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well Ive usually been screwed around & used so even though I cared alot, I knew it was best for them tobe out of my life. I figure someday, somebody will appreciate me & I will never hve to go through that anymore. Makes two of us Lady. I can't say I've ever had distance be a problem. The way I see it, if it was REALLY meant to be, it would be. One or the other would take the steps. Distance should never be an issue, it's only miles. If she really is the one, then you should do what you need to do. Sorry if this sounds harsh. It sounds realistic NOw if you can find a way to translate that over to my heart and brain so they get it then you will a genius thanx for the input Well, I'm not a genius sorry. I can't tell my own heart and brain to get some translations lol. However, I read down further on the forum and I notice you said it would require YOU to leave your daughter. I'm sorry if I sound harsh again Darlin', but it's a two way street. If it's really the right "one" and she feels the same, she would make the effort as well. Of course, that is my own personal opinion. Like I said, it's just miles. I'm here to tell you that if I found the one and they couldn't leave, you bet your *ss I'd go there. IF it truly was the "one". My boys would go with me of course, but I have sole custody of them, noone on the other end to worry about. I'm sure the situation is different, but all I'm saying is that it's a two way street, no way that you should have to be the only one trying. Just an opinion 
IDK <---is gonna have to think some more I guess |
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Has anyone ever had that one relationship that they have never truly gotten over? The one that seems that no matter what you tell yourself, what you do, or how much time passes you still find yourself imprisoned by the possibilities of what might have been? sorry <-is tired and has a lot on his mind today I was just curious as to how many people have had this happen 
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obscure...distance is also a choice. Yaneverknow what will happen down the road... Until then look at what make you smile. 
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Edited by
Twitch
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Wed 03/12/08 05:02 PM
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Kris -- I'm going through it right now and it sucks.
I see him all the time and it's very hard avoiding him. Just saw him an hour ago and I hurt right now. Don't know when the hurt will stop. 
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Kris -- I'm going through it right now and it sucks. I see him all the time and it's very hard avoiding him. Just saw him an hour ago and I hurt right now. Don't know when the hurt will stop.
 my problem is I don't get to see her
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Kris -- I'm going through it right now and it sucks. I see him all the time and it's very hard avoiding him. Just saw him an hour ago and I hurt right now. Don't know when the hurt will stop.
my problem is I don't get to see her
I don't have an answer for you honey; I don't know which is worse -- seeing them or not seeing them. Anyway way you look at it -- it hurts.
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Kris -- I'm going through it right now and it sucks. I see him all the time and it's very hard avoiding him. Just saw him an hour ago and I hurt right now. Don't know when the hurt will stop.
my problem is I don't get to see her
I don't have an answer for you honey; I don't know which is worse -- seeing them or not seeing them. Anyway way you look at it -- it hurts.
Thats a tough one |
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But think about it...I know your thinkin too much already!... If you didn't hurt, you wouldn't have loved. Must have been good stuff there to hurt. You threw yourself out there, you'll never find what you want if you don't. |
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But think about it...I know your thinkin too much already!... If you didn't hurt, you wouldn't have loved. Must have been good stuff there to hurt. You threw yourself out there, you'll never find what you want if you don't. Thank you |
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Edited by
missy51970
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Wed 03/12/08 05:14 PM
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us...
Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!! 
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!!
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts |
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I am unable to deal with the fact that I know with every fiber of my being that this person is wrong from me, but I can not get those "what if" thoughts out of my mind. Or the fantasies that they will change and life will be all good once again!
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wow I never thought I would get such a response from this
I thank you all for your input |
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!!
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts It gets better Chris...but I think I will always consider him "the one that got away".. |
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I am unable to deal with the fact that I know with every fiber of my being that this person is wrong from me, but I can not get those "what if" thoughts out of my mind. Or the fantasies that they will change and life will be all good once again!
Exactly!!! the "what if's" kick my butt |
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wow I never thought I would get such a response from this I thank you all for your input Not sure mine was input, but I certainly can relate! It makes me wonder if I will ever let myself love again like that! To be truly in love with someone ever again!
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!!
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts It gets better Chris...but I think I will always consider him "the one that got away".. but I don't want her to be the one that got away
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missy..I hear that! I've tried a LDR...what the hell was I thinkin? Oh yeah...that I cared about them a lot. Wouldn't trade him for the world, but at some point it has to change. |
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wow I never thought I would get such a response from this I thank you all for your input Not sure mine was input, but I certainly can relate! It makes me wonder if I will ever let myself love again like that! To be truly in love with someone ever again!
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Chris~ I think it happens to the best of us... Ive definately got it goin on in my life.. I guess we just have to try and pick up the pieces and move on the best way we know how.. Its been 2 years for me and it still hurts but I also know its time to get on with life, love and happiness...
Kisses darlin!!!
oh man
((((((Missy)))))))))) I don't know if I can deal with it for that long <-----is gonna have to get some new hobbies or something or he's gonna go nuts It gets better Chris...but I think I will always consider him "the one that got away".. but I don't want her to be the one that got away
All I can say to that and forgive me if this sounds ignorant...then dont let her be.... |
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