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Topic: sex on first date
lonelygirl_03 Joined Sat 12/01/12 Posts: 61	Sun 01/27/13 09:05 PM
is it okay? do you like that?

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sun 01/27/13 09:52 PM
no its not ok for you need to respect yourself and not let the man control your mind you need to take things slow and not let any man take advantage of you

Freshking2015 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 3	Sun 01/27/13 10:10 PM
I like it

harsh2019 Joined Tue 06/05/12 Posts: 314	Sun 01/27/13 10:22 PM
It should be only if both the man and woman have mutual feelings for each other and look forward to have a permanent relationship other that that nope

SpicyExcel Joined Wed 10/31/12 Posts: 1622	Sun 01/27/13 10:48 PM
no its not ok for you need to respect yourself and not let the man control your mind you need to take things slow and not let any man take advantage of you Don't you think this statement is a bit slanderous.

SpicyExcel Joined Wed 10/31/12 Posts: 1622	Sun 01/27/13 10:48 PM Edited by SpicyExcel on Sun 01/27/13 10:49 PM
If anything it should be a mutual feeling between both individuals.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 01/27/13 10:59 PM
no its not ok for you need to respect yourself and not let the man control your mind you need to take things slow and not let any man take advantage of you

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sun 01/27/13 11:20 PM
no its not ok for you need to respect yourself and not let the man control your mind you need to take things slow and not let any man take advantage of you Don't you think this statement is a bit slanderous. HECK NO!!!

lonelygirl_03 Joined Sat 12/01/12 Posts: 61	Mon 01/28/13 12:12 AM
Do really BOYS like SEX ON FIRST DATE?

lofonchofo Joined Mon 12/24/12 Posts: 36	Mon 01/28/13 04:00 AM
yes we like sex...but depends who u r dealing with(respect)....

ckenney Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 1	Mon 01/28/13 04:14 AM
Nah never a women aint just a sex toy first date is about getting to no each other more and all about respect

zippi005 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 1	Mon 01/28/13 04:26 AM
First date,second,third it does not matter if is going to happen anyway nothing wrong when ever happen it is feeling why can't we leave it spontanous and both can decide

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 01/28/13 04:48 AM
Yeah, it isn't morally wrong for grown adults to have consential sex and it isn't always men taking advantage of women. If you got to know someone through some sort of dating service then you probably exchanged a lot of emails and talked on the phone. You already know that you like each other and you just aren't sure what the face to face meeting will be like. You want to know if there will be that chemistry. You agree to meet and if you are atracted to each other take it from there. Some people jump into sexual relationships and others think that you should try to get to know someone properly first. Some people like taking risks because they want a bit of excitement. Some people take the atitude that if it feels right you should do it. It is just a matter of whether or not you think it feels right and that's a personal thing.

amaria90 Joined Thu 11/03/11 Posts: 2806	Mon 01/28/13 05:27 AM
First of all as a believer you are suppose to put God first and he will make your paths straight. The first time Issac met Rebekah he took her and married her. What God puts together let no man separate. If I were to meet someone on here and we decided to meet in person but we lived so far apart I believe when God brought us together we’d marry and then that would be okay. But the only way that would happen is if I knew it was in God’s plan

gururaj2013 Joined Mon 01/28/13 Posts: 1	Mon 01/28/13 05:34 AM
yea.... :) add me

lonelygirl_03 Joined Sat 12/01/12 Posts: 61	Mon 01/28/13 07:05 AM
so you guys have already experienced sex on first date?

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Mon 01/28/13 07:50 AM
so you guys have already experienced sex on first date? thats why most men think they can take advantage of woman all they think about is pleasing there own self wam bam thank you mam

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 01/28/13 07:57 AM
no its not ok for you need to respect yourself and not let the man control your mind you need to take things slow and not let any man take advantage of you Women can think for themselves and enjoy sex. Just because they decide to have sex on the first date does not mean they're letting a man take advantage of them. So yes, it's ok.

amaria90 Joined Thu 11/03/11 Posts: 2806	Mon 01/28/13 08:13 AM
no its not ok for you need to respect yourself and not let the man control your mind you need to take things slow and not let any man take advantage of you Women can think for themselves and enjoy sex. Just because they decide to have sex on the first date does not mean they're letting a man take advantage of them. So yes, it's ok. ... but what if it doesn't work out, you've just added another sex partner to your list then THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU GO... hhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 01/28/13 08:42 AM
no its not ok for you need to respect yourself and not let the man control your mind you need to take things slow and not let any man take advantage of you Women can think for themselves and enjoy sex. Just because they decide to have sex on the first date does not mean they're letting a man take advantage of them. So yes, it's ok. ... but what if it doesn't work out, you've just added another sex partner to your list then THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU GO... hhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm Well, that's the risk you'll need to take any time you have sex with a new person. It can happen whether you're in a relationship or not.