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The first meeting
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Oh Buttah. I'm left to wonder if you are really a cute little cat. Hmmm...  
LOL I have to back off and regroup. Meow Meow 
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The first meeting
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Not everyone is honest about themselves online. Sorry to say, but I've had a similar thing happen to me!!  Good luck to you!
Thank you. It is very frustrating because you take the time to feel comfortable enough to meet someone, and they are not as they led you to believe.
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The first meeting
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Okay, I have done it. Let me explain.
I have been chatting back and forth with someone on another site. He had a picture posted, rather attractive, medium build, 6'. We were having great chatting sessions and after about 1 month or so, I decide to give him my phone number to call me. Prior to this, he had given me his number asking me to call, but I was not comfortable yet. So, we chat on the phone for about another month. He had been asking all along for a date, dinner or lunch. I'm not there yet, so I tell him this. He is okay with it. Time passes when I finally say, yes I will meet for lunch. Well, today was that day. I agreed to meet him at a nice lunch place. He said he would meet me outside. Okay, so I am not far from this place, so I walk over. I see a man standing outside the restaurant. As I am approaching, still at a distance, I am thinking, "Please, that cannot be him". Then I notice that a couple of women are walking by and he is checking out their behinds. When I get closer he recognizes me and smiles, my thought is "this can't be". He is not 6 feet, he is at most 5'7", he is also bald, with a mustache and a huge gut. He looked nothing at all like his picture. In fact, if he were inside the restaurant waiting, I would have walked right past him not knowing it was him and thought I was stood up! Needless to say, when I left and he leaned in to kiss me, I turned and walked away. I would like to know this; What makes a person be so incredibly non-accurate about what they look like, and think that a person wouldn't notice the difference??? What makes someone do this? Don't they know that once you meet them you will know that they lied about themselves and there would be no chance at all of ever getting a 2nd date? I have decided this is my first and last date with someone online. I am much more comfortable meeting someone in the Home Depot, the super market, or just about anywhere else. Much less chance of meeting a fraud. |
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Money And Cars
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10 billion, and a Ferrari. I like to share
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the truth is
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The Truth Is, EveryBody Is Going To Hurt You; You Just Gotta Find The Ones Worth Suffering For.[♥]. Well said
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paws
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I currently don't have a dog but I do have 2 cats.
One of them I have taught how to fetch! I am not kidding, I crumble up a piece of paper and toss it toward him, he picks it up and carries it to me and drops it at my feet. Perhaps he thinks he is a dog!! |
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My thoughts and prayers are with your cousin and the whole family throughout this sad ordeal. For anyone reading this who does not have medical insurance, does anyone know where they should/could go? I know that their are some hospitals that have funds if a person is unable to pay. I would encourage everyone is this situation to call their local hospital or medical center. I know of a few here in RI, which do give you the tests you need and they are covered by this type of fund. Please email me if you need this information. Sometimes it is within your own community, and especially for women PAP tests and mammograms, are covered. |
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I know what a demand! What was I thinking? I want to ask all those people out there with sisters, mothers, gal friends, daughters, anyone who has adult females in there lives, or are one.... please please please......take the time to get regular 'health' checks... We women are funny creatures...we nag, and cajole, and demand the people we care for, to do the 'maintenance' checks...and then don't do the same ourselves... You may remember my cousin...whose husband had a liver transplant back in June? We had some time together when my uncle passed away, and were attending the funeral together....her husband asked me, begged me, to get her to the doctors as she had been experiencing some lower abdominal pain for a while.... and in all the years he had known her, and loved her...she had NEVER gone for a pap smear.. So, I took her off to the docs...held her hand...politely looked the other way...and got her organised for follow up tests...(ultrasounds ct scans blood works, etc).. Yesterday she had a gyno appointment...where she was delivered the unfortunate news that she has advanced cervical cancer... PLEASE take care of you, ladies....PLEASE take care of the women in your worlds...PLEASE go and have those inconvenient, embarrassing, uncomfortable maintenance checks...PLEASE nag, cajole, demand that they do... it is preventable......and we are worth it.
Thank you for sharing your story, and I am sorry to hear about your cousin. I hope, that with your post, every woman would reads it gets checked, and passes the word to someone they know. I hope that you post makes a difference, if only in one person life. We owe it to ourselves and our families. Thanks again.
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Fate - Is it Real?
Edited by
Buttah
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Sat 09/19/09 07:00 PM
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Who Believes in Fate? Everything happens due to choices we made, not necessarily fate...more a course you already picked. Every action results in the same or bigger reaction, such as if you keep someone locked up for 356 days...they eventually love you... How do we know that those "choices" we make are not actually already predestined to us, and we just believe them to be a choice? 
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I would not be with them. Sorry, been there done that. Now I am financially sound and have no intention of going backwards. Sorry, not the answer people want to hear, but it is the truth. I donate considerably to causes I believe in, so I have done my share! Shallow? maybe by some standards, but not my own.
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If You Had the Money...
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paint
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Keep yer mitts off my
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I don't share my lipstick (get your own!) although I will share my other makeup. I don't share my panties either, especially my thongs!
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I, Robot...
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a shoulder mounted robo hand to slap me upside the head just before I do something stupid. I could use one of those mounted to my back to slap my ..... |
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Topic:
Dolly is Back
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Mikey can perv me anytime
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I, Robot...
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I want to sprout wings and fly
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The Look At Me thread
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I wanna bend Fred Flinstone over the desk while Barney plays with my bum... LMAO |
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I have been separated and living totally apart from my wife of 19 years for 6 months now, and we have began the divorce process....I know that in some cases separated people do get back together...but in my case there is no doubt about a divorce happening, and I do not hide that fact when I talk with people. My question to all is this: Why do people see separated men and women as people who they would not talk with or date, and never try to build a relationship with? Separation is the time to make sure that divorce is the right thing to do, but it means not having someone to talk too or share your life with, and nobody likes that. I understand that people have different ideas on relationships, and I respect the differences, but to say that I am not enbtitled to meet someone, build a relationship, and have happiness is wrong to me, how about you? Please feel free to say what you feel about this, I welcome your opinion. rebound never works. You are not looking for someone to have a relationship at this time in your life, even though you think you are. Why would a woman invest her time into a no-win situation? The only exception would be if you declared you just wanted sex, because that is all you really are offering at this point in your life. good luck |
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I will clean the whole house with bleach. Their is a canyon next to the house so I think it came from there...but if bleach will deter them I am on it! Let them go to a neighbors house. Why are the guys in here acting like it is no big deal?? I am not fond of any kind of rodent at all. And yeah because I live alone it scares me....I do not think that it is funny. What am I suppose to do...I cant kill it. I can set a trap but even then....when it goes snap ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww I will have to call a boy to do it for me. Thats final! I'm with you. A mouse is a big deal!! I say call a man/boy friend over and have him take care of it. Don't set the trap because then the mouse may not be dead, just wounded, then you will have to kill it!!! YIKES! Just call a man!! It is their job anyway, damnit!!! 
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Topic:
The Games People Play
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I rarely text. I am worth a phone call.
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