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Topic: I've been thinking
ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 10:52 AM
Has anyone ever had that one relationship that they have never truly gotten over? The one that seems that no matter what you tell yourself, what you do, or how much time passes you still find yourself imprisoned by the possibilities of what might have been? sorry <-is tired and has a lot on his mind today I was just curious as to how many people have had this happen have you been reading my diary?

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Thu 03/13/08 10:58 AM
I was thinking about this overnight. Do you think that we hold on to the hurt, because this is the only thing we have left of this person, in a sense. Just thought I would throw that out there! <-is pondering that one me too!!! Cause if that is why I am holding on to it, I seriously need to let it go!

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 10:59 AM
I was thinking about this overnight. Do you think that we hold on to the hurt, because this is the only thing we have left of this person, in a sense. Just thought I would throw that out there! <-is pondering that one me too!!! Cause if that is why I am holding on to it, I seriously need to let it go! Well good luck Jeep Let me know if that one works out

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 11:00 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that?

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 11:04 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 11:05 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 11:06 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 11:08 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right huh. all this time I thought I was the only one. Thanks for the topic.

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Thu 03/13/08 11:08 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though When someone tries to sweep me off my feet, I run like H**l the other way!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 11:11 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though When someone tries to sweep me off my feet, I run like H**l the other way! yeah, me too. I once said I prefer my men disinterested and 1000 miles away. Sigh. I keep thinking that someday I will find someone I WANT to sweep me off my feet...

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 11:13 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right huh. all this time I thought I was the only one. Thanks for the topic. yw trust me you won't see many serious topics posted by me this could very well be my first one

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Thu 03/13/08 11:35 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right huh. all this time I thought I was the only one. Thanks for the topic. yw trust me you won't see many serious topics posted by me this could very well be my first one Good!! Sweetie, I don't like thinking like this!

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Thu 03/13/08 11:37 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though When someone tries to sweep me off my feet, I run like H**l the other way! yeah, me too. I once said I prefer my men disinterested and 1000 miles away. Sigh. I keep thinking that someday I will find someone I WANT to sweep me off my feet... I just want a date. No long term commiments, I am not ready for anything like that, but finding someone ok with this is difficult!

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 11:54 AM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right huh. all this time I thought I was the only one. Thanks for the topic. yw trust me you won't see many serious topics posted by me this could very well be my first one Good!! Sweetie, I don't like thinking like this! welcome to my world

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Thu 03/13/08 12:02 PM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right huh. all this time I thought I was the only one. Thanks for the topic. yw trust me you won't see many serious topics posted by me this could very well be my first one Good!! Sweetie, I don't like thinking like this! welcome to my world I like it better when you are funny!!!

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 12:11 PM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right huh. all this time I thought I was the only one. Thanks for the topic. yw trust me you won't see many serious topics posted by me this could very well be my first one Good!! Sweetie, I don't like thinking like this! welcome to my world I like it better when you are funny!!! well I will have to see if I can find that box on the shelf that has my sense of humor in it then

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Thu 03/13/08 12:15 PM Edited by sweetjeep on Thu 03/13/08 12:16 PM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right huh. all this time I thought I was the only one. Thanks for the topic. yw trust me you won't see many serious topics posted by me this could very well be my first one Good!! Sweetie, I don't like thinking like this! welcome to my world I like it better when you are funny!!! well I will have to see if I can find that box on the shelf that has my sense of humor in it then Mine is slowly making a return. Your is there, I have seen it!! I know it exists!!

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 12:16 PM
and every potential mate that follows is doomed by one critical flaw - they aren't that person. sigh. Only he can be him. How can anyone else compete with that? I know the feeling I keep thinking ..someone will sweep me off my feet and be all that he was to me and more... I can't get my head around the idea though yep that sounds about right huh. all this time I thought I was the only one. Thanks for the topic. yw trust me you won't see many serious topics posted by me this could very well be my first one Good!! Sweetie, I don't like thinking like this! welcome to my world I like it better when you are funny!!! well I will have to see if I can find that box on the shelf that has my sense of humor in it then Mine is slowly making a return. Your is there, I have seen it!! I know it exsists!! then perhaps you can tell me where I put it

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Thu 03/13/08 12:17 PM
searching I know, look under the bed, things always end up under the bed!!

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Thu 03/13/08 12:18 PM
searching I know, look under the bed, things always end up under the bed!! nope not there ONly my kiddos my little pony stash