I think my dogs do although if I dropped dead they would probably eat me.

smokin...

Can you be a little more specific on the games? You sound upset. Did something happen recently?

The other aspect of it is you are physically attracted to whoever you are physically attracted to bottom line. Whether that is a Black, Asian, white, Martian, etc...The racial aspect is secondary to that deciding factor. We tend to gravitate to what we want from an aesthetic standpoint.

Ohh! Okay I get it now. I see the friends list. Sorry Im new. I think in the net world people just like to appear more popular then they are so they ask everyone and their mother to be a friend on their list and like throwing poop at a fence, some will stick. Dont worry about it. Delete em if they suck.

Why have they stopped talking to you? Are you referring to real life friends?

I honestly tend to seek out the least amount of baggage that I can. Baggage being ex wives and children. However, the older you become, the more difficult that is. Many men in their 30s-40s are going to have ex wives and kids and sometimes its a bumpy ride from that perspective and the new girlfriend can often be viewed as the outsider or trying to take mom's place in some capacity.

So if you can find a man with no children in his 40s, thats actually kid of attractive in my opinion. Its one hurdle you dont have to jump at least.

Oh I hear ya. Generally what pops into my mind with men is are they gay? I know thats not fair but I think there will always be a moment of doubt when you meet someone who has never been married. You are generally going to wonder why and that is not unreasonable.

What is worse though? A person who has been married and divorced or never married? I mean at least in your opinion?

No. I tend to give them the benefit of the doubt. The reason is Im in my 30s and never been married. Ive had several opportunities and decided against it. I also take into account that people in the late 30s early 40s age range are from that generation of divorce and a lot of us are gun shy so to speak. We saw first hand the implications of a failed marriage. Its not terribly unusual when you take into account some of these other factors that can already be in play.

Looks good!

You would have thought with all of this marvelous technology the future holds in store for us, they could have found a spaceship that was powered on something other than delithium crystals which is the rarest substance in the universe. Who was paying for all of that? The space exploration fairy?

Very nice.

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Im a little uncomfortable having my photos displayed outright. So far it has not been that much of a problem as I notice many people here do not have their own photos up or they have nothing. I simply choose to get to know someone a little better before exchanging photos. It has not been a problem yet. I suppose some people might overlook you because of it. Oh well.

Dogs are pack animals and they maintain a strict hierarchy which can be observed in the wild in wolf packs. It would make sense that a dog that is considered an underling to the alpha, represented by the police officer, would become very loyal and defensive. They would take their cues from the alpha as they would in a pack environment.

Is it dirty? I will need to go look now. Later.

Whats a burma shave?

Well generally as a rule, women and probably men also dont want to feel as if the person they are with is only with them until something better comes along. Back up plan in most cases will be interpreted thus. It also would seem you are holding something back and are afraid to make that leap of faith and really engage yourself in the new relationship.

You are worried about failure so your solution is to always have a little sumthin on the back burner...

How do you think your new interest feels about your "back-up plan"?

I like that part when that one guy had to be translated with sub titles. The Scottish accent can be very difficult when its strong. Its English, yet not English. It sounds so different.