No, I'm talking to the original poster. She asked why she couldn't find other women looking for what she's looking for and if you read her profile that's what she says she's after. A person's sexual depravities are their own business of course, I was just sayin this isn't that kinda party. lol

Cause this isn't a sleaze site geared toward intimate encounters and threesomes. If that's what you're looking for try adultfriendfinder.

Just got home from the bar. A little tipsy. But it's all good.

It doesn't. Been there, done that. Disaster every time. Maybe for some, but I don't like to bet the rent when the odds are as bad as they are.

Actually... I'm terribly drunk and doing the cupid shuffle. That's exciting right?

Imagine my chagrin as my friend and I ran into a snowstorm on our way back to Pittsburgh from the Florida Keys. As if leaving the 85 degree December/January weather wasn't depressing enough, we had to get off the highway and are now staying in a nice little hotel off 79 for the night. What's worse, the snow has since stopped, but we've already paid for the room. To top it all off, the TV in our room is on the fritz, but we've got a case of beer, so if any neary members would like to hang out and party and feel like braving the roads, we're bored and could use the company! :-)

You have to be joking right? Cause if you're not you don't need a new boyfriend. You need a helmet, a corner, a coloring book, and a box of crayons.

Why even mess with trash like that? The baker always samples his pastries.

I agree! lol. I wouldn't say I like anything, I'd say I like everything. Hell if my favorite bar were a Baskin Robin's I'd order all 32 f***in flavors. lol

Escort Agent (aka pimp)? Are you being played? Are you serious? Hun, think about what you're doing. That CAN'T be a good situation.

Disregard the whole thing. I say ALL KINDS OF SHT when I'm drunk.

Well the one who's begging for the poem sounds a bit over the edge to me. If you're not a fan of rabits being boiled on your stove ala 'Fatal Attraction' then I'd probably go with the other one.

Well, you never made a commitment to either of them right? You had every right to talk to as many people as you wanted. We ALL know more conversations lead to dead ends than not, so until something becomes something it's only natural to keep as many options open as possible. Your conscience speaks to your character.

The right thing to do would be to decide not who really likes you, but who YOU really like. Once you make a commitment to one, break it off with the other. There's no way to do it without feeling bad, but trust me, if you let the situation go on too long you're certain to lose both and be back to square one.

It's not the worst problem in the world to have, but I don't envy you. Think it over and make the best decision possible. Good luck!

Thank you! Validation always feels great! lol

Well sounds like you have the right idea. Be playful though. Women think differently than we do. Every time I send the nice guy letter, 'Hi I'm Josh how are you bla bla bla,' I get a blow off. When you're a little playful, and tease a little, they tend to respond. Just make sure you're demonstrating the characteristics that they find attractive. They get a TON of emails and they filter them. Odds are they don't even read the whole email, so you just have to be unique in your own way, and you have to grab their attention from the start. You want to seem fun moreso than nice. When they realize you'd be fun THEN you show them nice. It's tough for sure, but give it some practice and you'll be fine.

Well, in order for a woman to be interested in you, you have to BE interesting. Try finding a common interest in the profile. Remember, any woman who's even remotely attractive gets 10, 20, 30+ emails a day. YOU have to stand out.

And just a word of advice, they hear the same compliments every day. You'll be further ahead if you spark a genuinely interesting conversation than if you play nice guy and compliment her and say the same ol' same ol'.

Keep in mind, you're a catch, and you need to demonstrate that to her. Women are comfortable in the position of the chased. When you learn how to reverse the roles, you'll be AMAZED at the difference in your results.

Best of luck!

Hi, sunshine! You're very smart to watch out for scammers, as they are, much like dogsht, everywhere. lol. I just posted in a similar thread explaining that my mother went through a similar situation.

She was in her fifties when my father passed and she found a wonderful guy via the internet a couple of years later who's been a blessing to her and the rest of the family going on 12 years now. But he was from a couple states away, so good things can and do happen, just listen to your gut feeling and make sure!

Fortunately as people mature they tend to leave the games that plague my age group behind, so I'm pretty confident you'll be able to discern quite well! So sorry for your loss and best wishes for your search here. :-)

Well first of all, my friend, hats off to you for landing the sexy younger lady to begin with! You did mention the term sugar daddy, and maybe you were joking, but if you weren't, those gold digger types tend to always be on the lookout for the next free ride.

I've had some mild success as a real estate investor and I can tell you first hand that the true gold digger is a wolf in sheeps clothing! lol. Just watch for red flags, and pay no mind to your mini-me's objections as most of them are quite attractive! lol.

I did see your profile and I'm very sorry for the loss of your wife. I can't speak to that from experience, but my mother lost my father when I was 10 and she had a hard time coping. However, she found a wonderful man who came from a similar situation (via the internet, ironically enough) who she's been with for 12 years and who treats her (and the rest of the family) like gold. She lucked out twice, so it does happen. Keep on keeping on my man, it'll happen to you too!

Good luck!!

Sounds like you've got your mind made up. Why seek wisdom from the internet forums when your own is sufficient?

With maturity comes the realization that the only person one can control is one's self, and even then only about half the time.

lol. Cry a little and move on indeed. Meddling in these types of affairs NEVER yields a positive outcome.