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Fri 10/16/09 09:35 AM
I understand this works both ways. There will never be a definitive answer to this question. Trying to figure out dishonest ppl is a waste of time, because you will never be able to do it. Just stay away from them once you find out they're doing these things.

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Fri 10/16/09 08:59 AM
Also, when sending a message to someone you're interested in, go beyond "U R sexy" or "Hi". Try to write something that will initate conversation. Speaking for myself only, it's very frustrating to always be the one holding up the conversation.

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Thu 10/15/09 11:46 AM


DO COMEDY AND LUST GO TOGETHER IN A RELATIONSHIP???????????????????


Do you mean when you are having sex you burst out laughing???


It's been known to happen

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Thu 10/15/09 09:51 AM


I never thought you cold or anything...If a friend betrayed me I would probably get very mad and then hurt...Then go out for revengedrinker he wouldn't need to fake his death then


thank-you and i like that!


Revenge is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.

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Thu 10/15/09 09:05 AM

Update:

Ok I've discovered that talking in here is easy (of course your not face to face with anyone haha). I can talk to woman, children and elderly easy.
Guess it's just the man thing, attractive and opposite sex typescared .
lol I know I can't be the only one there haha. I suppose it comes down to the usual brokenheart story and a bit scared to go there again.
Oh well, I'm happy and I know I'll get there. Thanks everyone for your posts I'm sure it's helping others and not just meflowers


I'm in the boat as you, but trying to do better. This is one woman who completely gets what you're going through.frustrated

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Thu 10/15/09 08:29 AM
I've initiated first contact quite a few times and have met some very nice ppl. If I'm contacted first, with a one or two word message, I will reply, but if I'm constantly the one to keep conversation flowing, I give up. You can't sit around and wait for everything to come to you. Take the first step, after all, what's the worst that could happen?

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Wed 10/14/09 09:15 AM


While your typin away at yer computer...pik your right foot off the floor and swing it in a clockwise circle. While doin that ...draw a number 6 in the air with your right hand...your foot will change direction......Weird.


Not only can do it here..I can do it below the Equator...where, as you know, even water in toilets flushes the opposite way. And, yes, off topic, but does anyone think it weird that Rio De Janeiro won the Summer Olympics in 2016...and it'll be Winter there?


Interesting observation!

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Wed 10/14/09 08:16 AM
All the questions going through your mind will never be answered so you need to let go of them. And her.

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Tue 10/13/09 05:15 PM
Edited by biglife on Tue 10/13/09 05:19 PM


Is there one in Dallas Mitch???




The original is in London. They are also in:

New York
Berlin
Washington DC
Shanghai
Amsterdam
Hong Kong
Las Vegas
Hollywood




Also one in Niagara Falls, Ontario




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Tue 10/13/09 07:27 AM

Where the hell've you been? You've been dearly missed!

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Tue 10/13/09 07:14 AM
Hi Rich and welcome.

We are all looking for something different, but for me, integrity is at the top of the list. And definitely a great sense of humour.

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Sun 10/11/09 08:36 AM


When someone posts a question and some of us in here(yes I'm guilty of it)poke fun at them. Some are serious and we dont think with our replies. I know we don't mean harm but the newbies asking don't know the diference. How many have we run off?


The way I view it, the Newbies are our guests in the forums and all of us here are guests on Mingle2. No one should have to indure ricidule and being poked fun at in order to prove their dedication....this is not a sorority/paternity where we haze them at the door. Poking fun at a Newbie is a bit like picking on the new kid at school.....high school stuff we should have left behind a long time ago.




Agreed, but there is a difference between poking fun at a post and responding in a mean, bitter, cynical or angry manner. I know of some ppl that have chosen not to return to the forums due to rudeness of others. When you are dealing with such an array of personalities, it's hard to gauge how some ppl will respond to different types of humour. Being respectful of others is something that should have been taught waaaaaaaaaaay before high school. Besides it's nicer to just get along and play nice.

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Sat 10/10/09 08:11 AM

This is fantastic!! So nice to hear that two ppl can meet, get to know each other and spend time together without jumping into bed right away. Especially since you met in a bar. Sounds to me like you both like each other, have self-respect, and enjoy each other's company. Keep doing what you're doing and just let it all unfold without forcing anything or sabotaging it. Please, please don't overthink it. Sit back and be happy that you have found this lady and don't worry about what's going to happen tomorrow.

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Sat 10/10/09 08:10 AM
This is fantastic!! So nice to hear that two ppl can meet, get to know each other and spend time together without jumping into bed right away. Especially since you met in a bar. Sounds to me like you both like each other, have self-repect, and enjoy each other's company. Keep doing what you're doing and just let it all unfold without forcing anything or sabotaging it. Please, please don't overthink it. Sit back and be happy that you have found this lady and don't worry about what's going to happen tomorrow.

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Fri 10/09/09 05:36 PM



It is funny...truly...that someone will take the most innocent, heart-felt comment and turn it around!

"So I should only date ugly people because they'll be nice to me? Um, no thanks."

A non-sequitor if there ever was one.


What's "truly funny" is that you would care that much about what I said, why don't you limit your comments to what the OP said, and remain on topic and not worry about my opinions, since my conclusions don't follow the premises? Yeah, you're not the only person on here who knows "big words."rofl rofl rofl rofl tongue2


You don't decide what I or anyone comments on...The author stands by his original story! :smile:


drinker

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Fri 10/09/09 12:16 AM
Edited by biglife on Fri 10/09/09 12:18 AM

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Fri 10/09/09 12:16 AM
Edited by biglife on Fri 10/09/09 12:17 AM




We are about to blow a crater in the moon....

TOO SEE IF THERE IS WATER THERE???

Our tax dollars at work.... slaphead



but yet they can't cure diseases what
They can cure alot of diseases!!! Cancer....do you think they dont have the cure???? Of course they do. But the govt makes more money on people dying, using chemo and the meds....big bucks. Its always about the $$$$


Now we are heading into conspiracy land. Its right next to the damn lizard aliens laugh
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And why are such immense amounts of money being imvested, donated and wasted for a cure that hasn't even one iota of a track record for things improving. Still get cancer, still suffer or die of it after living their life in hell. There is a cure available, but think of how many ppl currently working in that field would no longer have a job. Includng the huge pharmaceutical ompanies receiving billions of $$$$ in research and marketing the medication, the health care workers, the manufactuters of equipment and supplies. I have never heard of a non-cure of anything that has so much $$$ thrown at it yet, comes up short in ending this desease. How long and how many more $$$ will it take before any headway is made?

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Thu 10/08/09 01:01 PM


broke up a month ago in that time when i have message or called him he will ignore it and then call a day or two later..last week he called and i was out with my friends i convinced him to come out and have a few drinks with us..as soon as he arrived just the way he was looking at me was exactly the same as when we were going out and i must admit i was pretty smug at the idea...so we're all getting pretty drunk and i'm all happy and having fun and dancing anyways we all went back to a friends house to continue and he's trying to follow me around the place and talk and he's trying to get some cuddles out of me and touch me and i kept saying to him hey were supposed to be friends can't have any of that really drilling into him the whole "friends" thing because after all that's what he wanted...towards the end of the night he kisses me and i'm like what are doing we're friends ok and anyways we end up going to sleep in the same bed and he's cuddling up to me and i kinda made the assumption that he was trying to sleep with me and he went off me saying that isn't why he came to see me for he wanted to see m coz it's been awhile...i wasnt really buying it so he got angry and is like you should know me better by now i'm not like that...in th emorning he wakes up and says im sorry i was drunk yeah just a bit tipsy and pats me on the head and leaves...i called him in the afternoon just to make sure he got work ok and we talked for a few minutes all he commented on was how drunk i was...anyways 2 days later i sent him a text msg asking if he wanted to come out again got no reply i then sent another one during the night saying i hate you now i miss you..that got no reply either....a week later asked him out again and no reply again......what is with the guy??


I just couldnt read that

here is a handful of periods. just scatter em anywhere in there

.......................................


Same here. Hard on the eyes and brain.

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Thu 10/08/09 12:42 PM
It's a wonderful, diverse group. As in real life, you'll always run into a few that don't know how to play nice.

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Thu 10/08/09 09:54 AM
Where is she?

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