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Topic: Old Fashion...
me2g's photo
Fri 03/28/08 09:37 AM

Just curious,how many still open the car door for a woman?In 13 yrs my ex never did.Then with the guy I"m with now,does all the time.Get this he even ordered my dinner for me,not picked what I ate just asked and said the lady will have...I never had that happen,kinda threw me for a bit.So how many still do this?


Isnt that just plain and simply part of being a "man" and not just some guy? its the way i was raised and dont forget.. listen, never raise a hand no matter how mad or right you are. flowers sent to her work just because you were thinkin of her..
chivalry isnt dead... it is being forgotten tho

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Fri 03/28/08 09:38 AM

Opening doors, pulling out chairs, helping with coats, man on the curb side when walking, it's still all done. I do it no matter how long I'm with a woman. Acting the gentleman is not something done at the start of dating just to impress a woman, that's being deceptive. Being a gentleman is part of one's character and is a behavior that does not fade with time.


I could not express my intentions any better ... I will sit over here ...drinker laugh

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Fri 03/28/08 09:39 AM
I hold doors open for girls or anyone really. I would open the car door.. I do it for my mom sometimes.. I've never been on a date where I used my car or went out to eat so i can't really answer the main question sorry.

bigsullivan54's photo
Fri 03/28/08 09:45 AM
i open car doors, normal doors, i pull out chairs
i thought that was normal
huh

BobbyJ's photo
Fri 03/28/08 10:15 AM


Opening doors, pulling out chairs, helping with coats, man on the curb side when walking, it's still all done. I do it no matter how long I'm with a woman. Acting the gentleman is not something done at the start of dating just to impress a woman, that's being deceptive. Being a gentleman is part of one's character and is a behavior that does not fade with time.


:heart: :heart: :heart: MARRY ME! :heart: :heart: :heart:


I'd accept, but the last woman I was married to proposed to me while we were on a Caribbean Cruise. I accepted and we were married a few months later. She walked out after one year explaining; "I spent too many years single and I don't like living in a partnership". So as I said, I'd accept..but..... :wink:

pkh's photo
Fri 03/28/08 02:32 PM
Nice to see so many still do itflowerforyou

sleeplessingermany's photo
Fri 03/28/08 02:41 PM
i like it when a guy has good manners.

i have to admit, it has always impressed me when a man holds a door open for me. this shows his respect...i like that!
:smile: :smile:

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Sat 03/29/08 06:21 AM
i dont. i open doors for others to be polite. dont think ive ever pulled a chair out and pushed it in. i know i havent opened any car doors for anyone. i helped a few people lift some stuff in their trunk recently cause they needed some extra hands for the rope. i dont think im rude, i just dont like women who cant open doors or operate chairs.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 03/29/08 06:30 AM
It's just plain manners.

I just love most of the (so called) Old Fashion gestures.

I will hold a door for a GUY if I have the chance.
I will ask how you are AND wait for an answer intently.

Getting up when a lady leaves the table is not just out of respect for her.......it's out of respect for yourself!

I'm not sure about anyone else, but I think the world could use a few more pleases and thank yous........EVEN IF IT WON'T HELP YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING LAID!

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sat 03/29/08 07:56 AM

It's just plain manners.

I just love most of the (so called) Old Fashion gestures.

I will hold a door for a GUY if I have the chance.
I will ask how you are AND wait for an answer intently.

Getting up when a lady leaves the table is not just out of respect for her.......it's out of respect for yourself!

I'm not sure about anyone else, but I think the world could use a few more pleases and thank yous........EVEN IF IT WON'T HELP YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING LAID!


....i wish there were more guys like you on this planet! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :smile:

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