "legal" citizens...I'm confused


Please explain...


It's very odd that a single woman, left to raise children alone, who is
an American citizen, can work her fingers to the bone, be considered
"poverty level" income...not be eligable for one single, solitary
government program...and she has to chose between food on the table or
medicine? Something is wrong with our system.


J

Blessings to all.

J

KB...or is it Arostotle?

Either...waz up?


Everyone gets there "comin upins"...what goes around comes around and
finally, an "eye for an eye".....

J

I know, I know I have "issues" KB...but somewhere out there is a
handsome guy in a great pair of shoes and I'm going to find him!!


Gnite,

J

You take care Sunshine, come back and see us...

I'm off to ni ni too...early day in the morning.

J

I was seeing him for close to six months...I finally said I didn't think
things were working...I just felt that it was best we went our separate
ways...that's it. He came around after that once in a while, but the
spark was gone at that point. You know, he really was a nice guy and
was cute and sweet, but too me, he was lacking class pure and simple.
If he was poor and couldn't afford shoes, that's one thing, but to have
money and present yourself like that without giving it a second thought
well......

J

Cookie,,,

May I keep that for future reference??!!! Hahaha!! Good one!

J

Metal, we got you're number...fat women in Spandex right!! (grins)

Just so you know I'm not a total heartless biatch..I didn't let on it
was about the shoes....

J

I tried, everything all but buying them myself...He had a lot more money
than me and I thought if he couldn't go out and buy his own...well you
know...b-bye.

J

I think what hurts us the most in situations like this is the fact they
don't respect us enough to be honest about things...it leaves everything
so "open ended" and we are left holding the bag wondering why and
thinking everything was our fault...

if you feel you did your best in the relationship - that's all you can
do. Take pride and comfort in knowing that you gave it your best
shot...and that you have nothing to regret or be sorry for.


J

The freaking heal was not attached to the rest of the shoe!!! That's why
it flipped and flopped!! so it wasn't like they were just ugly - and if
he was so cheap or so lazy he wouldn't do something about it...well like
Wendy said, it may have been foresight of things to come!

So you mean to tell me guys, if you were with a woman that wore
something distasteful to you that you wouldn't be turned off by it?

J

I'm not in highschool anymore KB...that may have been acceptable at that
point in my life! As of last Wednesday I turned 40. I've grown up a
lot and prefer a man who has some class...It may sound funny, but it was
extremely embarassing and was a relection on me....Yea, I want to bust
my ass looking great for somebody and pulling out all the stops to be
attractive and desirable and I'm dating a guy that can't wear a decent
pair of shoes to a semi-formal dinner? Please...and you are right
Wendy, we did talk about it...and I tried to be as nice and polite about
it as I could. When we were in private that was one thing...when we
were out that was another and yea we dated for some time...it wasn't
like I threw him out after a couple of dates just because of the shoes.
It became an issue so the rest is history...

J

You would hate being my neighbor Ghost, that's priority along with the
coffee!!


Raised on Ryche,

J

He was a sweetie too...but my god!! One of our last dates was at Red
Lobster, he drove a teal blue cadilac, and dressed so nice that night
and we walked in and all I heard was

flip,flop...I knew then it was never going to work...

J

I met this one guy, who I really likde he was such a hottie and we had
so much in common and he even laughed at my jokes we had a lot of
fun...We seemed so compatible...but every time we went somewhere he wore
these broken down shoes...The sole would flop in the back like a flip
flop...it's so funny looking back on it now...even tho he could afford
to buy all the shoes he wanted he always wore these broken down shoes!!
So like we would be somewhere, to a movie, the store, even a fancy
resaurant, anywhere we went and you would hear flip flop, flip flop...I
couldn't take it anymore!! I asked him several times, please don't wear
those with me...buy a new pair wear something different..it's
embarrasing people look at you then they look at me. I'm not shallow
honestly, but I couldn't take it...he wouldn't do something about the
shoes so he had to go!

C'mon guys...lets have a little class when you are out with your
woman...


J

someone with a size thirteen shoe for me please!! (wink)

J