Topic: Pre approved Cheating
yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/15/08 07:09 AM
I fixed it

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/15/08 07:14 AM
gotta go- late for work!

lilangel2's photo
Sat 03/15/08 07:19 AM
Sounds like you need a pre-approved skillet upside your head bigsmile

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/15/08 07:22 AM
Edited by OrangeCat on Sat 03/15/08 07:28 AM

Why not have open Marrages? People are going to cheat, or think about it a billion times. Just let the other person know before you do it. Have a cheat contract. Before you cheat, you let the other partner sign off on it.



I really dont know whats going inside that head of yours,u need to keep in your head,pls dont let it out

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 03/15/08 07:36 AM

Why not have open Marrages? People are going to cheat, or think about it a billion times. Just let the other person know before you do it. Have a cheat contract. Before you cheat, you let the other partner sign off on it.


No thanks. Anyway you sign off then it's not cheating. LMAO

ellgee1976's photo
Sat 03/15/08 07:44 AM
wow...this topic is still on the top 5??

i thought it'd be buried with the rest of the "stupid" threads lol laugh laugh

monkdog8888's photo
Sat 03/15/08 08:03 AM


I've known people that have been involved in an "open" relationship like that before. In both cases the relationship has ended in divorce.


i think there was more wrong with the marriage then. i have a couple friend that have done it for years and very much in love. to them...it makes them able to open up and closer with the partner.

not saying it's right or wrong...it's a choice they make as a couple


I agree. It's a choice the couple has to make together. Personally, NO if married, that Pu##y belongs to me and my D#ck belongs to her and her only.bigsmile

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/15/08 03:56 PM

wow...this topic is still on the top 5??

i thought it'd be buried with the rest of the "stupid" threads lol laugh laugh


no, yellowrose and I kept it going. We like stupid threads!

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 03/15/08 03:58 PM
Why even get married if you are going to sleep around just stay single and jump from bed to bed. Shshshshshsh not for me not now not ever. shshshsnoway noway noway noway noway noway smokin

starryeyed346's photo
Sat 03/15/08 03:59 PM
uh.. no.. not brilliant. I dont think being monogamous is that difficult.

There is no excuse for cheating.

Single_Rob's photo
Sat 03/15/08 03:59 PM
well my hand and I have an understanding.if the right woman come along, he is out of a job

elsathebloody's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:04 PM
The thrill is the fact that you're not supposed to do it.

It's all the same down if you turn the lights off.
And if you really like this other person more than your spouse, divorce your spouse.

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:04 PM

uh.. no.. not brilliant. I dont think being monogamous is that difficult.

There is no excuse for cheating.


This is what kept the thread going ..me and yellowrose explaining this to people..cheating implies deception. There is no deception if both parties agree this is something that they both want to do, that makes them both happy in the context of their marriage. I could see why people would not personally want to do this, but why is everyone so judgemental of the people who do want to live this way? They aren't hurting anyone.

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:06 PM

The thrill is the fact that you're not supposed to do it.

It's all the same down if you turn the lights off.
And if you really like this other person more than your spouse, divorce your spouse.


You can love your spouse and still like someone else. Love and sex are two totally different things. I think people are getting them mixed up.

adj4u's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:06 PM

Well I think I would just rather stay single.


insert thumbs up emoticon here

starryeyed346's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:07 PM
They may be different to you, but they are connotations to me.

I dont have one without the other. Ever.

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:09 PM

They may be different to you, but they are connotations to me.

I dont have one without the other. Ever.


yes, but that is you. Do you judge other people if they see it differently? That is all I am talking about. I would not want an open relationship either - too jealous - but I don't see anything morally wrong with a choice that makes two people happy and hurts no one.

markecephus's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:24 PM

What then, is the point of union between two people who vow to love and cherish each other? Maybe i'm just old fashioned, lol, i'm definitely old....but why be married then, why not stay on the dating scene for the rest of a miserable life with no meaning. I would rather sit here alone from now on, than live with someone who is so self indulged and immoral that the vows of marriage do not apply to a loving relationship, but then thats just my opinion.

lulu24's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:27 PM
i have an old friend from high school; she's married with child...

they have an open relationship. she gets dressed up, goes and gets some strange...then comes home and tells him all about it. he does the same...

they appear to have an AMAZING relationship...and are all about each other. they've made it close to ten years...

sex and love can be completely separate for me...so i can totally see how this would work. every relationship, every dynamic is different.

as long as they are not hurting each other, who are we to complain?

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:31 PM


What then, is the point of union between two people who vow to love and cherish each other? Maybe i'm just old fashioned, lol, i'm definitely old....but why be married then, why not stay on the dating scene for the rest of a miserable life with no meaning. I would rather sit here alone from now on, than live with someone who is so self indulged and immoral that the vows of marriage do not apply to a loving relationship, but then thats just my opinion.


I guess my question is, then , is sex the only reason that people get married? I don't think an open marriage is like being "on the dating scene for the rest of a miserable life with no meaning" when we are talking about two people who love each other and are doing something that makes both of them happy. Why do people keep saying that they have no right to be married? I am puzzled. Is there one and only one way for everyone to do it? Or can we each chose our own path? It seems to me that everyone is saying that if people want an open marriage then they have no right to be married. That seems harsh to me.