Cant you just give them baths? Sorry couldn't resist.

I love those. I used to have a book of "sniglets." Ive heard those are somewhat valuable now because that guy only wrote so many.

Arachinidiot-One who walks into a spiderweb and then flails about wildly.

Typically, when it comes to the menfolk, I dont expect them to "do anything for me." They dont have to make me laugh. Its up to me to entertain myself. I probably would do just as well with a stoic introvert. I dont require a full time stand up comedian occupying a space in my bed.

I was speaking from my own personal experience. Any Christian person I have ever met seems to fear human sexuality on some level. They shun it in fact. Atheists do not do this. An atheist is truly in contact with the human aspect involved in making love and sharing that personal connection between two people (not necessarily a man and a woman either). It does not involve marriage nor is condemnation an integral part. Christian is not defined as "religious" necessarily either.

I see. Well in that case it sounds like the relationship had run its course so to keep all of that bottled up inside would have been bad and just drug it on longer then it should have continued. If those were your genuine thoughts and it no longer even occurs to you to attempt to spare the person's feelings...

Well yes that can be true in some cases but wouldnt that apply more to "white lies?" Like how is this new haircut or do these jeans make me look fat? Not cheating and so forth.

Oh Im sorry I just saw that you were in Scotland. Did Seinfeld run there?

Im so glad she's returned. I have a couple dogs also and I remember once the male got out but he actually wandered off fairly local and returned after about three hours all hot and overheated from the sun and no water. Hes never done it since. They scare the crap out of you when they do such things.

Not all men are deceptive. Not all women are deceptive. You need to turn it around by projecting a more desirable self image. Of course one always needs to take routine precautions and especially when meeting someone from an internet dating site, but if you go into each and every encounter with the conclusion already been rendered that "he's going to lie to me" then you will continue to attract the only kind of men who will put up with that mindset. So in a sense its a self-fulfilling prophecy. Cheer up.

Oh well please dont misunderstand. I dont think I am suffering from PMDD like you are which sounds much more serious. I have the typical PMS symptoms. A little water gain, craving salty snacks, not wanting to exercise and feeling fatigue for about a week leading up to my period. The worst part of it is the emotional stress. I just feel more raw and I will snap at people and lose my patience. I might bring up past instances or memories that happened years earlier and re-hash an entire argument over it.

So I dont think its as bad as what you are experiencing. I just wanted to make that clear and hope you can find a suitable treatment. I know they have something now. Yazz? Have you asked your GYN?

Did you ever see that episode of "Seinfeld" with the "Not that there is anything wrong with that" in reference to homosexuals?

Neither have I ever become "aggressive". I mentioned talking to the bartender if the problem persisted. I have done this in the past. I feel its a fair and reasonable course of action to politely tell someone (male or female) you are not interested but if they continue, something else would need to be done.

Less fear and repression. Also an atheist is much more willing to experience sexuality on many levels other than procreation. They dont typically have hang ups about marriage nor is it a requirement for them to enjoy making love. They dont tend to need contracts with the state in order to establish their love for another or to validate within their on contious framework.

I find this entire thread to be discombobulating.

I just have regular PMS and it seems to have gotten worse as Ive gotten older. Just extreme anxiousness and I tend to become a little overly emotional and short with people.

Ive heard about this and its very real. It happens to people very often if they move from one climate to another or to a place with a long dark winter that they are not used to. Basically you just need to use your light therapy and also get some form of exercise in the winter when its dark like a treadmill. Get yourself very tired so you sleep well at night. Humans are effected by light just like all animals. Make sure you are getting enough Vitamin D in your diet also.

Ahh!

Oh the schweaty-balls! I dont even need to watch it. I remember watching that one on SNL. Its up there with the "cowbell" skit!