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sweetjeep
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Wed 03/12/08 05:22 PM
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I am unable to deal with the fact that I know with every fiber of my being that this person is wrong from me, but I can not get those "what if" thoughts out of my mind. Or the fantasies that they will change and life will be all good once again! 
Exactly!!! the "what if's" kick my butt two years!! Big hugs to you! Man, mine has only been nine months! Oh, I could have had a baby!! *shutters at the thought* |
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sweetjeep...why would you cheat yourself out of love?
No one is worth that to me. |
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!! 
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts It gets better Chris...but I think I will always consider him "the one that got away"..  but I don't want her to be the one that got away
All I can say to that and forgive me if this sounds ignorant...then dont let her be.... I wish it were that easy
I really do 
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sweetjeep...why would you cheat yourself out of love? No one is worth that to me. I know,its a scary thought that I might never love again. I have big trust and commiment issues! I am unable to even own a pet at this point!  Not even a house fly!!
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!!
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts It gets better Chris...but I think I will always consider him "the one that got away".. but I don't want her to be the one that got away
All I can say to that and forgive me if this sounds ignorant...then dont let her be.... I wish it were that easy
I really do
Just dont give up Chris...if you feel tha strongly about this woman then shes worth fighting for..if its distance.. well then thats just a matter of geography...if its other things.. find a way to work it out... it may b the best thing you ever do and in the end, whether it works out or doesnt,it will be worht knowing...NOT living with the "what if's"...all my love Chris.. you know I think your the best!!! |
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!!
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts It gets better Chris...but I think I will always consider him "the one that got away".. but I don't want her to be the one that got away
All I can say to that and forgive me if this sounds ignorant...then dont let her be.... I wish it were that easy
I really do
Just dont give up Chris...if you feel tha strongly about this woman then shes worth fighting for..if its distance.. well then thats just a matter of geography...if its other things.. find a way to work it out... it may b the best thing you ever do and in the end, whether it works out or doesnt,it will be worht knowing...NOT living with the "what if's"...all my love Chris.. you know I think your the best!!!
(((((Missy)))))))) |
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!!
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts It gets better Chris...but I think I will always consider him "the one that got away".. but I don't want her to be the one that got away
All I can say to that and forgive me if this sounds ignorant...then dont let her be.... I wish it were that easy
I really do
Just dont give up Chris...if you feel tha strongly about this woman then shes worth fighting for..if its distance.. well then thats just a matter of geography...if its other things.. find a way to work it out... it may b the best thing you ever do and in the end, whether it works out or doesnt,it will be worht knowing...NOT living with the "what if's"...all my love Chris.. you know I think your the best!!!
(((((Missy)))))))) Aww we need a lil hugging emoticon guy... ((((Chris))))
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!!
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts It gets better Chris...but I think I will always consider him "the one that got away".. but I don't want her to be the one that got away
All I can say to that and forgive me if this sounds ignorant...then dont let her be.... I wish it were that easy
I really do
Just dont give up Chris...if you feel tha strongly about this woman then shes worth fighting for..if its distance.. well then thats just a matter of geography...if its other things.. find a way to work it out... it may b the best thing you ever do and in the end, whether it works out or doesnt,it will be worht knowing...NOT living with the "what if's"...all my love Chris.. you know I think your the best!!!
(((((Missy)))))))) Aww we need a lil hugging emoticon guy... ((((Chris))))
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Anytime sweetie!!!
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My ex wife. I still have got round to killing her. I still think about what I might have accomplished (and how much more fun I would have had) if I had not wasted 8 years of my life with my X-husband. 
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yup Having no closure does, you just move forward, enjoy and remember the good times, it gets easier kid. trust me die in the past or live for tomorrow. I think is called falling in love...and even more...finding the love of your life! That you'll never forget, u'll take it with you in the grave. |
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sweetjeep...everyone has issues...and gasp!..drama. That's what life is. I wouldn't be who I am now, without past experiences. I value all of them. Even those I wish wouldn't have happened, or went on too long. |
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Has anyone ever had that one relationship that they have never truly gotten over? The one that seems that no matter what you tell yourself, what you do, or how much time passes you still find yourself imprisoned by the possibilities of what might have been? sorry <-is tired and has a lot on his mind today I was just curious as to how many people have had this happen Look at it as a good thing--- It means you really have the ability to completly love someone, rather their with you or not. thats the real thing honey, just gotta remember what it felt like, why it would never could never work, and now that there is somethin even better out there!! Real love may fade over time, but when someone is in your heart, they just will always be!! the possibility could be just so you'll recognize it next time love crosses your path!! lol, just cant be scared and still holdin on to the old when it does!! |
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yup Having no closure does, you just move forward, enjoy and remember the good times, it gets easier kid. trust me die in the past or live for tomorrow. I think is called falling in love...and even more...finding the love of your life! That you'll never forget, u'll take it with you in the grave.
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yup Having no closure does, you just move forward, enjoy and remember the good times, it gets easier kid. trust me die in the past or live for tomorrow. I think is called falling in love...and even more...finding the love of your life! That you'll never forget, u'll take it with you in the grave.
Smacks Chris up side da head "you are too young to be jaded" |
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yup Having no closure does, you just move forward, enjoy and remember the good times, it gets easier kid. trust me die in the past or live for tomorrow. I think is called falling in love...and even more...finding the love of your life! That you'll never forget, u'll take it with you in the grave.
Smacks Chris up side da head "you are too young to be jaded" 
and I'm to tired to be awake <--been up for two days I'm off to bed Later Nicki
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I was thinking about this overnight. Do you think that we hold on to the hurt, because this is the only thing we have left of this person, in a sense. Just thought I would throw that out there!
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I was thinking about this overnight. Do you think that we hold on to the hurt, because this is the only thing we have left of this person, in a sense. Just thought I would throw that out there!
<-is pondering that one |
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Has anyone ever had that one relationship that they have never truly gotten over? The one that seems that no matter what you tell yourself, what you do, or how much time passes you still find yourself imprisoned by the possibilities of what might have been? sorry <-is tired and has a lot on his mind today I was just curious as to how many people have had this happen have you been reading my diary? |
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