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Topic: I've been thinking
ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Wed 03/12/08 03:36 PM
well distance is a problem all too often for me b/c no one lives anywhere near me, so either way, Im left out. I was just saying how different things can affect the way you feel about someone.

starre_74 Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 132	Wed 03/12/08 03:37 PM
well Ive usually been screwed around & used so even though I cared alot, I knew it was best for them tobe out of my life. I figure someday, somebody will appreciate me & I will never hve to go through that anymore. Makes two of us Lady. I can't say I've ever had distance be a problem. The way I see it, if it was REALLY meant to be, it would be. One or the other would take the steps. Distance should never be an issue, it's only miles. If she really is the one, then you should do what you need to do. Sorry if this sounds harsh.

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:37 PM
well distance is a problem all too often for me b/c no one lives anywhere near me, so either way, Im left out. I was just saying how different things can affect the way you feel about someone. true thanks for the input Liz

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 03/12/08 03:38 PM
well distance is a problem all too often for me b/c no one lives anywhere near me, so either way, Im left out. I was just saying how different things can affect the way you feel about someone. true thanks for the input Liz concentrate on being a dad, if its meant to be it will be.

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:39 PM
well Ive usually been screwed around & used so even though I cared alot, I knew it was best for them tobe out of my life. I figure someday, somebody will appreciate me & I will never hve to go through that anymore. Makes two of us Lady. I can't say I've ever had distance be a problem. The way I see it, if it was REALLY meant to be, it would be. One or the other would take the steps. Distance should never be an issue, it's only miles. If she really is the one, then you should do what you need to do. Sorry if this sounds harsh. doesn't sound harsh It sounds realistic NOw if you can find a way to translate that over to my heart and brain so they get it then you will a genius thanx for the input

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 03/12/08 03:39 PM
Yes it started when I was 15, and we just broke up again for the 4th time in our lives in July.... Can't get over... I'd say so.

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:40 PM
well distance is a problem all too often for me b/c no one lives anywhere near me, so either way, Im left out. I was just saying how different things can affect the way you feel about someone. true thanks for the input Liz concentrate on being a dad, if its meant to be it will be. That is my priority right now MAKE SURE KIDDO IS HAPPY thanx for the input

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 03/12/08 03:43 PM
well distance is a problem all too often for me b/c no one lives anywhere near me, so either way, Im left out. I was just saying how different things can affect the way you feel about someone. true thanks for the input Liz concentrate on being a dad, if its meant to be it will be. That is my priority right now MAKE SURE KIDDO IS HAPPY thanx for the input No problem, stay strong! be happy, your child will notice!

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:45 PM
well distance is a problem all too often for me b/c no one lives anywhere near me, so either way, Im left out. I was just saying how different things can affect the way you feel about someone. true thanks for the input Liz concentrate on being a dad, if its meant to be it will be. That is my priority right now MAKE SURE KIDDO IS HAPPY thanx for the input No problem, stay strong! be happy, your child will notice! Even if I have to force it I will not allow for that child to see me not smiling She deserves nothing but happiness

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 03/12/08 03:48 PM
well distance is a problem all too often for me b/c no one lives anywhere near me, so either way, Im left out. I was just saying how different things can affect the way you feel about someone. true thanks for the input Liz concentrate on being a dad, if its meant to be it will be. That is my priority right now MAKE SURE KIDDO IS HAPPY thanx for the input No problem, stay strong! be happy, your child will notice! Even if I have to force it I will not allow for that child to see me not smiling She deserves nothing but happiness as do we all, its a choice. Not a search brother. A choice.

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Wed 03/12/08 03:48 PM
Btw, I have a crush that drives me crazy. He lives a long distance away & I know we willnever be together but I just cant give up. I keep hoping.........

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:49 PM
well distance is a problem all too often for me b/c no one lives anywhere near me, so either way, Im left out. I was just saying how different things can affect the way you feel about someone. true thanks for the input Liz concentrate on being a dad, if its meant to be it will be. That is my priority right now MAKE SURE KIDDO IS HAPPY thanx for the input No problem, stay strong! be happy, your child will notice! Even if I have to force it I will not allow for that child to see me not smiling She deserves nothing but happiness as do we all, its a choice. Not a search brother. A choice. to that!!!!!!!

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Wed 03/12/08 03:49 PM
Has anyone ever had that one relationship that they have never truly gotten over? The one that seems that no matter what you tell yourself, what you do, or how much time passes you still find yourself imprisoned by the possibilities of what might have been? sorry <-is tired and has a lot on his mind today I was just curious as to how many people have had this happen sounds like it sucks and its worse cuz there really isnt a good reason for it sorry that doesnt help

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:49 PM
Btw, I have a crush that drives me crazy. He lives a long distance away & I know we willnever be together but I just cant give up. I keep hoping......... well good luck to you Liz

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 03/12/08 03:53 PM
You can never move forward if you are always looking back man. You just have to let go, even if it was "your" fault. Learn, live, and don't repeat mistakes

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 03/12/08 03:54 PM
You can never move forward if you are always looking back man. You just have to let go, even if it was "your" fault. Learn, live, and don't repeat mistakes SUMS IT UP PRETTY WELL.

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:54 PM
You can never move forward if you are always looking back man. You just have to let go, even if it was "your" fault. Learn, live, and don't repeat mistakes thanks man but it was no ones fault only distance

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 03/12/08 03:57 PM
You can never move forward if you are always looking back man. You just have to let go, even if it was "your" fault. Learn, live, and don't repeat mistakes thanks man but it was no ones fault only distance I jsut meant that in general terms brother. The one thing that I can honestly say though is if you want something bad enough, you will do whatever it takes to make it happen. When I opened my first business I needed 150k, I had 5k. I made it happen, you can do anything you want if you truly want it

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 04:00 PM
You can never move forward if you are always looking back man. You just have to let go, even if it was "your" fault. Learn, live, and don't repeat mistakes thanks man but it was no ones fault only distance I jsut meant that in general terms brother. The one thing that I can honestly say though is if you want something bad enough, you will do whatever it takes to make it happen. When I opened my first business I needed 150k, I had 5k. I made it happen, you can do anything you want if you truly want it I hear ya man but the only way I can achieve this is by leaving my daughter behind and there is NO possible way that I would ever consider it but thanx man

starre_74 Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 132	Wed 03/12/08 04:41 PM
well Ive usually been screwed around & used so even though I cared alot, I knew it was best for them tobe out of my life. I figure someday, somebody will appreciate me & I will never hve to go through that anymore. Makes two of us Lady. I can't say I've ever had distance be a problem. The way I see it, if it was REALLY meant to be, it would be. One or the other would take the steps. Distance should never be an issue, it's only miles. If she really is the one, then you should do what you need to do. Sorry if this sounds harsh. doesn't sound harsh It sounds realistic NOw if you can find a way to translate that over to my heart and brain so they get it then you will a genius thanx for the input Well, I'm not a genius sorry. I can't tell my own heart and brain to get some translations lol. However, I read down further on the forum and I notice you said it would require YOU to leave your daughter. I'm sorry if I sound harsh again Darlin', but it's a two way street. If it's really the right "one" and she feels the same, she would make the effort as well. Of course, that is my own personal opinion. Like I said, it's just miles. I'm here to tell you that if I found the one and they couldn't leave, you bet your *ss I'd go there. IF it truly was the "one". My boys would go with me of course, but I have sole custody of them, noone on the other end to worry about. I'm sure the situation is different, but all I'm saying is that it's a two way street, no way that you should have to be the only one trying. Just an opinion