Community > Posts By > katydid34

 
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Tue 12/11/07 10:52 PM


I don't think that has to do with age, it has to do with maturity and honesty. You can be "older" and not know what you want, or you can totally know and not be willing to be honest about it.


never had a older woman tell me she dont know wat she wants
and i know most just want to settle down and be truly taken



Trust me, I have friends like this, I call them fickle. They have no idea what they want. So it's not just younger women.

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Tue 12/11/07 10:48 PM
erm...

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Tue 12/11/07 10:48 PM

Alright, got the details from the first date!!!!


Really? How'd it go?

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Tue 12/11/07 10:45 PM




I think it's silly. If you're not ready to meet someone don't agree to meet them. Otherwise maybe you're not mature enough to date yet.


Nope, not immature. I'd just gotten out of a long running relationship and wasn't ready to venture back out like I thought I was. I didn't wait til the LAST possible second...lol, but a few hours, when my nerves really started getting the better of me, yes. I'm human, we're all human. I think it may just be our gut telling us something's not right.


Eh, I guess my thing is, I would have had to talk to a guy for a lonnnnnnng time to even agree to go out with him, so by then, I would know for sure. I don't know, it just seems inconsiderate to me.

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Tue 12/11/07 10:41 PM
I don't think that has to do with age, it has to do with maturity and honesty. You can be "older" and not know what you want, or you can totally know and not be willing to be honest about it.

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Tue 12/11/07 10:39 PM


Man I hate that! LOL, I've done it before too though, so I can tell you. She probably got scared, or just wasn't as ready to meet you as she thought she was. I've done that twice, both times it was simply b/c I wasn't as ready to date as I thought I was.


i never done dat before
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I think it's silly. If you're not ready to meet someone don't agree to meet them. Otherwise maybe you're not mature enough to date yet.

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Tue 12/11/07 10:35 PM

Haha no dates, we just randomly meet out in the public!


LOL, no I meant off here. :)

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Tue 12/11/07 10:32 PM

It is ****. Unless there have a good reason then it is ok. Unfortunately everything that men complain that women do, men do also. That goes both ways.


True. That's why I don't agree to dates, LOL.

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Tue 12/11/07 10:31 PM

kelly and I are now exclusive, but she still won't kiss me. I asked her why tonight and she said she is a bad kisser and has bad coordination. On my way home from her house I thought to myself, does this mean I will never get a kiss out of her? I ended up calling her and I asked her about the kissing, I asked if someone in her past told her she is a bad kisser. She said yes, but also in school kids used to push her against lockers and abuse her and ask when they were going to have their way with her. She said she would talk to me more about it tomorrow.


That's odd. Too bad about her school experience.

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Tue 12/11/07 10:29 PM

why do women say they will go out with you but cancel on the last minute???


For the same reason men do it.

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Tue 12/11/07 10:12 PM

To everyone, thank you so much for all of your advice, but,unfortunately, the 26 year old, divorced woman, with 2 kids, just told me that she thinks I'm to young for her, and that we could be friends, and not to take it personal, but yet and still she deletes me off of her myspace... oh well... time to find another "woman"! But thank you all so much!grumble


Awww, I'm sorry since you really liked her. But I'm sure it's for the best, it's good she figured it out early before anyone really got hurt. Good luck, I'm sure you will find what you want. :)

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Tue 12/11/07 10:09 PM


probabaly not your first choice lol, but im willing to talk. Whats on the mind?


I think he means 'chics' zooG, dating site and all.laugh


LOL, we're not all here for dating. :)

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Tue 12/11/07 02:01 PM
Aww, don't be nervous. Just have fun. You must really like him to agree to meet him, and obviously he feels the same. Good luck and tell us how it goes.:-)

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Tue 12/11/07 02:00 PM
Good luck with that.

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Tue 12/11/07 01:28 PM

And who can forget my incident with the casual first time dinner date whicg was nice and cordial. After the date I dropped her off at her door and went home. She then decided to stalk me and defamed my character around town by telling anyone who would listen that I was her "sex toy". Then in a fit of frustration she attempted to burn my house down because I was not there. Neighbors surveilance cameras caught her. I filed a restraining order and found out she had a long criminal record and had legally changed her name and moved from where she previously lived to try to hide or get away from her past behavior of stalking men, slashing tires, killing pets, and arson, and many more. I do background checks and meet in public places. THIS CRAP HAPPENED TO ME IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU! Be careful.


OMFG!! That's creepy. Now I don't feel so bad about encountering liars, at least they didn't do all that stuff...

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Tue 12/11/07 01:10 PM
I don't have a man, but thanks for the advice.

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Tue 12/11/07 12:26 PM
yay you

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Tue 12/11/07 12:24 PM

walk by her and "accidentally" drop a pen in her lap. When she hands it back, tell her since she has it she might as well write her number down so you can call her for coffee later. Act like you are in a hurry.


LOL. That's cute. I'd love to know how that would turn out...

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Tue 12/11/07 12:22 PM

steal her sandwich and make her chase you.....devil


LOL!!!

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Tue 12/11/07 10:49 AM
good for you....