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You've just had sex with a new lover for the first time. It's now the morning after and he/she has gone out to buy breakfast for you both. While they're gone, do you look through his/her personal belongings? Closets, draws, etc?
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No since every relation needs trust plus thats just rude and creepy.
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You've just had sex with a new lover for the first time. It's now the morning after and he/she has gone out to buy breakfast for you both. While they're gone, do you look through his/her personal belongings? Closets, draws, etc? Nah...I agree with JuatANormalPerson, that is just creepy. If you just meet her/him and you are already going through her stuff that relationship is going nowhere. Also, for anyone out there that says "yes, i would go through her stuff" you should check with an specialist ASAP :P |
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Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Wed 02/06/13 10:00 PM
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You've just had sex with a new lover for the first time. It's now the morning after and he/she has gone out to buy breakfast for you both. While they're gone, do you look through his/her personal belongings? Closets, draws, etc? If you really want to know who you just slept with...then yes!!! Lol |
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Its not nosey... its detective work lol.
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No I want to feel good about the last night and maybe what the future brings. Im curious but if someone went through my stuff it would send up warning flags to me.
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What if you've been burned 19 times... do you look into who they are for real? Or never know what they're hiding? I know tons of people that hide things i would've wanted to know because it was a deal breaker. Im not waiting for it to reveal on its own. I look. Dont care. Been burned too many times. I shouldn't be looked at as jaded for it... it wasn't me that betrayed. So what, someone looks at your stuff...big deal.. when people worry about that, they always have something to hide. Every time
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I understand what you mean mountainwatergirl, just gotta do your own detective work sometimes, especially if they arent willing to share just as much as you are. Plus who wants a one sided show and tell when all you want is your curiosity to be cured.
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Alright ladies, suppose while going through this man's personal things you discover a locked box? How far will you go to discover it's contents?
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You've just had sex with a new lover for the first time. It's now the morning after and he/she has gone out to buy breakfast for you both. While they're gone, do you look through his/her personal belongings? Closets, draws, etc? I'd have to wait until I know he won't be walkin in unexpectedly and catching me in the middle of keying the lock on that damn box.. if it's our first night together, he's probably rushing to get back with the grub so he doesn't leave me much time to snoop... knowing he'd be doing the same thing to me if the shoe was on the other foot... 
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truthfully, I'd look to see if she was on any psych meds, but that's all. I wouldn't go through her things, so I'd never know if she had a locked box.
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No, I wouldn't do that and my spending the night with someone does not give them the right to pry into my private belongings. I really feel sorry for people that think that sort of behaviour is justifiable merely on the basis of things that have happened to them in the past. They are dragging baggage into every new relationship and poisoning every chance they have at happiness with their own insecurities and paranoia.
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I'm not nosy.
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Nah. Snooping like that is creepy.
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You've just had sex with a new lover for the first time. It's now the morning after and he/she has gone out to buy breakfast for you both. While they're gone, do you look through his/her personal belongings? Closets, draws, etc? He best have me wanting to rest while he is gone or I might not be there when he gets back, something will come up that I have to leave for. I will call or text him that I have to go though, not the sneaking off type. No, snooping is not my style. |
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Alright ladies, suppose while going through this man's personal things you discover a locked box? How far will you go to discover it's contents? I wouldn't even know of the locked box. |
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No, he and I would be going out to a nice breakfast together.
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Good thread TS!
People go through other peoples stuff all the time... Then, they find something that gets their imagination soaring... Usually in a negative way. Judged, Jured and executed is usually the outcome. My point is... If you can't handle it? Why go searching for it? I have planted booby traps for possible snoopers... placed things where I'd know for sure someones been through it. And they did... BUSTED! I don't continue with someone who can't respect others privacy. Damn busy bodies 
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Edited by
TexasScoundrel
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Sat 02/09/13 11:13 AM
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Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things.
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Edited by
Rawrr_Girl
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Sat 02/09/13 11:18 AM
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me. I'm not the nosy type anyway. If my relationship is going okay, and he's not giving any reason for me to think otherwise, then I would not snoop. I think if you have a suspicious mind, then you could be setting yourself up for accusing. No trust? No love. |
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