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Sun 11/08/09 11:43 AM


Old Sage Defends FWB one more time...

I say; NEVER pass judgement on ANYONE. What works for one may not work for others. What happens behind closed doors, is NOBODIES business. If FWB, works for you; God Bless you both. Those that it doesn't work for; God Bless you too.
I know that if I am privledged enough to be close to a lady, we will have had a chat & understand EXACTLY where WE are at. I hide nothing & will lie to no one. A "TRUE FRIEND" will never judge a "FRIEND."

My thoughts on "Friends With Benefits."



Now Sir ,if you are going to use God as a blesser of the thought of FWB , then where do His rules like "Thou Shall NOT Commit Adultery" fall in to play.You toss around God's Blessings as if He condones immoral behavior.I for one think He does not ..How about you? Anything goes? That is a stretch but if you say that it is alright behind closed doors, then who am I to argue..So according to your belief (and correct me if I have you wrong)I have God's blessing to do my friend's wife as long as it is in my house behind a closed door..Again ,I think not...JMO


I think you might have misunderstood Sage. Nowhere did I see the word or implication of adultery. FWB is just that, friends, also sexual relationship, no strings attached. If both people have a clear understanding of what it is, then where is the problem? I for one have no interest in it, but it's none of my business, as Sage says, what goes on behind closed doors. If it doesn't affect me, why give it any thought?

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Sun 11/08/09 11:41 AM

Old Sage Defends FWB one more time...

I say; NEVER pass judgement on ANYONE. What works for one may not work for others. What happens behind closed doors, is NOBODIES business. If FWB, works for you; God Bless you both. Those that it doesn't work for; God Bless you too.
I know that if I am privledged enough to be close to a lady, we will have had a chat & understand EXACTLY where WE are at. I hide nothing & will lie to no one. A "TRUE FRIEND" will never judge a "FRIEND."

My thoughts on "Friends With Benefits."



Now Sir ,if you are going to use God as a blesser of the thought of FWB , then where do His rules like "Thou Shall NOT Commit Adultery" fall in to play.You toss around God's Blessings as if He condones immoral behavior.I for one think He does not ..How about you? Anything goes? That is a stretch but if you say that it is alright behind closed doors, then who am I to argue..So according to your belief (and correct me if I have you wrong)I have God's blessing to do my friend's wife as long as it is in my house behind a closed door..Again ,I think not...JMO


I think you might have misunderstood Sage. Nowhere did I see the word or implication of adultery. FWB is just that, friends, also sexual relationship, no strings attached. If both people have a clear understanding of what it is, then where is the problem?

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Sun 11/08/09 07:17 AM




I agree with Gator. The eyes don't lie! No matter what is coming out of their mouths, the eyes are teliing the truth.


True...

Oooh, another foodie! I am making my homemade pesto today...from my own basil, EV olive oil, Reggiano Parmigiano , garlic and pine nuts...Pasta Tonight! Want to come?:wink:
Absolutely! What time?


Continental...8:30...but arrive early for Aperitifs! LOL


Is this an intimate tete-a-tete or can anybody join in? I'll contribute chocolate/Grand Marnier mousse. Can I get in with that? Huh? Huh? Can I? Can I?

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Sun 11/08/09 06:38 AM
Good morning ladies and any gentlemen that happen to peek in. Well, another rockin' Saturday for me last nite (heavy on the sarcasm). Baileys's on ice and whatever mind-numbing T.V show was on. On the plus side though, these kinds of evenings allow for a good night's sleep! No dealing with the effects of the nite before the morning of.

Hope everyone has a great Sunday!!!!!

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Sat 11/07/09 01:41 PM




The wizard gave the scarecrow a brain
The wizard gave the tin man a heart
The wizard gave the lion courage.

What trait or characteristic do you you think you need?

Patience, love, forgiveness, understanding, compassion..etc.

Clarity...so that I might exercise wisdom in making choices that affect my life...and the lives of others!:wink:


It will come.:smile:

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Fri 11/06/09 09:15 PM
You can't stop everyone from responding in this way. If conversation is going in the wrong direction for you -- simple -- just end it. You don't owe anyone any explanations.

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Fri 11/06/09 03:37 PM

Depends on how the relationship ended.

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Fri 11/06/09 03:35 PM






hard not to assume when you think so secular of your own beneficiaries, open minded is the ability to view a situation from the perspective of the opposing factions. i don't think your all the way there yet.. really close though just gotta keep chipping away at those bloody Islams, boy would the world be just a super awesome rainbow carnival ride if we got rid of those fellas.
It would be great if EFERYONE was as perfect as us, HUH? Maybe we should include Hitler, Stalin,and all the other perfect "white" people that has spread their idea of perfection in history!!


hitler and hollocaust never happened


Is this a serious comment?


oh dear lord, never! flowerforyou


i will even add that i have heard stories from my grandmother of what was happening in warsaw...she has seen it, lived...


Thanks for the clarification.:smile:

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Fri 11/06/09 03:27 PM



hard not to assume when you think so secular of your own beneficiaries, open minded is the ability to view a situation from the perspective of the opposing factions. i don't think your all the way there yet.. really close though just gotta keep chipping away at those bloody Islams, boy would the world be just a super awesome rainbow carnival ride if we got rid of those fellas.
It would be great if EFERYONE was as perfect as us, HUH? Maybe we should include Hitler, Stalin,and all the other perfect "white" people that has spread their idea of perfection in history!!


hitler and hollocaust never happened


Is this a serious comment?

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Fri 11/06/09 11:11 AM
Hey Jayne How's things? Email?

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Fri 11/06/09 09:54 AM
Believe me, you're not missing anything. Getting up and wearing everything you own, just to try and stay warm. Driving in a snowstorm and trying not to get dead. Holing up inside your house for days on end. And did I mention the heating bills? 30C below for a couple of weeks at a time. It's just gets harder every year to put up with it. Maybe I should take up skiing or some sort of thing. I'd much rather be in the hot sun.

Sorry, don't mean to whine. I keep sucking it up every year and fantasizing about a life where I can visit snow if I want to.

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Fri 11/06/09 08:29 AM
Actually, the last time I was there was in March 08. The thing with Florida is that you don't always get the hot weather in the winter. It can be a bit of a crap shoot. Now, the Carribbean? Oh yeah.

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Fri 11/06/09 08:26 AM
I think jerks are great! They make the good guys look even better. Now, if I could only find a way to weed out the bad ones.......

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Fri 11/06/09 07:54 AM
Okay, so I'm a couple of hours behind the rest of you.

But good morning to all! Having some green tea and waiting for a friend in need to get on Yahoo. Another beautiful day here.

Rob, I have a brother in Florida. He enjoys taunting me with his tales of sitting around the pool while I'm freezing my azz off. Now I have two of you!

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Thu 11/05/09 06:02 PM


John you better tell them you're going to be late to work tomorrowpitchfork
if I ain't there they'll just come up here and get me laugh


Play dead.

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Thu 11/05/09 06:01 PM
Nite nite.

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Thu 11/05/09 06:00 PM
Jayne, have they all gone to bed?

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Thu 11/05/09 05:58 PM


What guy?
Hotlicks my mind was in the gutter


Not such a bad place for a mind to be from time to time.

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Thu 11/05/09 05:56 PM
That's it! I'm taking my Barbie doll and going home. No one wants to play.grumble

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Thu 11/05/09 05:51 PM
WAKE UP EVERYBODY!!!!There's a party happening and you're gonna miss it!:banana:

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