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Mon 10/05/09 03:23 PM


I am having a hard time finding someone I like at all. Is it because I am 34 yrs.old? I am confused.


You are absolutely right. The older we get the harder for us to find the person we like. Women should marry early in my opinion, better before you are 30. Do not wait till you are 40. After that you will hardly be able to marry at all.


Your post pisses me off. By what authority are you saying that 1) Marriage over 40 is impossible? 2) That marriage is the be all, end all for women? Of, course I'll be politically correct and say that you're entitled to your opinion, blah, blah, blah, but I find your post to be somewhat offensive.

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Mon 10/05/09 03:15 PM
Edited by biglife on Mon 10/05/09 03:16 PM

so I know a guy who thinks he knows everything when it comes to conspiracies and such..

and he doesn't.. sadly he's lacking a lot of info so every time I talk to him... I rile him up like crazy until he's practically screaming at me.. :p

I swear its too funny and yet I have no idea why he keeps callin me :p

people... if you're going to spout off about anything.. know your subject first :p because I sure do enjoy watching people turn red. :p


Like you said "who thinks he know everything".

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Mon 10/05/09 02:38 PM
It must be hard to go against the grain of who you are. Being an extrovert, I have seldom had the problem of engaging someone in conversation.

Sometimes, you have to force yourself to do things out of your comfort zone, otherwise, you just stay there. It gets easier and easier, like most other things, the more you are willing to put yourself out there. If you have a male friend that's outgoing, join him in social activities. This could be a good ice-breaker for you. Fear of rejection can be a crippling thing that holds you back from achieving what you want.waving

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Mon 10/05/09 02:17 PM





okay, so you don't like tom selleck, that's okay. My point is, that alot of women have a stereotype of what a smart man is and what a bad boy is. Sometimes you can have both in the same package. As to nerds, you are right, some are dumber than they look, some are smarter than they look. The key here is not to judge appearance as a qualifier to the overall package which includes intellect and emotional stability. Now if you're into the one night thing, then by all means, lower your standards.


Hell, if you are going to post a pic of a BAD BOY who is also smart – as in "don't judge a book by it's cover" -- then use Jesse James as your example!! DUH! slaphead

Jesse James: juvenile delinquent (gave his mother hell) but parlayed his energy and intelligence into an empire of building bikes, his own reality show Monster Garage, and he married Sandra Bulluck.

Now this is a CURRENT example of your point!





Thanks, I'm not even sure Tom Selleck acts anymore, and the majority of the younger generation has no clue who he is!laugh


HI! flowerforyou

I butted in the conversation -- and I have no clue as to what you guys are debating -- but what I did notice is the odd reference to Tom Selleck.

Glad you like my better example of a 'bad boy' even though I don't know to what discussion this applies! :laughing:



Neither do I, that's why I'm off the conversation, if I wanted to have a rambling debate with a bitter man, I can walk outside my front door and do it in person- and in stereo.....


In stereo even?laugh

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Mon 10/05/09 01:01 PM
Edited by biglife on Mon 10/05/09 01:02 PM





I'm having a hard time seeing the trouble with this headline. The "Girl Next Door" is usually your down-to-earth type. The one who is realistic, easy to get along with, not high maintenance.
Looks to me like his tag line is just a quick way to say what he's looking for. It's no different then us girls and out "Looking for prince charming" tag lines.


i hit prince charming over the head with a frying pan and now holding him hostage for a ransom


Nice!!!! Now bind and gag him and force him into your armchair while you read him a book of poetry.


no ill just play lady gaga over and over


Make sure it's Paparazzi.:banana:


This is where you and southern bee went offtopic

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Sun 10/04/09 07:15 PM

Wow watching the news this women from brooklyn slashed her 5 month old baby boy in the neck.mad


WTF?

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Sun 10/04/09 06:38 PM

I love the way you said that!!! tears pitchfork :wink: :smile: Jeanie9842a


That is one smart lady, don't you agree?

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Sun 10/04/09 06:33 PM

I think there seems to be confusion over being a strong woman and being a bully. A strong woman handles the ups and downs that life gives with grace and dignity, picks herself up, dusts herself off and continues on. She doesn't run over men for the sake of proving her strength. Vulnerability seems to be what is missing.


Too true, but in order to be vulnerable, one must be willing to trust as well.

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Sun 10/04/09 06:29 PM
Nope. Just sitting back and patiently waiting.

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Sun 10/04/09 06:25 PM

i dont do **** for him like that!lol i dont mind watching sports and hes a big boy he can iron his own damn clothes lol


Yup. Thank God attitudes about what women are expected to do are long in the past.

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Sun 10/04/09 06:05 PM
Edited by biglife on Sun 10/04/09 06:06 PM

thank you...i hope so too. I hope things work out for you as well!


Things will work out for everyone as they are supposed to. Meanwhile, just live and enjoy life the best you can.

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Sun 10/04/09 05:58 PM

yes your right. it really did help me move on though.


Then it was a good decision on your part. Hope all works out for you the way you want it to.

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Sun 10/04/09 05:55 PM

they both are truly painful. I moved out the city we fell in love in so i would stop hurting so much. Turns out Utah is real boring.


Even if you re-locate, you take the pain with you.flowers

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Sun 10/04/09 05:45 PM
Edited by biglife on Sun 10/04/09 05:47 PM


loving someone who doesn't love u back.brokenheart :cry: sad tears



That's not necessarily a bad thing. There are many that aren't even capable of giving love.

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Sun 10/04/09 05:45 PM
Edited by biglife on Sun 10/04/09 05:46 PM

loving someone who doesn't love u back.brokenheart :cry: sad tears


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Sun 10/04/09 05:40 PM

Good ones.Their is a reason you said bad.flowerforyou


You're way to astute. Just looking for some input. Thanks.

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Sun 10/04/09 05:35 PM
After going through a break up with your S/O, does the healing process become easier for you by focusing on the good memories or the bad ones?

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Sun 10/04/09 05:07 PM



Hmmmmm. That's a hard one to answer. I guess I would have to see just what unpredicable means to him. It could mean mentally unstable or exciting and adventurous. Everyone's personality unfolds with time.

That's why I'm asking you guys.. if you think he is nuts or it he meant he can sway either way (adventurous)type of unpredictable.


Why is it just because he says he is unpredictable he is considered nuts????????????Shshshs I would rather have someone around that at times was unpredictable instead of the same ole same ole day in and day out.noway


No one said anything about the person being nuts. We said it could go either way, is all.

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Sun 10/04/09 04:57 PM
Hmmmmm. That's a hard one to answer. I guess I would have to see just what unpredicable means to him. It could mean mentally unstable or exciting and adventurous. Everyone's personality unfolds with time.

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Sun 10/04/09 04:53 PM

my mom is like a huge fan. i'm not. but i thought his healthcare movie was really interested and only made me want to move to france. :p


Too many French ppl there.

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