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Topic: I've been thinking
Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Wed 03/12/08 03:20 PM
P.S. Thinking to much can be bad for you. don't need to tell me that one Trust me I know and have lots of experience on thinking to much Learn to be happy independent, a chick can t make u happy, she can compliment your joy. Very well said. The truth at it's most basic and pure form.

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 03/12/08 03:20 PM
Yes, especially when I was pregnant and alone. It's all I could think about. Now I'm much wiser.

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 03/12/08 03:21 PM
Yes, especially when I was pregnant and alone. It's all I could think about. Now I'm much wiser. and stronger i bet ,hun.

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:22 PM
Thanks for all the input everyone I appreciate it

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 03/12/08 03:22 PM
Yes, especially when I was pregnant and alone. It's all I could think about. Now I'm much wiser. and stronger i bet ,hun. Definatly!

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 03/12/08 03:23 PM
Has anyone ever had that one relationship that they have never truly gotten over? The one that seems that no matter what you tell yourself, what you do, or how much time passes you still find yourself imprisoned by the possibilities of what might have been? sorry <-is tired and has a lot on his mind today I was just curious as to how many people have had this happen Yes... I do have one like that But I am putting on my big girl panties and marching forward

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 03/12/08 03:23 PM
Thanks for all the input everyone I appreciate it keep busy, i played sports everday

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:23 PM
Has anyone ever had that one relationship that they have never truly gotten over? The one that seems that no matter what you tell yourself, what you do, or how much time passes you still find yourself imprisoned by the possibilities of what might have been? sorry <-is tired and has a lot on his mind today I was just curious as to how many people have had this happen Yes... I do have one like that But I am putting on my big girl panties and marching forward

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 03/12/08 03:24 PM
My ex wife. I still have got round to killing her. Im not a big fan of my ex either, but she's the mother of my 2 awesome kid's and to say that is just plain stupid. I agree. Thanks Chuck, how goes it my friend.

68chevy Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 6926	Wed 03/12/08 03:24 PM
Yea still working on one now, someone who never should have been a part of my life, someone who pretended to be a person they never really were...a fantasy. She tryed to be everthing she thought I wanted, and turns out she was nothing like the person she pretended to be. I never really knew the real her.

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:24 PM
Thanks for all the input everyone I appreciate it keep busy, i played sports everday Well I got a little one to chase after but she has to sleep at some point you know?

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:25 PM
Yea still working on one now, someone who never should have been a part of my life, someone who pretended to be a person they never really were...a fantasy. She tryed to be everthing she thought I wanted, and turns out she was nothing like the person she pretended to be. I never really knew the real her. See thats the thing I never have nor will regret any of the times I spent with this person. She just lives so far away

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Wed 03/12/08 03:25 PM
nope i live for today and the past is past...got to much fun ahead to dwell

LIJOMA Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 2591	Wed 03/12/08 03:27 PM
You seem like a nice person, you will do what is best for you in the long run.

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 03/12/08 03:28 PM
My ex wife. I still have got round to killing her. Im not a big fan of my ex either, but she's the mother of my 2 awesome kid's and to say that is just plain stupid. I agree. Thanks Chuck, how goes it my friend. Same as you I bet, single dad work, fight for a night to myself. But good! ty you?

GuideHenri Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 632	Wed 03/12/08 03:28 PM
My ex wife. I still have got round to killing her. Im not a big fan of my ex either, but she's the mother of my 2 awesome kid's and to say that is just plain stupid. I agree. Thanks Chuck, how goes it my friend. Wow not going over someone can seriously damage your sense of humour

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 03/12/08 03:28 PM
My ex wife. I still have got round to killing her. Im not a big fan of my ex either, but she's the mother of my 2 awesome kid's and to say that is just plain stupid. I agree. Thanks Chuck, how goes it my friend. Same as you I bet, single dad work, fight for a night to myself. But good! ty you? Doing well, thanks.

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:29 PM
You seem like a nice person, you will do what is best for you in the long run. Well I don't worry so much about myself these days I worry more about my little ones well being then anything else

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Wed 03/12/08 03:33 PM
well Ive usually been screwed around & used so even though I cared alot, I knew it was best for them tobe out of my life. I figure someday, somebody will appreciate me & I will never hve to go through that anymore.

ObscureLight Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 5410	Wed 03/12/08 03:34 PM Edited by ObscureLight on Wed 03/12/08 03:35 PM
well Ive usually been screwed around & used so even though I cared alot, I knew it was best for them tobe out of my life. I figure someday, somebody will appreciate me & I will never hve to go through that anymore. that was never a problem for me Liz Only distance