Okay..I'm a regular member on here but I don't want either one to know I asked this...

I've been conversating with 2 girls, not on purpose, I am not trying to "play" anybody. I just started talking to them and now it seems they both really really like me, and I don't want to break either of their hearts, and I don't know what to do

One of them went so far as to say I was a "perfect guy" and the other has had her heart broken so many times she has trouble trusting guys, and she trusts me...this all makes it so much worse...I feel so bad because one of them is going to get her heart broken and I don't know what to do...please somebody, any advice would be great....

your screwed.........

Well, make a choice, and be honest.

Which do you see a better future with? go with that one, and let the other know things aren't going to work out.

That's what I would do.

what azrae1l said. YOUR SCREWED.

HEY G.MAN...YOU CAN RUN,BUT YOU CANT HIDE...

go out with both of them and then make your choice. Tell them straight up first though that you are not exclusive, and want to date.

They both are very sweet girls, they both are girls I could see myself with...I just hate letting people down and breaking hearts, I realize the only thing to do is choose 1 but that seems so harsh to me....

The above is true. You got to be honest with the ladies.

I wouldn't worry about it at all. If you haven't already met them in person chances are you never will anyway. I have spoken to several ladies at a time and it is just that talk. On the other hand if you are playing games with them then you deserve the trouble you may be in. Think about it. How can the one girl trust someone she has never met before.

start acting really really REALLY nice, forward, awkward, and clingy to both of them. act as if you would die without their attention. act really really desperate. don't overdramaticize this because you want it to be convincingly real. both of them will get bored with you really quickly.

trust me, it'll work.

I would be honest with both of them. Who knows they maybe talking to another person as well...I say honesty is the best policy.

Sometimes you have to be mean to be nice.

agreed. honesty is the best policy. you should tell both how you feel, even if you end up only picking one. lying (or omitting the truth) just causes more problems down the road...

hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

i know its funny but im serious. itll work lol
which is why its funny i guess

ya and then he will be alone for sure!!!

Then again this might happen if you do the above, they might both want to marry you. So it's a tightrope you walking. As I stated before you have to be honest with the ladies and hope for the best.

I'm going to keep going out with both but tell them about the other, and hopefully I'll find the right one. I'm already super nice to them, they just get more clingy TO ME and say how sweet and perfect everything I do is....not making it easy >_<

Well, if they read the posts in the forums regularly, I'd say you've already let the cat out of the bag. Hahaha! Oooooooppps!!!