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 sorry! sue me!
A lot of you ARE shallow pigs. lol Because they are entirely too used to the dolled up version of porn to appreciate what natural beauty is and the way love feels. NO woman can compete with porn no matter what she does or looks like. She can be hotter than hell and a shallow pig will get tired of her in a few months and be looking for something new to feast his eyes on and wank to while she waits for his libido to return. Stupid excuse for variety. If they want variety? stay single. Do you have any idea how hard it is to carry a man's children and look like a porn star afterwards? Could YOU do it? Where is your responsibility to look good? I don't see very many men trying to look like a young hot guy. lol Style your hair for an hour or more every day. Put on a full mask of makeup for another 30 minutes. Whiten your teeth every day. Pay for a facial every week. Pay for hair color, extensions, cutting, styling, treatments. Pay for body color, hair removal, lotions and exfoliators. Pay for expensive lingerie to be a doll for you. How about paying for more boobs then what he's satisfied with? Or putting your boobs BACK the way they were before?? How about paying for the tummy tuck so you can hide that you had 2-3 of his children?? Or realizing they will throw your belly button in the trash and cut you a whole new one? Then there's pedicures, manicures, exercising every day, constant dieting. Women are now cutting up and bleaching their private parts to make it look perfect. This is all just the physical and money spent....we haven't even mentioned the emotional aspects. All the while, I haven't seen a real gorgeous "porn like" man in my age group at all. You should get what you deserve, and appreciate it...or yes.. you are a shallow pig I am. A woman's looks really is all I care about. We know....lol...and, I'm almost certain that you are full of bs with just about everything you say. lol But it is funny, so I like it. 
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How Nosy are You?
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Wow you've got serious problems. If you were really concerned about your "privacy" you would not have left her alone in your apartment or truck. If you plant things, you are playing head games. If she doesn't snoop, you will probably feel like she doesn't give a damn about who you are. Not at all. If she doesn't snoop, I know I can trust her. She's a keeper. Why? did your script run out? Really makes you wonder who needs the psych meds............................... My former wife was bi-polar. I'd like to avoid that type in the future. Too much drama. Someone married you? Wow, that just goes to show there is someone for everybody lol  .....jk 
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Married twice... red flag?
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I don't think being married twice or more is a red flag. It just means that they had two or more marriages that didn't work out. What if one was with a really good con artist? ... and the other one died? Failure of a marriage can come from many reasons and none of us is perfect. Of course. Maybe you don't understand what red flag means either. Here is the Urban definition: A sign or warning of any impending danger, disaster or doom. Of course there could be totally legit, innocent reasons for many marriages. Still...odds are, two failed marriages...and he's out looking for another woman??? Red flag. It's a warning that a dangerous reason for this is possible. It should at least be considered. Or I guess you could just squeeze your eyes shut really, really tight...and maybe you and Mr. Married twice before you will ride into the sunset on your unicorn. |
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Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Mon 02/11/13 10:33 AM
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Because the way a woman looks is extremely important to men and women just don't take care of themselves in this part of the world. Many of us would prefer a thin, young fantasy to a real, overweight willing partner. This is definately how Many Men think! Yep. So, what are women going to do about it? My guess is not a damn thing except complain about men being shallow pigs. sorry! sue me!
A lot of you ARE shallow pigs. lol Because they are entirely too used to the dolled up version of porn to appreciate what natural beauty is and the way love feels. NO woman can compete with porn no matter what she does or looks like. She can be hotter than hell and a shallow pig will get tired of her in a few months and be looking for something new to feast his eyes on and wank to while she waits for his libido to return. Stupid excuse for variety. If they want variety? stay single. Do you have any idea how hard it is to carry a man's children and look like a porn star afterwards? Could YOU do it? Where is your responsibility to look good? I don't see very many men trying to look like a young hot guy. lol Style your hair for an hour or more every day. Put on a full mask of makeup for another 30 minutes. Whiten your teeth every day. Pay for a facial every week. Pay for hair color, extensions, cutting, styling, treatments. Pay for body color, hair removal, lotions and exfoliators. Pay for expensive lingerie to be a doll for you. How about paying for more boobs then what he's satisfied with? Or putting your boobs BACK the way they were before?? How about paying for the tummy tuck so you can hide that you had 2-3 of his children?? Or realizing they will throw your belly button in the trash and cut you a whole new one? Then there's pedicures, manicures, exercising every day, constant dieting. Women are now cutting up and bleaching their private parts to make it look perfect. This is all just the physical and money spent....we haven't even mentioned the emotional aspects. All the while, I haven't seen a real gorgeous "porn like" man in my age group at all. You should get what you deserve, and appreciate it...or yes.. you are a shallow pig |
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Married twice... red flag?
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Mon 02/11/13 09:53 AM
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people can make a red flag out of anything they want, by their past experiences or whatever. main things red flags mean is that your limiting yourself from potential partners. being married before does not represent a red flag to me, but more of a green flag... This thread is about being married TWICE....or more. thx yea, i can read, thnx... that just makes the majority of the women married TWICE or more more willing to make the next one work, that's why i don't consider it a red flag... Yes... I agree it can make it someones endeavor to strive for a better marriage the third, fourth, fifth time.. sure. If they've changed their outlook. Really though... is marriage supposed to be something you do that many times? The more popular view is when you think about how people had a hard time understanding Elizabeth Taylor's many marriages. Thanks for your opinion. It does count. |
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Married twice... red flag?
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people can make a red flag out of anything they want, by their past experiences or whatever. main things red flags mean is that your limiting yourself from potential partners. being married before does not represent a red flag to me, but more of a green flag... This thread is about being married TWICE....or more. thx |
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Married twice... red flag?
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Mon 02/11/13 08:42 AM
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So is it appropriate to ask why their marriages failed? I've only gotten defensive replies. Blaming their spouse. But will you ever know the truth? Isnt marriage a promise to stay together no matter what? If not, why bother? For some title? For tax purposes? To me, thats not a reason to get married. Its not a trial basis and if you dont like it then divorce. I need to know this person didnt throw it away. I cant know that without asking. I like asking early on because I dont like wasting months on someone to wait for this info I really need asap. No...you ain't supposed to ask about someone's past.....do you want us grilling you about your past? "Title or tax"? You gotta be an English chick....those ain't American problems. But....if y'all wanna play....I will play.... Why are you soscrewedoff that no man is your lover? Be honest...is it taxes? Yes, anyone that is trying to get to know me can ask me whatever they want and I will answer honestly. Why is there another way? You dont want to know how somebody is who they are today? Their life before you matters not at all? I know I wouldn't like that a guy didnt care about my life at all before him. It's a shallow depth I'm not interested in. I have that relationship with co-workers. Best friends dont hide secrets... mistakes... life lessons... they share. Apparently you have never heard the phrases...some things are better left unsaid or...let sleeping dogs sleep. The past can't be changed and someone wanting to judge a past that can't be changed is pointless drama begging for a place to happen. The past is the past...that is where it belongs...fading away into the distance to be replaced with the things maturity and experience has taught us. Anyone who still needs to dig into the dirty laundry of what they can't change should be kicked to the curb with a quickness. I guess a good question for you is... Have you considered that you've never had a close, intimate relationship with a partner? You couldn't have if you've never shared your life IN WORDS with someone else. By definition you are describing the opposite of intimacy. Yes, I agree that SOME things from the past should stay out of your current relationship...but sharing your lessons and trials of your past marriage should be something easy to talk about....and if you've been married twice?? Even more so. Unless of course you have something to hide, or don't realize your new partner is actually intelligent enough to question if they are next in line to the dump. Sharing your life, and who you are NOW because of failed marriages is not digging into dirty laundry. People make judgments. Everyday. It's required to make smart decisions in your life. I'm not interested in a man that has been married twice, AND will not tell me why those marriages failed. He could have choked out his wife and she broke it off with a restraining order! How am I to know if I don't ask? Isn't that baggage and dirty laundry I should know to make judgments for my future??? Just for the record... "RED FLAGS" isn't a run away message...it means proceed with caution. |
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Married twice... red flag?
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What do you think of a potential date that has been married more than once and is single again? Does that raise questions of why that may be? 
Ummm....NO! It is a red flag for me, just as someone who is in my age range and has never been married. I'm not saying there aren't valid reasons and that I wouldn't give them a chance, but I would definitely be cautious. That's the best answer I've seen...short and sweet too. I tend to agree with this. Glad to know there's another out there that shares my opinion. Thanks 
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Married twice... red flag?
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Sun 02/10/13 11:39 AM
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So is it appropriate to ask why their marriages failed? I've only gotten defensive replies. Blaming their spouse. But will you ever know the truth? Isnt marriage a promise to stay together no matter what? If not, why bother? For some title? For tax purposes? To me, thats not a reason to get married. Its not a trial basis and if you dont like it then divorce. I need to know this person didnt throw it away. I cant know that without asking. I like asking early on because I dont like wasting months on someone to wait for this info I really need asap. No...you ain't supposed to ask about someone's past.....do you want us grilling you about your past? "Title or tax"? You gotta be an English chick....those ain't American problems. But....if y'all wanna play....I will play.... Why are you soscrewedoff that no man is your lover? Be honest...is it taxes? Yes, anyone that is trying to get to know me can ask me whatever they want and I will answer honestly. Why is there another way? You dont want to know how somebody is who they are today? Their life before you matters not at all? I know I wouldn't like that a guy didnt care about my life at all before him. It's a shallow depth I'm not interested in. I have that relationship with co-workers. Best friends dont hide secrets... mistakes... life lessons... they share. |
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Married twice... red flag?
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So is it appropriate to ask why their marriages failed?
I've only gotten defensive replies. Blaming their spouse. But will you ever know the truth? Isnt marriage a promise to stay together no matter what? If not, why bother? For some title? For tax purposes? To me, thats not a reason to get married. Its not a trial basis and if you dont like it then divorce. I need to know this person didnt throw it away. I cant know that without asking. I like asking early on because I dont like wasting months on someone to wait for this info I really need asap. |
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Married twice... red flag?
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Sun 02/10/13 08:21 AM
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What do you think of a potential date that has been married more than once and is single again? Does that raise questions of why that may be?
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How Nosy are You?
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IMHO if you are dumb enough to bring someone you hardly know into your home for a boink, and you leave them there to go somewhere else, then you deserve to have them go through your stuff, rip you off, and pretty much whatever they decide to do because Stupid is your first name. As far as leaveing stuff to creates some false persona that is that is some really self hatred self sabotageing weird stuff. What you going to do go around and pull all the stuff out if you actually meet someone you want to like you? Bizzaro!!!! I don't like people that invade my privacy. Women test men all the time. I want to know if I can trust her and the sooner I find out, the better. How ironic......
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How Nosy are You?
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Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. This is where we differ a lil TS... I would never create a imaginary scenario by planting the items you described. My purpose would not be to disturb someone's psyche... I would call that "head games" No offence to anyone's M.O here but what would be the point again? To get a rise out of them? Start off on bad footing? Get rid of her? I'll pass on this method. If she doesn't go through my things she won't find any of that junk and there won't be any issue. If she does find them, she's in the wrong for violating my privacy and deserves what she gets. With any luck, she leave me and I've rid myself of a troublesome person in my life. Wow you've got serious problems. If you were really concerned about your "privacy" you would not have left her alone in your apartment or truck. If you plant things, you are playing head games. If she doesn't snoop, you will probably feel like she doesn't give a damn about who you are. TxScoundrel is NOT playing games... he was giving us real examples of what can be found at his place
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JMO, but i think you dont talk about sex at all... if the chemistry is right, it happens by itself. Communicated through body language and expressions.
No words needed. And you wait for that. 
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what men expect from women ?
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Fri 02/08/13 02:22 PM
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See? I knew this wouldn't go anywhere lol
Do I know men or what?!?! 
The original thread creator is not from the US, maybe where he comes from men still care what women want. Ladies? We should relocate lol  Lets go
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what men expect from women ?
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1. Women cannot stop nagging at men. It's not that we don't WANT to, it's that we can't stop unless our man does what we ask. lmao
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sex on first date
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No sex on the first date.....? That ain't a date... that is hanging out with a friend. Spoiled rotten men are. lol 
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sex on first date
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Thu 02/07/13 06:21 PM
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What. Men probally do too. And both men and boys have to respect the lady's feelings. True. Good thinking. But boys shouldnt have sex anyway. I'm thinking they dont wear their jacket like they should. Lol Grandparents are getting younger all the time because of it.
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what men expect from women ?
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*Crickets*
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well ladies??
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I had to crick (yeah I know it's not a real word but it works) my neck to look at the pics but they look good. Would you consider letting me pop a balloon on your hair? I've always wanted to try that!!
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